Pointing out that Labour won not because they have gained popularity but because other parties lost votes is just what the numbers say. It doesn't make people who analyse those numbers sore losers. It just means they can think.
It also doesn't make the Reform gains any less terrifying. Just because they happened should we ignore Farage's troubling links to Putin. His misogyny? His racism?
It doesn't make the ousting of Jo Cox's sister by someone running on an anti jewish ticket any less troubling. There's a huge amount if racial tension in some areas of the North and they will become a ripe target for Reform going forwards.
It doesn't make the forthcoming decimation of women's rights any less serious. Those issues were brought to light only by brave women who stood up to the likes of Stonewall. JKR braved immense hatred to make the issues more widely acknowledged.
After brexit people who lamented the vote were branded remoaners. They could see the damage being inflicted on the UK but people tried to constantly to quiet them by calling them sore losers. In the end they were completely correct. Ironically many of those that voted Brexit now vote Reform despite Farage's long desired split from Europe being a shit show that has left the UK poorer and more isolated.
I personally would love to see a capable centrist Labour government which cared deeply about protecting the NHS. Reestablishing ties with Europe and protecting the vulnerable in society, including women. What we've got now under Starmer isn't that. It is far from that.
We've already seem women being raped in prisons and hospitals. Increased assaults in school"s unisex toilets. Bodies like the police being idealocially captured by Stonewall. The Tavistock scandal.
Starmer will have to pay his dues to his donors and this situation will worsen.
These things need to be said. It's fine for women to express their concerns without being scolded.