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Voting labour for the first time. Anyone else?

571 replies

Lupina12 · 04/07/2024 06:31

Labour are far from perfect, but I like Keir Starmer and I think they are the best party to turn things around from the awful mess the incumbents have got us into.

He’s not glossy or witty or funny, but he seems decent - (he clearly has a wonderful wife and that only reflects well on him!)

Anyway, just curious - anyone else voting Labour for the first time? I’m 40 by the way and in the south east.

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LostTheMarble · 04/07/2024 07:00

Type2whattodo · 04/07/2024 06:53

Voting Tory for the first time ever, for Women's rights. Am quite terrified what Labour will do to Women and I have 2x DD.
I fully expect labour to win and sadly expect to have womens rights stripped away quite quickly after, until they wake up and start panicking and it'll be too late.

Labour are going to allow all sorts of fetishism in men to ID into women and I fear for my DD future. Lucky I hold citizenship to another country also and can leave if need be.

Me too, fully holding my nose doing so but the choice where I am is between the two. It’s not just women’s rights (and that’s far more than just the trans ideology) that Labour are obviously failing to address, their plan for education is piss poor and that’s a huge issue for me. I have no issue with our current conservative MP so not worth spoiling my ballot.

FloatingWoman · 04/07/2024 07:01

NamechangersRuleHere · 04/07/2024 06:58

No, I’m voting Tory. My MP is a decent man, really well respected for his work as a former Secretary of State even though BoJo sacked him off from that post. I hope he gets back in.

I used to be a Labour Party member, left because of Corbyn and see no reason to return whatsoever.

I don’t believe you. From Labour in 2015 to this corrupt government?

Mercurial123 · 04/07/2024 07:02

Fuzziduck · 04/07/2024 06:40

No..so many reasons. Some being:
Tax
Women's rights
Schooling
Running of the NHS
A quick google will detail they have proven they cannot run a budget. Recent/current examples.

Are you sure you're not describing the Conservatives?

40andlovelife · 04/07/2024 07:04

@FloatingWoman yes I believe they do.

And they will ensure that men don't get to infiltrate the same sex spaces that women worked so hard to get. This is enough for me.

FloatingWoman · 04/07/2024 07:05

LostTheMarble · 04/07/2024 07:00

Me too, fully holding my nose doing so but the choice where I am is between the two. It’s not just women’s rights (and that’s far more than just the trans ideology) that Labour are obviously failing to address, their plan for education is piss poor and that’s a huge issue for me. I have no issue with our current conservative MP so not worth spoiling my ballot.

The Tories don’t care about women’s rights:

  1. rape convictions are significantly down
  2. funding for women’s refuges have been slashed meaning more women are having to stay in abusive relationships
  3. millions of children have been plunged into poverty - in majority of cases it will be their mums who are suffering.

I’m gender critical, and I don’t think Labour have got that issue right. But please reconsider what a vote for Tory means.

RipleyGreen · 04/07/2024 07:06

Absolutely not. I can’t comprehend why any woman would vote for them.

Cocothecoconut · 04/07/2024 07:07

The labour candidate was the only one round here to come knocking on doors
didnt see sight or sound of others only on the local news site

BirthdayRainbow · 04/07/2024 07:08

I can't decide between Labour and the Greens. I'm finding it very stressful as refuse to not vote. I've talked to my children as well and for two of them it is their first time and I am proxy voting for them. Every time I have voted the party whose candidate I voted for has got in. This time I'm really torn.

Aussieland · 04/07/2024 07:09

Fuzziduck · 04/07/2024 06:40

No..so many reasons. Some being:
Tax
Women's rights
Schooling
Running of the NHS
A quick google will detail they have proven they cannot run a budget. Recent/current examples.

I assume you won’t be voting Tory then if you care about schools and the NHS 😁

HairyChin · 04/07/2024 07:09

Hothotdamage · 04/07/2024 06:42

Where on tax is a problem?

Do you think Starmer has a magic wand then if he is to fix the problems ??

Or that instead he will tax to the hilt like Labour always have done and will always continue to do.

Labour are a disaster: London under Khan is fucked . You think he’ll fix the NHS? Take a look at Welsh Labour run NHS… that may change your mind.

The unions will go to town . Everything and everyone will want more money . Where do you suspect the funds for that will come from? Tax rises of course .

No this is not Rishi . I am a floating voter with my eyes wide open in all of this.

It is what Starmer hasn’t said rather than what he has said that massively concerns me.

Frankly I am terrified of a Labour government.

NamechangersRuleHere · 04/07/2024 07:09

FloatingWoman · 04/07/2024 07:01

I don’t believe you. From Labour in 2015 to this corrupt government?

Believe away, or not, your choice.

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 04/07/2024 07:11

Fuzziduck · 04/07/2024 06:40

No..so many reasons. Some being:
Tax
Women's rights
Schooling
Running of the NHS
A quick google will detail they have proven they cannot run a budget. Recent/current examples.

If you think the conservatives have been doing a good job of running the NHS then there really is no hope for you

Didimum · 04/07/2024 07:11

Missgucci · 04/07/2024 06:58

There's a big headline today about labour. If they win, dont own a home , car , pension or try to save. And don't even think of trying to leave your kids anything (of older kids don't expect any inheritance) because labour will see to it that they bleed you dry.

Broadcasters aren’t allowed to report details of campaigning or election issues on polling day, so I’m sure your source is an upstanding one.

Lupina12 · 04/07/2024 07:11

BirthdayRainbow · 04/07/2024 07:08

I can't decide between Labour and the Greens. I'm finding it very stressful as refuse to not vote. I've talked to my children as well and for two of them it is their first time and I am proxy voting for them. Every time I have voted the party whose candidate I voted for has got in. This time I'm really torn.

Maybe try looking at the tactical voting site and see which party has the best chance in your area?

this is the one I used:
stopthetories.vote/

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RafaistheKingofClay · 04/07/2024 07:11

Yes.

Genuinely mind boggled over the people claiming that women’s rights is a their single issue vote and then voting Tory. Good one.

Butterflyfern · 04/07/2024 07:12

LostTheMarble · 04/07/2024 07:00

Me too, fully holding my nose doing so but the choice where I am is between the two. It’s not just women’s rights (and that’s far more than just the trans ideology) that Labour are obviously failing to address, their plan for education is piss poor and that’s a huge issue for me. I have no issue with our current conservative MP so not worth spoiling my ballot.

I know this has become the MN position for the feminist board, but I struggle to understand why. The trans / GC / women's spaces have been put at risk under a conservative government. Who have shown zero gumption for actually supporting women in sports or giving them safe spaces.

They've managed to define woman in a debate, but seems to have used that definition to harm women over the last 14 years instead of help. See excluding women from COVID decisions, leading to women being abandoned in domestic abuse scenarios. Women's mental health being disproportionately affected by homeschooling and female dominated business types being disproportionately affected by lockdown support (eg hairdressers Vs pubs restaurants)

Didimum · 04/07/2024 07:12

HairyChin · 04/07/2024 07:09

Do you think Starmer has a magic wand then if he is to fix the problems ??

Or that instead he will tax to the hilt like Labour always have done and will always continue to do.

Labour are a disaster: London under Khan is fucked . You think he’ll fix the NHS? Take a look at Welsh Labour run NHS… that may change your mind.

The unions will go to town . Everything and everyone will want more money . Where do you suspect the funds for that will come from? Tax rises of course .

No this is not Rishi . I am a floating voter with my eyes wide open in all of this.

It is what Starmer hasn’t said rather than what he has said that massively concerns me.

Frankly I am terrified of a Labour government.

What’s wrong with paying more tax?

Guavafish1 · 04/07/2024 07:12

never again

Sondheimisademigod · 04/07/2024 07:13

Lupina12 · 04/07/2024 06:31

Labour are far from perfect, but I like Keir Starmer and I think they are the best party to turn things around from the awful mess the incumbents have got us into.

He’s not glossy or witty or funny, but he seems decent - (he clearly has a wonderful wife and that only reflects well on him!)

Anyway, just curious - anyone else voting Labour for the first time? I’m 40 by the way and in the south east.

But you are not voting for the person. You are voting for the party and their policies.
What the leaders bloody wife does is neither here nor there

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 04/07/2024 07:13

I've been voting in GE's since the 80's, never once voted Labour or Tory, and I'm not about to vote for a Labour party that has quite eagerly jumped into the centre right gap vacated by the Tories since 2019 for all of the same reasons why I've never voted Tory previously.

Type2whattodo · 04/07/2024 07:14

I've always voted Green historically however, I am not a "non-man" and neither are my DD. For that reason I can't vote Green or Lib dem. They can't even SAY the word "woman" let alone help or protect them.

Labour seem to think women have both penis and vagina. Either or. They aren't going to do anything different from Tory on NHS so despite being a historically left voter.... I can't. If I had Party of Women, I'd vote them but I don't.

lavenderlou · 04/07/2024 07:15

Not for completely the first time, but the first time since 2001. I have voted LD since. I live in a safe Tory seat and fir the first time Labour are within a whisker of taking it so I'm voting Labour. I have taken a couple of quizzes to see where my views align and it's pretty equal between Labour and Lib Dem so Labour is getting my vote today.

Sondheimisademigod · 04/07/2024 07:15

Type2whattodo · 04/07/2024 06:53

Voting Tory for the first time ever, for Women's rights. Am quite terrified what Labour will do to Women and I have 2x DD.
I fully expect labour to win and sadly expect to have womens rights stripped away quite quickly after, until they wake up and start panicking and it'll be too late.

Labour are going to allow all sorts of fetishism in men to ID into women and I fear for my DD future. Lucky I hold citizenship to another country also and can leave if need be.

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg, will the sky fall in and will we be made to open our houses to strangers, a la, Dr Zviago?

Lupina12 · 04/07/2024 07:15

Butterflyfern · 04/07/2024 07:12

I know this has become the MN position for the feminist board, but I struggle to understand why. The trans / GC / women's spaces have been put at risk under a conservative government. Who have shown zero gumption for actually supporting women in sports or giving them safe spaces.

They've managed to define woman in a debate, but seems to have used that definition to harm women over the last 14 years instead of help. See excluding women from COVID decisions, leading to women being abandoned in domestic abuse scenarios. Women's mental health being disproportionately affected by homeschooling and female dominated business types being disproportionately affected by lockdown support (eg hairdressers Vs pubs restaurants)

I Agree 💯

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1dayatatime · 04/07/2024 07:17

@Didimum

"What’s wrong with paying more tax"

Because when taxation is at a 70 year high and services are still shite you realise a) more tax is not always the answer b) when you realise that you may as well work less hours and not see much difference in your take home pay.