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Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 17:39

I desperately want to GTTO but the last few years have taught me that ‘any change’ isn’t always good and things can get worse, even if you think they can’t.

I’ve watched all the debates now and Starmer is so… wet. I don’t like him. The first thing he did when women’s rights were mentioned his first thought was men who ‘identify as women’ and how ‘marginalised’ they are. When asked about immigration he squirmed and squirmed before muttering about his role as DPP (who cares? We want to know what you plan to do NOW). When asked about his support for Corbyn he said ‘but I didn’t think we would actually win..’

There’s something about him which is making me very uncomfortable and I just have a bad feeling now about what would happen if he was leader.

Anyone else? If you’re not voting Tory or Labour, who are you voting for and why? I assumed I would vote Labour this time but my gut is suddenly screaming at me not to!

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Heatherjones1234 · 27/06/2024 21:34

ClematisWren · 27/06/2024 18:18

I’ve voted labour (postal vote) despite being gender-critical and having a child in private school. I’m a GP who has worked under both labour and Tory governments, and, after the decline of the past 14 years, the only way the NHS is likely to survive the next decade is with labour in power.

I'm interested in your opinion and it could sway my vote. Please explain?

Londonrach1 · 27/06/2024 21:36

I can't vote labour or Tory. I don't understand why anyone who is female vote for labour. However I think we need a change from Tory... I just don't know who I vote for...it won't I know be Tory, reform or labour....

BIossomtoes · 27/06/2024 21:36

Zotter · 27/06/2024 21:18

Britain, as seen from America currently. Tories must go.

”There is mold in the walls and shit in the rivers, posh butter in the supermarkets has anti-theft tags stuck to it, the trains run on schedule about half the time, the average pub-poured pint of lager—the blood of the nation—is nearing the criminal price of 5 pounds ($6.34), and on May 22 a new general election was announced to the people of Great Britain by a prime minister who is richer than the king.”

https://newrepublic.com/article/182987/british-election-reckoning-brexit-postponed

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Yes, that just about sums it up - anxiety, impatience and grief. Those are exactly my emotions. If we have a new government a week tomorrow it will feel as if a boil’s been lanced. I don’t suppose I’ll ever experience the euphoria of 1997 again, I’ll have to settle for quiet relief this time.

ThatMauveSnake · 27/06/2024 21:36

Cooper77 · 27/06/2024 21:15

I agree with so much of this. In 2022, net immigration was 750,000. Every time I see that written down it shocks me. Add in illegals and it was probably closer to a million. A million extra people in one year!! WHERE ARE THEY SUPPOSED TO LIVE?? This isn't Australia. It's a small, crowded island with horrendous traffic and rabbit hutch houses jammed on top of one another. I 100% do not trust Labour on immigration. To say that Starmer is evasive on this issue is an understatement. He has no intention of cracking down, that's clear. In fact, things will get much worse, especially if they have a big majority. Restrictions will be scrapped, barriers will be removed, deportations will be blocked, and so on.

Starmer has described himself as a YIMBY. I'd respect him more if he just came out with it and said "listen, you bunch of horrible little NIMBYs. We have no intention of stopping mass immigration. You're just going to have to get used to it. If that means you can't get to work because of the traffic, or that the fields and woods near you are covered in houses and flats, well boo hoo. You'll just have to live with it, won't you!" That is what he and his party really think.

Starmer is basically a socialist. The man supported Jeremy Corbyn ffs. That alone should be enough to make you hesitate. This is too serious. Anyone who supported loony left Corbyn isn't fit for office. And when quizzed on it, he said "oh, well, I knew he was going lose anyway." What kind of a f-ing pathetic answer is that?! Starmer is on the verge of being our PM, with the country's fate in his hands. We need someone strong and solid, with a sense of responsibility. Either a) he didn't support Corbyn but was too weak and gutless to say so, or b) he did support Corbyn, and is in fact a borderline communist pretending to be a moderate.

I think people overlook that it isn’t really possible for an MP to remain a member of a political party without broadly towing the party line.

If Corbyn had been elected, I imagine people would have been grateful to have some more moderate voices (like Starmer’s) in the cabinet, rather than all of them resigning (or attacking the party’s platform such that the whip is withdrawn) and having a cabinet comprised solely of Corbynites.

AthenaBasil · 27/06/2024 21:38

I was thinking of Labour but I think they’re going to get a massive majority and I don’t want them not to have any opposition which I worry will happen when the tories are decimated. Im in a Labour vs snp area and I’m certainly not voting SNP so I may go for a protest vote as none of them inspire me. Starmer is a bit of a mystery as to what he’ll be as a leader. He’s vague so as to not displease anyone.

Zotter · 27/06/2024 21:39

The rate of increase in life expectancy has been dropping in this country aand the decline seemed to start around 2010, funny that. The economist Danny Blanchflower tweeted this week ‘harsh as it may sound the purpose of austerity - which had no basis in economics and was based on a spreadsheet lie - in the end was to lower the life expectancy of poor people.....that was certainly its main effect’

Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?
MrsLeonFarrell · 27/06/2024 21:39

I don't think Starmer is very good at debating but I think he'll be good at the actual job.

VanGoghsDog · 27/06/2024 21:40

Londonrach1 · 27/06/2024 21:36

I can't vote labour or Tory. I don't understand why anyone who is female vote for labour. However I think we need a change from Tory... I just don't know who I vote for...it won't I know be Tory, reform or labour....

The reasons you won't vote Labour must surely be the same reasons you won't vote Green or LibDem then? Their views on women are far more extreme.

RosesAndHellebores · 27/06/2024 21:41

RogueFemale · 27/06/2024 21:23

I'll assume you're at least 70 years old and very out of touch with the shitstorm of incompetence that is now the UK. Maybe you have private health insurance, because you can't possibly be unaware of the other shitstorm that is the NHS.

I used to vote Tory, and yes, from 1979. I ceased to be a Tory voter after the Brexit referendum in 2016.

The Tory party is no longer the Tory party, not after they (Johnson) got rid of the good guys such as Dominic Grieve. So, if you vote Tory, you are voting for a party which is deep in right wing bollocks and has no centre or morality. They serve only themselves.

I'm 64.
I shall chose not to take the comments of somebody so I'll educated they can't work out that one could be less than 70 if they were entitled to vote in the 1979 election.

You have also missed the point that I do not think the Conservatives deserve to win this election but I will vote for the Tory candidate in my constituency because the are the best candidate and have the intellect, strength of purpose and vision to help rebuild what is left of the Conservative party on 5th July.

You are quite right about me not using the NHS wherever possible. It failed my family on many occasions between 1997 and 2010. It continues to do so. It is unfit for purpose regardless of any amount of money thrown at it.

Still working full-time and have DC in their latest 20s so not as out of touch as yiu have implied.

No need to justify your politics but you may wish to reflect upon your courtesy.

VanGoghsDog · 27/06/2024 21:42

I think people might find it helpful to look up some of the stuff Starmer did before he went into politics.

Scruffily · 27/06/2024 21:44

I think Starmer has the potential to be a very good PM. He's ethical, he cares about social justice, he cares about corruption in government, he cares about inequality, and he's careful not to over-promise. He's going to have a very difficult job to clear up the horrendous mess we are in at the moment, but I really can't see that any other party or party leader has a hope in hell of achieving it.

tara66 · 27/06/2024 21:50

I am really superficial and not looking forward to seeing and hearing KS every day on TV - look at his hair - what does he put on it or is it actually solid?

Greenismyfav · 27/06/2024 21:54

All politicians lie:

Labour know they are going to have to put taxes up drastically if they have any hope if effecting change.

The conservatives know that Labour are going to have to put taxes up in order to effect charge and are going to enjoy watching this. They also know that their method for stopping the boats won’t work and hope no one notices.

The Lib Dens know they have no chance of being in power to see through their pledges, but hope people just vote for them cause they don’t want the Tories in.

The SNP know they have no chance of getting an independence Ref but know their voters are too thick and too motivated anti-English thoughts to vote elsewhere.

Plaid think if they say some SNP-type things about Indy the anti-English people will vote for them too.

The Greens like to project an image of caring about the environment but as seen in Scotland their main motivations are trans rights and truly diabolical economic policies.

Why does no one tell the truth.

hattie43 · 27/06/2024 21:54

I just don't trust Starmer , he didn't give any clear answers to questions last night and will still allow men into women only spaces .

We've got an absolute shower of voting options this year and not one is a clear winner .

BIossomtoes · 27/06/2024 21:54

tara66 · 27/06/2024 21:50

I am really superficial and not looking forward to seeing and hearing KS every day on TV - look at his hair - what does he put on it or is it actually solid?

You’re not kidding - his hair?! 😂

Churchview · 27/06/2024 21:55

RosesAndHellebores · 27/06/2024 21:41

I'm 64.
I shall chose not to take the comments of somebody so I'll educated they can't work out that one could be less than 70 if they were entitled to vote in the 1979 election.

You have also missed the point that I do not think the Conservatives deserve to win this election but I will vote for the Tory candidate in my constituency because the are the best candidate and have the intellect, strength of purpose and vision to help rebuild what is left of the Conservative party on 5th July.

You are quite right about me not using the NHS wherever possible. It failed my family on many occasions between 1997 and 2010. It continues to do so. It is unfit for purpose regardless of any amount of money thrown at it.

Still working full-time and have DC in their latest 20s so not as out of touch as yiu have implied.

No need to justify your politics but you may wish to reflect upon your courtesy.

I wonder if I can ask you some questions please?

Why you feel the Conservatives don't deserve to win this election.
Why you are willing to vote for a party you don't believe in and then wait for them to rebuild when the country is in such a muddle?
How long do you think the rebuilding will take?
What will they be like, what will their policies be and what will they deliver once they have rebuilt?

Knitgoodwoman · 27/06/2024 21:55

I’m voting Labour at the moment, I’m not thrilled about it.

Im nervous about them over spending and increasing the welfare budget… I’m nervous about them taxing people like me (and not holding rich people/businesses to account and curbing business fraud). The real issue.

But I can’t vote Tory as they’ve absolutely fucked the economy!

Dorisbonson · 27/06/2024 21:56

ThinkAboutItTomorrow · 27/06/2024 17:51

I think labour are rightly focused on not fucking up and that's making Starmer come across as wooden.

In power, with a decent majority, I'm 100% sure they'll make thing's significant better.

Tories have a long and proven track record of being both incompetent and evil. Not to mention entitled.

Evil? The 14m people that voted Tory last time were supporting evil?

This fascinates me. What in particular about them was evil? That's a really powerful word. You said they have a long and proven track record of being evil. Can you explain what evil things they have done?

Can you explain what you think evil means?

Or were you deliberately trying to make Labour voters look stupid? Good try if you were.

Churchview · 27/06/2024 21:58

The conservatives know that Labour are going to have to put taxes up in order to effect charge and are going to enjoy watching this.
The Tories have put up taxes to one of the highest levels ever.

They also know that their method for stopping the boats won’t work and hope no one notices.
The Tories haven't managed to 'stop the boats' and we have noticed how much of our money they have wasted on the failed Rwanda scheme.

anniegun · 27/06/2024 22:00

Labour look decent to me . The Tories have caused this country pure misery

VestaTilley · 27/06/2024 22:00

YANBU. I was a Labour member for 14 years- you couldn’t pay me to vote for them now. It’s genuinely frightening what they’ll do to women.

Spoiling my ballot here since 2019. If vote Party of Women if we had a candidate or may vote SDP as they’re good on sex/gender.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2024 22:01

Churchview · 27/06/2024 21:58

The conservatives know that Labour are going to have to put taxes up in order to effect charge and are going to enjoy watching this.
The Tories have put up taxes to one of the highest levels ever.

They also know that their method for stopping the boats won’t work and hope no one notices.
The Tories haven't managed to 'stop the boats' and we have noticed how much of our money they have wasted on the failed Rwanda scheme.

If you acknowledge Labour will put them up again then that will be the new highest ever surely

We’ll be the only country trying to take out gangs as the main method, up against a potential Le Pen gov keen on moving people across the channel

VoteLabour · 27/06/2024 22:01

@Dorisbonson , she has already said that she'll be voting for the candidate not the party.

Churchview · 27/06/2024 22:03

Dorisbonson · 27/06/2024 21:56

Evil? The 14m people that voted Tory last time were supporting evil?

This fascinates me. What in particular about them was evil? That's a really powerful word. You said they have a long and proven track record of being evil. Can you explain what evil things they have done?

Can you explain what you think evil means?

Or were you deliberately trying to make Labour voters look stupid? Good try if you were.

Johnson's 'Let the bodies pile high' comment during covid was evil.
https://www.reuters.com/world/uk/uk-pms-former-adviser-confirms-johnson-said-let-bodies-pile-high-2021-05-26/

ThatMauveSnake · 27/06/2024 22:04

Dorisbonson · 27/06/2024 21:56

Evil? The 14m people that voted Tory last time were supporting evil?

This fascinates me. What in particular about them was evil? That's a really powerful word. You said they have a long and proven track record of being evil. Can you explain what evil things they have done?

Can you explain what you think evil means?

Or were you deliberately trying to make Labour voters look stupid? Good try if you were.

I wouldn’t personally have used the word “evil” to describe the Tories but “let the bodies pile high” springs to mind.

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