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Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 17:39

I desperately want to GTTO but the last few years have taught me that ‘any change’ isn’t always good and things can get worse, even if you think they can’t.

I’ve watched all the debates now and Starmer is so… wet. I don’t like him. The first thing he did when women’s rights were mentioned his first thought was men who ‘identify as women’ and how ‘marginalised’ they are. When asked about immigration he squirmed and squirmed before muttering about his role as DPP (who cares? We want to know what you plan to do NOW). When asked about his support for Corbyn he said ‘but I didn’t think we would actually win..’

There’s something about him which is making me very uncomfortable and I just have a bad feeling now about what would happen if he was leader.

Anyone else? If you’re not voting Tory or Labour, who are you voting for and why? I assumed I would vote Labour this time but my gut is suddenly screaming at me not to!

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ArabellaScott · 27/06/2024 21:17

Evenstar · 27/06/2024 17:49

This is worth remembering

What about when it looks like all the buses are headed for various cliffs? Then what?

bergamotorange · 27/06/2024 21:17

Absc · 27/06/2024 21:06

I didn’t say I was voting for them and yes I am from a farming family as well and yes we have been screwed. But they want us to pay full inheritance on farmland etc which we never needed to before. If I inherited I couldn’t afford to do that so unless another family member could that would be farm gone

You've fallen for a tall tale@Absc

This about farms was made up by the Tories.

No one wants farms broken up. Food is important.

VanGoghsDog · 27/06/2024 21:18

I get your concerns, I really do.

Starmer is trying to play to the floating voter who might prefer Reform. Immigration has become a big issue in this election (it's not an issue for me personally at all, though human rights is) and he has to strike the right balance.

Ref the women thing - I totally understand, it's a massive concern for me too. But in the end, I can't vote on one issue alone. And I console myself with the fact that the parties who do know what a woman is only do so in order to be regressive and do things like ban abortion, reduce maternity rights (my Tory MP was very clear at his public meeting that he opposes abortion and he spoke about women as if they were second class citizens, except when reminding us that he's all for us having our own spaces. He conveniently forgot that Teresa May had tried to introduce self ID, I reminded him and he told me I was wrong - that's how much they think of women in the wild!).

I actually see Starmer as a man with integrity, but that holds him back in the debates because, unlike many, he won't outright lie. And I think he gets thrown when others do (Sunak's £2,000 thing, for example).

I've voted. I voted Labour. No others came close to offering anything I could get behind. Plus Labour have the best chance to GTTO where I am - had that been LibDem I might have gone for it. Had it been Reform I definitely would not have done.

Viviennemary · 27/06/2024 21:18

I am a bit. I'm not keen on that Angela Rayner and her leftie pals and don't admire her at all, But like a lot of folk I want to see the back of the Tories so needs must. Nobody else is going to beat them.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2024 21:18

Cooper77 · 27/06/2024 21:15

I agree with so much of this. In 2022, net immigration was 750,000. Every time I see that written down it shocks me. Add in illegals and it was probably closer to a million. A million extra people in one year!! WHERE ARE THEY SUPPOSED TO LIVE?? This isn't Australia. It's a small, crowded island with horrendous traffic and rabbit hutch houses jammed on top of one another. I 100% do not trust Labour on immigration. To say that Starmer is evasive on this issue is an understatement. He has no intention of cracking down, that's clear. In fact, things will get much worse, especially if they have a big majority. Restrictions will be scrapped, barriers will be removed, deportations will be blocked, and so on.

Starmer has described himself as a YIMBY. I'd respect him more if he just came out with it and said "listen, you bunch of horrible little NIMBYs. We have no intention of stopping mass immigration. You're just going to have to get used to it. If that means you can't get to work because of the traffic, or that the fields and woods near you are covered in houses and flats, well boo hoo. You'll just have to live with it, won't you!" That is what he and his party really think.

Starmer is basically a socialist. The man supported Jeremy Corbyn ffs. That alone should be enough to make you hesitate. This is too serious. Anyone who supported loony left Corbyn isn't fit for office. And when quizzed on it, he said "oh, well, I knew he was going lose anyway." What kind of a f-ing pathetic answer is that?! Starmer is on the verge of being our PM, with the country's fate in his hands. We need someone strong and solid, with a sense of responsibility. Either a) he didn't support Corbyn but was too weak and gutless to say so, or b) he did support Corbyn, and is in fact a borderline communist pretending to be a moderate.

Tbf Aus is having similar debates over immigration numbers. Even with space

And it’ll feature in US elections. And EU

I can see everyone else going hardline, which could be destabilising for us

Zotter · 27/06/2024 21:18

Britain, as seen from America currently. Tories must go.

”There is mold in the walls and shit in the rivers, posh butter in the supermarkets has anti-theft tags stuck to it, the trains run on schedule about half the time, the average pub-poured pint of lager—the blood of the nation—is nearing the criminal price of 5 pounds ($6.34), and on May 22 a new general election was announced to the people of Great Britain by a prime minister who is richer than the king.”

https://newrepublic.com/article/182987/british-election-reckoning-brexit-postponed

Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?
VanGoghsDog · 27/06/2024 21:20

MattBakerFan · 27/06/2024 21:15

YES YES YES. This thread is a depressing read. People have fallen for the Tory propaganda “they’re all as bad as each other” type rubbish. The Tories have had 14 years and the country is in bits!

There was Sure Start, and lower crime rates......those things are linked!

EasternStandard · 27/06/2024 21:20

Zotter · 27/06/2024 21:18

Britain, as seen from America currently. Tories must go.

”There is mold in the walls and shit in the rivers, posh butter in the supermarkets has anti-theft tags stuck to it, the trains run on schedule about half the time, the average pub-poured pint of lager—the blood of the nation—is nearing the criminal price of 5 pounds ($6.34), and on May 22 a new general election was announced to the people of Great Britain by a prime minister who is richer than the king.”

https://newrepublic.com/article/182987/british-election-reckoning-brexit-postponed

Edited

Odd writing

DogInATent · 27/06/2024 21:20

Cooper77 · 27/06/2024 21:15

I agree with so much of this. In 2022, net immigration was 750,000. Every time I see that written down it shocks me. Add in illegals and it was probably closer to a million. A million extra people in one year!! WHERE ARE THEY SUPPOSED TO LIVE?? This isn't Australia. It's a small, crowded island with horrendous traffic and rabbit hutch houses jammed on top of one another. I 100% do not trust Labour on immigration. To say that Starmer is evasive on this issue is an understatement. He has no intention of cracking down, that's clear. In fact, things will get much worse, especially if they have a big majority. Restrictions will be scrapped, barriers will be removed, deportations will be blocked, and so on.

Starmer has described himself as a YIMBY. I'd respect him more if he just came out with it and said "listen, you bunch of horrible little NIMBYs. We have no intention of stopping mass immigration. You're just going to have to get used to it. If that means you can't get to work because of the traffic, or that the fields and woods near you are covered in houses and flats, well boo hoo. You'll just have to live with it, won't you!" That is what he and his party really think.

Starmer is basically a socialist. The man supported Jeremy Corbyn ffs. That alone should be enough to make you hesitate. This is too serious. Anyone who supported loony left Corbyn isn't fit for office. And when quizzed on it, he said "oh, well, I knew he was going lose anyway." What kind of a f-ing pathetic answer is that?! Starmer is on the verge of being our PM, with the country's fate in his hands. We need someone strong and solid, with a sense of responsibility. Either a) he didn't support Corbyn but was too weak and gutless to say so, or b) he did support Corbyn, and is in fact a borderline communist pretending to be a moderate.

660,000.
And that includes those arriving from Ukraine and Hong Kong. And estimates vary between 3-5 million as to how many Hong Kong residents have been given the right to come to the UK under agreements made by the Conservative government.

twilightermummy · 27/06/2024 21:22

I can't understand why he's leading Labour - what a mistake! They have such a powerful shadow cabinet, I can't believe that somehow he's frothed to the top. Jess Phillips, Lisa Nandi, Wes Streeting, Angela Rayner & Andy Burnham are all much better. However, I don't think that they will create enough change and they're too centre for me now.

Therefore, I'm now looking at Lib Dems or Green. Their manifestos represent what matters to me the most. Steve Beasant for the Lib Dems in Grimsby is brilliant. He regularly clears high fly-tipping areas and has worked hard for years. I'm still upset about their coalition with the Tories though so, I'm still undecided.

RogueFemale · 27/06/2024 21:23

RosesAndHellebores · 27/06/2024 21:09

I have voted Conservative since 1979.

I don't think the Conservatives deserve to win this election.

However, on my assessment of our local candidates, I think the Conservative candidate (a new one after 20 plus years, in a constituency where a donkey with a blue rosette would win ordinarily) is the best person to represent the local constituency and is an excellent choice to be part of a party that needs to rebuild itself.

I shall vote locally, for my local Conservative candidate.

I'll assume you're at least 70 years old and very out of touch with the shitstorm of incompetence that is now the UK. Maybe you have private health insurance, because you can't possibly be unaware of the other shitstorm that is the NHS.

I used to vote Tory, and yes, from 1979. I ceased to be a Tory voter after the Brexit referendum in 2016.

The Tory party is no longer the Tory party, not after they (Johnson) got rid of the good guys such as Dominic Grieve. So, if you vote Tory, you are voting for a party which is deep in right wing bollocks and has no centre or morality. They serve only themselves.

TaxiCabsAndBusyStreets · 27/06/2024 21:24

HonoraBridge · 27/06/2024 20:48

This doesn’t surprise me. Many people make assumptions about Reform that are unfair.

Maybe because so many of their candidates and activists keep airing horrific racist views? Three of them in Clacton talking about murdering Muslims and asylum seekers, replacing police with paramilitaries and turning mosques into Wetherspoons. How many have had to be disowned by Reform and yet it keeps happening?

Previousreligion · 27/06/2024 21:24

SpindleyDindley · 27/06/2024 20:55

Okay in that case I will vote for them to irritate self righteous Labour voters. Am I allowed to do that? Pretty please 😂

Edited

I say be careful with this strategy. I know one person who said she was going to vote for Brexit, despite not being a Brexit supporter, "because it will never actually happen but will be a wakeup call for the Tories". Basically a protest vote. Tbh I find it hard to forgive her for being so irresponsible given what happened next.

Only vote for a person you'd really be happy to win imo.

I'm not a Labour voter btw.

IClaudine · 27/06/2024 21:24

twilightermummy · 27/06/2024 21:22

I can't understand why he's leading Labour - what a mistake! They have such a powerful shadow cabinet, I can't believe that somehow he's frothed to the top. Jess Phillips, Lisa Nandi, Wes Streeting, Angela Rayner & Andy Burnham are all much better. However, I don't think that they will create enough change and they're too centre for me now.

Therefore, I'm now looking at Lib Dems or Green. Their manifestos represent what matters to me the most. Steve Beasant for the Lib Dems in Grimsby is brilliant. He regularly clears high fly-tipping areas and has worked hard for years. I'm still upset about their coalition with the Tories though so, I'm still undecided.

Andy Burnham isn't an MP!

Churchview · 27/06/2024 21:25

Absc · 27/06/2024 21:06

I didn’t say I was voting for them and yes I am from a farming family as well and yes we have been screwed. But they want us to pay full inheritance on farmland etc which we never needed to before. If I inherited I couldn’t afford to do that so unless another family member could that would be farm gone

https://www.fwi.co.uk/business/tories-and-labour-clash-on-farm-inheritance-tax-claims

Labour haven't said they will put inheritance tax on farmland.
The Tories spread that rumour and Labour replied that it was "desperate nonsense”.

Tories and Labour clash on farm inheritance tax claims - Farmers Weekly

The Conservatives have accused Labour of planning a £1bn inheritance tax raid on UK family farms, putting the UK’s food security at risk. Defra secretary

https://www.fwi.co.uk/business/tories-and-labour-clash-on-farm-inheritance-tax-claims

FictionalCharacter · 27/06/2024 21:26

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/06/2024 18:46

But he’s not boring and stable, he’s boring and slippery. He seems unable to give a straightforward answer to anything. The only times he seems passionate are when he’s talking about trans people or his father’s occupation.

I agree. He isn’t assertive, shows no conviction let alone passion, and doesn’t act like a leader at all. He is vague and sits on the fence. He has a perpetually puzzled, annoyed or worried look.
I want a PM who is a strong, principled leader who speaks with conviction, not a wibbly waffler who waits to see which way the wind is blowing then half heartedly goes with the flow.

Sadza · 27/06/2024 21:26

I think Kier Starmer is a decent bloke. I don’t support all his ideas but it would be strange if I did. I think he will try and do the best for the people and quite frankly after Boris, Liz Truss and Sunak a bit of quiet decency is welcome.

Piggywaspushed · 27/06/2024 21:26

IClaudine · 27/06/2024 21:24

Andy Burnham isn't an MP!

And JP isn't in the shadow cabinet..

Greenismyfav · 27/06/2024 21:30

Churchview · 27/06/2024 21:25

https://www.fwi.co.uk/business/tories-and-labour-clash-on-farm-inheritance-tax-claims

Labour haven't said they will put inheritance tax on farmland.
The Tories spread that rumour and Labour replied that it was "desperate nonsense”.

Lots of talk in the tax community is that the agricultural inheritance tax loophole is much too generous and far too open to abuse. I think if they’ve ruled out other tax rises then this is the sort of thing they’ll look at.

RogueFemale · 27/06/2024 21:30

@MaryMaryVeryContrary I desperately want to GTTO but the last few years have taught me that ‘any change’ isn’t always good and things can get worse, even if you think they can’t.

Then vote Tory, if you want more of the same and a PM who is richer than the king.

VoteLabour · 27/06/2024 21:31

@Absc , Farmers Weekly has always been Right-leaning.

Fleaspray · 27/06/2024 21:32

I’m voting labour. Our local MP is Labour and they are superb - incredibly helpful and visible to constituents - she’d get my vote regardless of who was in charge of the party. I agree with a PP who said Labour are deliberately keeping KS bland but I think he’s a solid choice for PM.

Zotter · 27/06/2024 21:32

Restrictions will be scrapped, barriers will be removed, deportations will be blocked, and so on.

Ed Conway points out that "legal migration utterly, utterly dwarfs the small boats side of things... it's very different to the overall narrative that we tend to hear about.”

Anyone else wobbling about voting Labour?
DogInATent · 27/06/2024 21:32

Greenismyfav · 27/06/2024 21:30

Lots of talk in the tax community is that the agricultural inheritance tax loophole is much too generous and far too open to abuse. I think if they’ve ruled out other tax rises then this is the sort of thing they’ll look at.

But that's what you think, not what they've said. And in the last government the Conservative chancellors repeatedly raised taxes contrary to their manifesto commitments.

The Conservatives have current form for breaking their own tax commitments.

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 27/06/2024 21:33

I've voted by post, for an Independent, as the Labour candidate is a shoo-in and I agreed with the Independent's stance on most things. He has no chance of getting anywhere but I am hoping my vote will be one of sufficient votes for him to prevent him losing his deposit, though I'm afraid that's highly unlikely.

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