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Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 17:39

I desperately want to GTTO but the last few years have taught me that ‘any change’ isn’t always good and things can get worse, even if you think they can’t.

I’ve watched all the debates now and Starmer is so… wet. I don’t like him. The first thing he did when women’s rights were mentioned his first thought was men who ‘identify as women’ and how ‘marginalised’ they are. When asked about immigration he squirmed and squirmed before muttering about his role as DPP (who cares? We want to know what you plan to do NOW). When asked about his support for Corbyn he said ‘but I didn’t think we would actually win..’

There’s something about him which is making me very uncomfortable and I just have a bad feeling now about what would happen if he was leader.

Anyone else? If you’re not voting Tory or Labour, who are you voting for and why? I assumed I would vote Labour this time but my gut is suddenly screaming at me not to!

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RationalityIsHard · 27/06/2024 19:36

It’s always fairly close between Labour and conservatives in my seat, so voting for anyone other than Labour is effectively giving half a vote to the tories.

I will vote Labour with no real enthusiasm or expectation for them to be anything other than ‘not the tories’, but at the moment, after 14 years, that’s enough for me.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 19:36

IClaudine · 27/06/2024 19:35

Going by all the other political threads I have seen you on @MaryMaryVeryContrary I find it hard to believe you ever intended to vote Labour.

I don’t care if you believe me or not.

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cremebrulait · 27/06/2024 19:37

I think people meed to realize the polarization of politics in the last 10-15 years has led people to expect a politician to make a whole lot of promises about execution before they get into office and know the true state of affairs the last party has left it.

Starmer refuses to make promises he can’t keep AS he should. But so many people fail to see how the conservatives are manipulating, gaslighting …almost trying to brainwash. It is scary!

It’s fascinating that anyone thinks DPP is irrelevant in the same message as complaining about women’s rights. He’s very serious about DV and cracking down. As a victim I think this is huge. Also its helpful to have lawmakers that have a bloody education in law!

i think people need to pull their heads out of sand and realize they should be voting for whoever is most capable of getting the country back on track. We’re a democracy we can still push for changes. There’s more to civic duty than voting.

MumonabikeE5 · 27/06/2024 19:37

I’m voting greens because they have better policies about transport and climate and nhs. But I am only doing so because I live in a safe labour seat. If I wasn’t sure of the labour win I’d vote labour.

Gwenhwyfar · 27/06/2024 19:37

IgnoranceNotOk · 27/06/2024 17:44

I’m the same - usually vote labour to vote tactically anyway as I don’t agree with everything in their manifesto.
But now I’m wondering whether to vote green to make the seats a bit more left rather than just all labour.
But I don’t know if this is the right thing to do as I’m still Anyone But Conservative so I want them out!!

Yes, if you support the Greens you can safely vote for them this time as there will very likely be a Labour landslide anyway.

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:37

@ChurchCats Ironically I and most members of the public do not think you can change sex. But we also do not think all Trans people are evil rapists.

edalehope · 27/06/2024 19:38

No wobbles at all! The current government has been so bad. They need to be removed.

Another76543 · 27/06/2024 19:38

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:29

@ChurchCats total scaremongering. Starmer is a centrist. I am a centrist. I hated Corbyn. The left wing hate Starmer and many extreme left wing members have been expelled from the ;Labour party. If the Labour party are elected, we will get a centrist government. Far more like John Majors government. What used to be called caring Conservatives. That is why Starmer is. Cares about vulnerable people, but also cares about the economy and knows it needs to work better than it has in the last 10 years.

Starmer isn’t who concerns me. I’m neutral on him. It’s other senior figureheads and Corbynites still in the party who are a concern.. They’ve only put Starmer as figurehead to try to appear more centrist.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 19:38

RationalityIsHard · 27/06/2024 19:36

It’s always fairly close between Labour and conservatives in my seat, so voting for anyone other than Labour is effectively giving half a vote to the tories.

I will vote Labour with no real enthusiasm or expectation for them to be anything other than ‘not the tories’, but at the moment, after 14 years, that’s enough for me.

That’s probably what I’ll end up doing. I can’t face another 4 years of the tories, and until a few months ago I was excited for a labour government, but I can’t kid myself that I am anymore. I ignored the first couple of red flags but now they’re everywhere. Equally I don’t want the libdems who seem to be Wokerati Central, or the Greens who seem utterly batshit. Nobody seems to fit what I want.

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ChurchCats · 27/06/2024 19:38

Mouswife · 27/06/2024 19:32

I hate the Tory party but I can’t vote labour. Starmer is awful.

Just spoil your paper-that's an equally valid choice.

migrainagain · 27/06/2024 19:39

I dont think ive ever voted.

SocksAndTheCity · 27/06/2024 19:40

Hummingbird75 · 27/06/2024 19:32

I am not trying to be amusing. This is a serious issue for many millions of women.

Could you give us some examples of these great steps forward for women's healthcare, safety and protection, employment rights and childcare provision that have been achieved over the last fourteen years?

Examples of how vulnerable women (those in prisons, refuges or homeless shelters/temporary accommodation as well as those in poverty) have been helped and supported would be particularly useful. Please be specific.

runningonberocca · 27/06/2024 19:40

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:29

@ChurchCats total scaremongering. Starmer is a centrist. I am a centrist. I hated Corbyn. The left wing hate Starmer and many extreme left wing members have been expelled from the ;Labour party. If the Labour party are elected, we will get a centrist government. Far more like John Majors government. What used to be called caring Conservatives. That is why Starmer is. Cares about vulnerable people, but also cares about the economy and knows it needs to work better than it has in the last 10 years.

Yes exactly - Starmers government is going to be yet another Conservative government. And I don’t believe be cares about vulnerable people - he certainly doesn’t care excessively about the genocide in Gaza, he has ridiculous claims for what he’s going to do with the NHS. 40,000 new appointments every week!! With who? Where is he planning to get the staff and clinic space from? Lifting the burden on nhs staff by opening up self referral to specialists!! ( which will do the exact opposite). Immigration - no safe routes?

And while yes - Corbyn etc were at the left of the party - a good leader can manage and hold a party in a more centrist position. Starmer has just chucked out the “ difficult “ members of the party.- Corbyn, Faiza Shaheen and if he could’ve got away with chucking out Diane Abbot he would have. Weak man, weak policies and a lot of old Labour votes lost

Iseeyoupekingduck · 27/06/2024 19:42

I'm voting Labour don't want the other shower of shit getting in again!

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:42

@Another76543 That is not true. Loads of the extreme left wing have been expelled from the labour party. They hate Starmer.

ChurchCats · 27/06/2024 19:42

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:37

@ChurchCats Ironically I and most members of the public do not think you can change sex. But we also do not think all Trans people are evil rapists.

And nor do I but there is an increasing number of women who do rape, according to the police you know, with their female penis.
Why oh Why is this. Is it because we live in a climate where a man who rapes with his male cock can suddenly become a woman when he is tried.

The answer of course is, 'yes'. Even 30 years ago, the very idea of a rapist being referred to as 'she' would have been laughed out of court...a mere moment later, we are expected to take it seriously and be called transphobe if we don;t.

taxguru · 27/06/2024 19:42

ChurchCats · 27/06/2024 19:38

Just spoil your paper-that's an equally valid choice.

But completely pointless and barely anyone will notice and no one will care. The only people who'll see it are the counters and maybe one or two candidates will flick through the spoilt papers, more to check they really are spoilt and not to actually read them. Will all be forgotten/ignored the morning after.

Far better to vote for "someone" that is the closest alignment to your own views. It is more likely to end the typical two horse race is constituencies if more people vote for the less popular options and it may encourage others to vote for other than the two major parties if they see the voting numbers for the lesser parties start to increase.

MrsSunshine2b · 27/06/2024 19:42

Yes, you are being completely unreasonable to suggest that this country could better cope with another 5 years of the party who has systematically slashed and burned everything they could reach for 14 years than a Labour leader who you just don't find very likeable.

And a vote for anyone other than Labour or the Tories in most areas, you may as well have stayed at home or spoilt your vote.

Either you want to GTTO or you want to make some vague point about trans women or some other bullshit, but you can't do both.

FWIW I've never liked Labour less than I do this election but I'm doing the right thing to save what's left of our public services and economy.

OrwellianTimes · 27/06/2024 19:43

It’s a no brainer in my constituency. Red wall area that fell to conservative last time around. The conservative MP has been useless, can’t even say anything they’ve done.

The standing Labour candidate has been serving the area for a long time with good track record.

The new standing Conservative candidate seems to have recently been flown in from the other side of the UK. They are not local, and not even ever a former resident of the (devolved) nation they are standing in. Not a chance I’ll vote for her because how on earth is she going to have any clue about what affects the locals.

Abhannmor · 27/06/2024 19:43

helpmewithaname · 27/06/2024 17:48

I have already voted via post and voted for our independent. He is fine. There’s things I like about him and things I don’t, but he’s the best of an awful bunch. It’s Lib Dems or tories where we are, and the thought of voting for either fills me with dread. Then again, so
does the thought of a Labour government as well…… its utter shit we basically have no choice. I read somewhere today Labour could bet a super majority and win by over 400 seats but only have 40% of the actual vote share 😳😳😳😳 how is that democracy!?

That's the same system that gave Thatcher and Blair and Johnson stonking majorities on circa 40%. It's called First Past the Post. Very few countries use it afaik?

But its a bit like the Lords. Everyone says God how awful until their party gets in. Then it's ' as you were chaps'.

orangepostbox · 27/06/2024 19:44

@runningonberocca you sound more left wing than me. I am a centrist. I want the NHS to work again. I want someone who cares about business - the current conservatives do not unless it is a business run by their mates. Most people in Britain are centrists and want a competent well run government.

IClaudine · 27/06/2024 19:45

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 19:36

I don’t care if you believe me or not.

I know that!

It is all academic now, anyway. Labour is going to win regardless of threads like this trying to spook the electorate.

Sammyk85 · 27/06/2024 19:45

My Tory MP is Pru Leiths son. Absolutely will not be voting for him- he’s a complete idiot. No clue who the labour candidate is but they’ll still be getting my vote regardless.

ExtraOnions · 27/06/2024 19:45

ChurchCats · 27/06/2024 19:36

There you go!
Get used to it...
.any time you object to a rapist being called 'she' (even the Daily Mail calls the SHE for the love of God)
any time you worry that a female with a penis is in a Refuge or a women's prison
any time you object to a bloke with bollocks being in your changing room or daughter's loo at school
any time you wonder why women with penises are beating ever competitor in women's sport
every time you see a woman with a penis winning a woman's prize
every time you object to being given a intimate search by a woman with a penis police officer
every time you can't ask for a chaperone because you don't want an intimate examination by a woman with a penis GP

Every single time, you will be called a Transphobe and worse-maybe jailed for your hate speech. maybe fired from your job, maybe vilified until you are wheeled out to apologise.

It's not good now and it will be 1000 times worse under labour, as most of the Front Bench believe a woman can have a penis.

After all, here they come-the allies of men- shouting Transphobe even on this thread.

You can ask for a chaperone in any intimate examination.

I’m seeing Gynae at the moment, my Consultant is a man, and has intimately examined me .. if he was in a dress shouod I suddenly be concerned he’s a sex offender ??

I Don’t see many Trans people round here .. I don’t think many people do on a day to day basis. My daughters best friend is Trans, she’s stopping over on Saturday, in my daughters room , and will be in zero danger.

This notion that all Trans-People are closet sex-offenders is bizzare. This coming from someone who thinks that some places should be based on biology

Underfunding of public services is a much much bigger threat to the safety of women and girls, that who uses which toilet

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 19:45

you are being completely unreasonable to suggest that this country could better cope with another 5 years of the party who has systematically slashed and burned everything they could reach for

Did I?

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