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14 years, Highest taxes in 70 years, Brexit, ‘F**k business’, Mini-budget, poverty increase, Covid lockdown parties, Doctors strikes, National Service, Rwanda, Culture Wars etc

145 replies

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 07:19

Please let today be Independence Day from the Tory regime.

Never forget.

OP posts:
Catza · 04/07/2024 10:19

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 10:13

Because male sex offenders often rape women in single sex spaces, particularly vulnerable ones in MH units, prisons and hospitals. Or is that okay as long as the man has his rights protected?

So it is OK, in your opinion, to subject transgender female to the same treatment when they are in a vulnerable position themselves?
I will say it again. The point is not to establish who has more rights at the expense of the other. The point is to create a system under which everyone can have equitable access to everything they need to live with dignity.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 10:19

Ginisatonic · 04/07/2024 10:18

But you’re not explaining how they will tax my bedroom and garden. Please enlighten me.

I am bored now. Read the Labour manifesto yourself.

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 10:20

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 10:19

I am bored now. Read the Labour manifesto yourself.

Bored when asked to back up your assertions with facts? Never!

DontBiteTheCat · 04/07/2024 10:21

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 10:19

I am bored now. Read the Labour manifesto yourself.

It’s not in the manifesto though, is it?

You’ve just linked a newspaper article (Torygraph) which reads “all the ways Labour COULD tax you” in another thread.

And we’re uneducated?

Itiswhysofew · 04/07/2024 10:22

Net zero Confused

HowIrresponsible · 04/07/2024 10:23

Catza · 04/07/2024 10:19

So it is OK, in your opinion, to subject transgender female to the same treatment when they are in a vulnerable position themselves?
I will say it again. The point is not to establish who has more rights at the expense of the other. The point is to create a system under which everyone can have equitable access to everything they need to live with dignity.

A transgender female is a man.

There is nothing wrong with making them use the correct facilities for their sex.

Ginisatonic · 04/07/2024 10:23

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 10:19

I am bored now. Read the Labour manifesto yourself.

I have. They won’t be taxing my bedroom or garden.
If you can’t back up your frankly ludicrous claims you need to bow out gracefully.

Catza · 04/07/2024 10:28

HowIrresponsible · 04/07/2024 10:23

A transgender female is a man.

There is nothing wrong with making them use the correct facilities for their sex.

So you would be happy for my transgender friend to use female toilets and share a changing room with you even though he has mastectomy, genital reconstruction, facial and chest hair and deep voice. I’d love to see that happening.

Wbeezer · 04/07/2024 10:37

I'm voting Labour even though I'm very disappointed by Keir Starmer saying no re-entry to EU or customs union in his lifetime, DH and I were hoping for something to help trade, we run a small niche manufacturing business which was growing nicely thanks to sales in Europe, it has now stopped growing and our retirement plans are greatly diminished.
I'll vote Labour this time but switch to Lib Dems next time if this does not change.

Humphriescushion · 04/07/2024 10:44

100 percent agree! Get the Tories out!

Underthinker · 04/07/2024 11:04

Catza · 04/07/2024 10:28

So you would be happy for my transgender friend to use female toilets and share a changing room with you even though he has mastectomy, genital reconstruction, facial and chest hair and deep voice. I’d love to see that happening.

Are you saying access to single sex spaces should be based on superficial appearance, and that gender non conforming people should not be allowed to use the services and spaces for their own sex?

Catza · 04/07/2024 11:15

Underthinker · 04/07/2024 11:04

Are you saying access to single sex spaces should be based on superficial appearance, and that gender non conforming people should not be allowed to use the services and spaces for their own sex?

No, I’m asking the PP if her convictions apply across all scenarios or just the select few where she can clearly identify what the person’s bilogical sex is. Do you often insert yourself into a conversation without offering much in a way of value to the debate?
Please feel free to answer my previous question. I have a few follow up points I will be happy to explore together.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:17

IF you are voting Labour are you ready for Angela Rayner to be PM?
With her hard left militants, because that is what is coming.

DontBiteTheCat · 04/07/2024 11:18

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:17

IF you are voting Labour are you ready for Angela Rayner to be PM?
With her hard left militants, because that is what is coming.

Yes 😊

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 11:18

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:17

IF you are voting Labour are you ready for Angela Rayner to be PM?
With her hard left militants, because that is what is coming.

Back again. Who are the current hard left militants in the Labour party?

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:19

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 11:18

Back again. Who are the current hard left militants in the Labour party?

80% of the party. Dark horses keeping quiet. Waiting for their moment. Do you suppose all the hard left just evaporated? Just like that! In a puff of smoke. Nope they are still all there, quiet as mice right now.

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:20

DontBiteTheCat · 04/07/2024 11:18

Yes 😊

Thought as much.

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 11:22

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:19

80% of the party. Dark horses keeping quiet. Waiting for their moment. Do you suppose all the hard left just evaporated? Just like that! In a puff of smoke. Nope they are still all there, quiet as mice right now.

The dictionary definition of swivel eyed.

KimberleyClark · 04/07/2024 11:24

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 11:22

The dictionary definition of swivel eyed.

Reds under the bed.

Underthinker · 04/07/2024 11:27

Catza · 04/07/2024 11:15

No, I’m asking the PP if her convictions apply across all scenarios or just the select few where she can clearly identify what the person’s bilogical sex is. Do you often insert yourself into a conversation without offering much in a way of value to the debate?
Please feel free to answer my previous question. I have a few follow up points I will be happy to explore together.

You mentioned your friend's appearance so it was reasonable to conclude that you think appearance should be the key factor in access to spaces (which would actually exclude the majority of trans people who do not pass).

I think sex should be the determining factor in who can access single sex spaces.

cupcaske123 · 04/07/2024 11:29

KimberleyClark · 04/07/2024 11:24

Reds under the bed.

Someone needs to get back into bed.

Ginisatonic · 04/07/2024 11:31

Hummingbird75 · 04/07/2024 11:17

IF you are voting Labour are you ready for Angela Rayner to be PM?
With her hard left militants, because that is what is coming.

Good grief. 🤣
You didn’t get anywhere with your taxing bedrooms and gardens argument so you’re back with more nonsense.

PinkCandles · 04/07/2024 11:31

DontBiteTheCat · 04/07/2024 07:44

I won’t forget. I was at the polling station at 7am this morning.

They voted to cut taxes on champagne the same day they voted to cut funding to rebuild school.

Rape convictions in 2022 stood at 459 out of 70,633 reported cases. More children than ever are living in poverty, the average kid won’t be able to afford to go to University (but they can do national service instead!), mental health services, domestic abuse services, sure start centres have disappeared and yet people claim the Tory’s give a shit about women’s rights?! They know how to parrot the definition of a woman but they do not give a single fuck about any of us.

I will not forget.

So true

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/07/2024 11:32

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 08:49

Condescending much?

I will be voting Labour. I’m comfortably off with a DC in private (another in state) but the country won’t survive another 5 years of the current version of these ghouls masquerading as Tory’s. They are not traditional Tory’s, they are disaster capitalist asset strippers who’ve been given the keys to the vault. They don’t care about this country, only how much they can take from it whilst wrapped in the flag to confuse voters.

I’m nowhere near as enthusiastic about current Labour as I was about Blair’s Labour in 1997, but at least Starmer appears to actually care about our country and the British people. I’m also being realistic in that I think although we will see some relatively minor short term improvements, it may take a while for transformational change. We’re in such bad shape at the moment.

This sums it up for me.

I didnt forget OP. I hand delivered my postal vote to my local authority as it was late.

I have grave reservations about Labour's position regarding transwomen but at the end of the day this Government terrifies me and they absolutely cannot be allowed to continue. The tories have utterly destroyed our country. The fightback by begins today.

Catza · 04/07/2024 11:32

Underthinker · 04/07/2024 11:27

You mentioned your friend's appearance so it was reasonable to conclude that you think appearance should be the key factor in access to spaces (which would actually exclude the majority of trans people who do not pass).

I think sex should be the determining factor in who can access single sex spaces.

I suspected that it was the PP’s view which is why I posed a question whether she would personally accept this person sharing the space with her without question. Which, I assume, she wouldn’t since we haven’t heard back. Hence, my opinion about the debate is confirmed - those set in their way of thinking are not able to see a logical fallacy of their own argument.
Now to the question of sex, would you require to see some kind of documentation when allowing someone who looks like a male into a female space so that they can prove they are biologically female. Or would you take their word for it?

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