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To wonder when the excess of dogs will die down

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OptimismvsRealism · 28/06/2024 21:47

There's so much shit everywhere

There are so many feral horrible dogs pissing on front doors or prams or shop displays and barking terrifyingly at kids

I am sick of them!!!!! Is this it or will people learn their post COVID lesson and only get pets they can actually handle in the future?

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OonaStubbs · 29/06/2024 16:52

Yes there would be no laptops allowed either, and no free wi-fi.

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 17:14

OonaStubbs · 29/06/2024 16:40

If I opened a cafe I would make it both dog-free and child-free. Heaven for people tired of all the noise and disturbance caused by both.

See I love that. I think more places should offer this.

despite loving dogs and my kids, I think it’s a great idea. I wonder why people don’t?

theeyeofdoe · 29/06/2024 17:19

Velicirapitor · 28/06/2024 21:49

I don’t know but I certainly hope all the ridiculous poodle crosses stop.

Give me a poodle cross over most of the inter bred "pure" breeds every time!

Notaflippinclue · 29/06/2024 17:24

Lived overlooking the sea £600,000 house so not rough area - people came from miles around and on holiday to allow their pal to shit every where - neighbour complained so someone decided to throw poo bags over her fence - we sold up moved on - poo bags hanging in the bushes all over the shop was the final straw

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 17:36

Notaflippinclue · 29/06/2024 17:24

Lived overlooking the sea £600,000 house so not rough area - people came from miles around and on holiday to allow their pal to shit every where - neighbour complained so someone decided to throw poo bags over her fence - we sold up moved on - poo bags hanging in the bushes all over the shop was the final straw

My neighbours and I frequently get them thrown under the hedge...cos of course that's acceptable...I'm sick of that and the piddling on the hedges.

It's all very well for folk to make the helpful suggestion that walls (or hedges) can simply be doused with water, but why should I have to clean up after someone else's pooch? I do my best, but I'm getting to the age and condition where everything is an effort. (Thank you back and knees!) I'd rather spend time on tidying my garden and making it pretty, rather than washing off the urine of someone else's pet.

Velicirapitor · 29/06/2024 17:45

theeyeofdoe · 29/06/2024 17:19

Give me a poodle cross over most of the inter bred "pure" breeds every time!

Poodle crosses are very often from puppy farms, breeders just trying to make easy money or have been brought in from abroad. Either way you have zero idea of what you are getting. As a breed, poodles are especially healthy.

We have a very healthy, well adjusted, miniature poodle. I would be rich if I got a pound for every poodle cross I meet that’s “mental”, especially the cockapoos.

It’s a complete myth that poodle crosses are healthier than poodles. For example the cavapoos can inherit all the heart problems from the Cavalier King Charles. Crossing with poodle doesn’t remove that possibility.

OptimismvsRealism · 29/06/2024 17:46

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 17:36

My neighbours and I frequently get them thrown under the hedge...cos of course that's acceptable...I'm sick of that and the piddling on the hedges.

It's all very well for folk to make the helpful suggestion that walls (or hedges) can simply be doused with water, but why should I have to clean up after someone else's pooch? I do my best, but I'm getting to the age and condition where everything is an effort. (Thank you back and knees!) I'd rather spend time on tidying my garden and making it pretty, rather than washing off the urine of someone else's pet.

Also, fundamentally, it's totally disgusting. How would dog owners feel if I went and pissed on their door mat?

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OptimismvsRealism · 29/06/2024 17:46

"oh just wash it down!!!"

Yeah dogs are GREAT for mental health

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ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 17:57

OptimismvsRealism · 29/06/2024 17:46

Also, fundamentally, it's totally disgusting. How would dog owners feel if I went and pissed on their door mat?

So we can equate dogs to people when it suits?

I wouldn’t be happy if you pissed on my door mat.

But my door mat is inside so different situation. I wouldn’t expect anything to be left outside and untouched by cats, wildlife etc.

But also there’s no problem with dogs pissing on my front wall either. Or the street outside smelling of piss when it’s hot.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 18:11

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 17:57

So we can equate dogs to people when it suits?

I wouldn’t be happy if you pissed on my door mat.

But my door mat is inside so different situation. I wouldn’t expect anything to be left outside and untouched by cats, wildlife etc.

But also there’s no problem with dogs pissing on my front wall either. Or the street outside smelling of piss when it’s hot.

No. The equation is to a human owner allowing its dog to piss on someone else's property.

I keep hearing "Oh, you can't stop them..." but I assure you that any time I'm in my garden it immediately becomes possible for the local dog owners to pull their animals away from my property.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 18:14

The dogs aren't the problem. The dog owners are. I'm sick of clearing mess off my driveway. The dogs don't know any better; the dog owners do.

UserNumber56 · 29/06/2024 18:18

Disturbia81 · 28/06/2024 22:15

They bring a lot of pleasure to people in this hard life.

Maybe they do - but there's also no denying that many of them make a lot of other people's lives harder and less pleasant than they would otherwise be.

SavageTomato · 29/06/2024 18:22

It's Disney animals attitude. Never mind what people and animals actually need, let's allow anyone to keep any dog and take them everywhere. What could possibly go wrong? There's very few groups of people who need to keep dogs. Farmers, some police and army, and guide or other assistance dogs. The rest is selfish bullshit and most should be put down. Get a doll or something and stop imposing your baby fetishism on the rest of us. Oh, and clean their shit up.

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 18:24

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 18:11

No. The equation is to a human owner allowing its dog to piss on someone else's property.

I keep hearing "Oh, you can't stop them..." but I assure you that any time I'm in my garden it immediately becomes possible for the local dog owners to pull their animals away from my property.

So yes, comparing dogs to humans isn’t ok when people who like dogs do it. But ok when people who dislike dogs do it.

How is a person pissing somewhere the equivalent of a dog pissing somewhere?

I would imagine if a person pissed I a dog park they would be judged more than the dogs also taking a piss?

As I said above, my dogs don’t pee when on lead so it’s not really problem I can help solve. But I agree people shouldn’t let them piss on people’s walls

However I don’t believe Op that the street smells of piss whenever it’s hot. And I do t think it’s the same as a person coming pissing on a door mat.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 18:30

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 18:24

So yes, comparing dogs to humans isn’t ok when people who like dogs do it. But ok when people who dislike dogs do it.

How is a person pissing somewhere the equivalent of a dog pissing somewhere?

I would imagine if a person pissed I a dog park they would be judged more than the dogs also taking a piss?

As I said above, my dogs don’t pee when on lead so it’s not really problem I can help solve. But I agree people shouldn’t let them piss on people’s walls

However I don’t believe Op that the street smells of piss whenever it’s hot. And I do t think it’s the same as a person coming pissing on a door mat.

Again, the individual responsible is the human in charge. I wouldn't want a human being urinating in my garden or against my hedge and I don't want a human to allow his or her dog to urinate in my garden or against my hedge. I find both scenarios repugnant.

ETA Ditto door mats, whether inside my front door our outside on my doorstep.

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 18:32

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 18:30

Again, the individual responsible is the human in charge. I wouldn't want a human being urinating in my garden or against my hedge and I don't want a human to allow his or her dog to urinate in my garden or against my hedge. I find both scenarios repugnant.

ETA Ditto door mats, whether inside my front door our outside on my doorstep.

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I appreciate you don’t want it. Who would actively want that? And yes the human is to blame

It’s not the same.

I don’t like cats shitting in my garden. But it’s different to a human coming in my garden and shitting in the garden.

Ilikewinter · 29/06/2024 18:39

What about cat owners OP, do you have a hatred towards them. Cats piss and shit everywhere too but their owners will NEVER be around to clean up after them.

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 29/06/2024 18:46

Ilikewinter · 29/06/2024 18:39

What about cat owners OP, do you have a hatred towards them. Cats piss and shit everywhere too but their owners will NEVER be around to clean up after them.

Good point!

And I am a cat owner! Blush

I can honestly say though that they pretty much almost always poop in the flowerbeds in our garden, and in my planters. I am not aware of them pooping on people gardens. (Female cats like mine tend to not wander much.) I am not saying they NEVER poop elsewhere but I have never seen them do so, and no neighbour has ever complained about my cats pooping in their gardens!

Trixiefirecracker · 29/06/2024 18:49

Looked out of my window today and someone was letting their dog take a crap on our grass verge. Didn’t clean it up and ran off when they saw me leaving the house to come and ask them what the fuck they were doing. Dog was on lead and she was watching it shit so not like she hadn’t noticed. I know it’s not the dogs fault, I like dogs and have owned a couple in the past but the majority of owners are entitled, rude and lazy and really shouldn’t be allowed to have pets.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2024 19:16

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 29/06/2024 18:32

I appreciate you don’t want it. Who would actively want that? And yes the human is to blame

It’s not the same.

I don’t like cats shitting in my garden. But it’s different to a human coming in my garden and shitting in the garden.

The difference (apart from size) is that the human is deliberately being horrible. In the case of the cat, if this were an American board we'd be getting most posters commenting that all cats should be housecats.

So far as any pet is concerned, sole responsibility lies with the owner.

BellaGambas · 29/06/2024 19:21

100% with you. I am very allergic to dogs and also afraid of them. I'm sick to death of entitled dog owners taking their dogs into shops, restaurants and bars and exercising them on playing fields. I saw one today on top of a pub table! Bad enough that owners allow them up on public furniture at all but people eat at tables. Yuk! My local library is now a 'no go' zone because they're allowed in there too.

OonaStubbs · 29/06/2024 19:24

Why would dogs need to go into a library? They can't read!

coldcallerbaiter · 29/06/2024 19:30

Dogs shouldn’t be allowed indoors eg. restaurant, shop, cafe.

Picking up shit is not enough, dogs should not shit anywhere, pavements and parks have the remnants, and ppl have to walk on that.

Dog nappies are possibly the answer. Less dogs would be great. I would like to live in a country where they go not exist actually. Dog owners think everyone likes dogs, not true. Dogs are a nuisance.

coldcallerbaiter · 29/06/2024 19:37

XenoBitch · 29/06/2024 00:33

Yes, I have seen more awful behaviour from kids and their entitled behaviour from their parents, than any dog, ever.

Stop comparing dogs with people!
A dog is a pet an animal.

people should support animals in the wild. Support their habitats. Not farm pets that cause a nuisance to ppl who do not even own them.

coldcallerbaiter · 29/06/2024 19:41

Trixiefirecracker · 29/06/2024 18:49

Looked out of my window today and someone was letting their dog take a crap on our grass verge. Didn’t clean it up and ran off when they saw me leaving the house to come and ask them what the fuck they were doing. Dog was on lead and she was watching it shit so not like she hadn’t noticed. I know it’s not the dogs fault, I like dogs and have owned a couple in the past but the majority of owners are entitled, rude and lazy and really shouldn’t be allowed to have pets.

They think verges are toilets. Someone has to tend that verge. Children walk on them, although I told mine not to as full of shit. Why do dog owners want so much shit in their lives? Why don’t dog owners shit everywhere too, what’s the difference, shit is shit.

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