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David Tennant: women should "shut up"

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jacksonlamb · 26/06/2024 13:36

As a (now ex) David Tennant fan I was so disappointed to hear his speech yesterday. Whilst talking about trans rights he told his audience that he wanted a world where "we wake up and Kemi Badenoch doesn't exist anymore. I don't wish ill of her, I just wish her to shut up."

(There's some devious doublespeak here: if you wish someone didn't exist, you obviously wish them ill).

But more importantly, how dare he tell women to shut up about women's rights. Yet again powerful and privileged men tell women what they are and are not allowed to say. They must shut up whilst men speak. Their views are wrong, men are right.

Anyone has the right to believe that the rights of trans people are more important than the rights of women (although I believe this is profoundly wrong). What they do not have the right to do is bully, belittle and threaten women who disagree with them; who are trying to protect their hard fought rights.

I despair.

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Loveofmine · 26/06/2024 15:00

@Hiphopopotamonster

https://nypost.com/2024/06/14/sports/ex-teammate-of-lia-thomas-demands-apology-for-being-forced-to-undress-with-tranms-swimmer/

Thomas had previously competed on the men’s swimming team before switching to the women’s team in the fall of 2021. The swimmer then began changing in the women’s locker room, which Scanlan previously said was traumatic for her as a sexual-assault survivor.

https://abc30.com/amp/fresno-homeless-poverello-house-sexual-harassment/3514544/

It says the shelter requires them to shower in groups, and it opened its doors to a person who identified themself as a transgender woman who made lewd and sexually inappropriate comments, and leered at them while they were naked.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/columnists/2024/01/04/munroe-bergdorf-trans-champion-un-woman-uk/

Munroe Bergdorf’s appointment as the ‘UK Champion’ for UN Women UK

https://amp.theguardian.com/books/2021/mar/10/first-trans-woman-makes-womens-prize-longlist-alongside-dawn-french-and-ali-smith

A trans woman has been nominated for the Women’s prize for fiction.

https://nypost.com/2023/05/31/runner-chelsea-mitchell-who-lost-to-trans-athletes-this-is-about-fairness/

Just two athletes took so many opportunities away from biological females,” Mitchell told The Post. “Even though there were only two of them, they took 15 state championships away from other girls — and there were 85 girls that were directly impacted from them being in the races.”
She herself lost two all-New England awards and four girls’ state championships as a consequence.
“Having to lose four of them, time after time, and trying to pick yourself up and go back to the starting line again and again was really hard because you knew each time that there was no hope to win,” she said.

https://wpde.com/amp/news/nation-world/after-trans-woman-exposed-genitalia-to-freshman-girls-in-locker-room-shower-school-district-faces-legal-scrutiny

A transgender-identifying student who is biologically male showered in the girls' locker room alongside four freshman girls, exposing them to male genitalia.

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/investigations/man-posing-as-transgender-woman-raped-female-prisoner-at-rikers-lawsuit-says/5067904/?amp=1

even after warnings and complaints, the victim said correction officers failed to remove the alleged perpetrator from female housing, despite allegedly propositioning the victim sexually and groping her in the shower. Days later, the victim claims she was sexually assaulted in her sleep by the perpetrator

https://www.yahoo.com/news/3rd-strike-trans-rape-suspect-080011578.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAANbEkMA5POVKmtnEqKSg9LJoX6c_OV4_MluevnRK2kYebVEEwqfE3Wp7GJbOB9ZSj1eY0HybeGR7-sGvhe21CoZBcI-FUCpLfQ5n404ex9mZCK9M9gmrik-MIm-1_Yr3i_OStLp1-UAK1ogk4qm9pirLScvKOymTf4Nn_B1-LPjY

One of the alleged victims of the Jan. 30 incident is a biological female, identified as Jane Doe in court documents, who said Carroll attacked her in the shower at the Central California Women’s Facility and raped her. The complaint also mentions another unidentified victim.

https://nypost.com/2023/12/13/news/detransitioner-suing-american-academy-of-pediatrics/

A Florida woman who medically transitioned from female to male as a 14-year-old is suing the American Academy of Pediatrics — alleging she was whisked through the process as a minor by “a collection of actors who prioritized politics and ideology over children’s safety, health, and well-being.”

https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2023/jul/01/maya-forstater-woman-who-lost-job-after-tweeting-view-on-biological-sex-awarded-100000-by-tribunal

A researcher who lost her job at a thinktank after tweeting that transgender women could not change their biological sex has been awarded more than £100,000 in compensation by an employment tribunal.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/08/06/teresa-steele-same-sex-care-denied-surgery-nhs-london-hca/

Teresa Steele developed an abscess after delays to operation following request for only biological women to provide her with intimate care.

But it’s not about women’s rights 🙄🙄🙄

Lia Thomas’ ex-teammate demands apology for being forced to ‘undress’ with transgender swimmer

“Okay, but is anyone going to apologize for forcing us to undress with him 18 times a week?” Paula Scanlan wrote, refusing to use the trans swimmer’s preferred pronouns.

https://nypost.com/2024/06/14/sports/ex-teammate-of-lia-thomas-demands-apology-for-being-forced-to-undress-with-tranms-swimmer

ArabellaScott · 26/06/2024 15:00

2022anon · 26/06/2024 14:50

Really? You think he wants someone to kill KB?

No - he's an actor; playing to his crowd, swept up by his own rhetoric. (Then checked himself, hence the 'I don't wish her harm' bit.)

Still an idiot though.

I don't think he wants someone to kill KB, but given there are plenty of dangerously unhinged people out there who are misogynists and racist, making a comment like that is irresponsible and inflammatory.

'swept up by his own rhetoric. (Then checked himself, hence the 'I don't wish her harm' bit.)'

The fact he had to deny that he wished her harm is quite revealing.

Conkersinautumn · 26/06/2024 15:01

He specified an individual. That's not all women. HtH

ArabellaScott · 26/06/2024 15:02

TiddlyFlaps · 26/06/2024 15:00

Literal years and thousands upon thousands of posts and comments on these mn boards have wished, insisted, stated and restated that trans & non binary people don’t exist and they should all shut up about it, and looking forward to the day the world will wake up without trans being a thing any more.

Are we finally acknowledging that saying something like that about a specific person or group of people is in fact harmful?

Because if you’re reading DT’s full transcript and interpreting that as wishing death upon KB, you’ll need to extend that interpretation to an awful lot of regular posters on these boards.

“I suppose if I’m honest I’m a little depressed by the fact that acknowledging that everyone has the right to be who they want to be and live their life how they want to live it as long as they’re not hurting anyone else should merit any kind of special or award or special mention because it’s common sense, isn’t it?” Tennant said in his speech. “It’s human decency. We shouldn’t live in a world where that is worth remarking on. However until we wake up and Kemi Badenoch doesn’t exist anymore — I don’t wish ill of her, I just wish her to shut up — whilst we do live in this world I am honoured to receive this.”

'Literal years and thousands upon thousands of posts and comments on these mn boards have wished, insisted, stated and restated that trans & non binary people don’t exist and they should all shut up about it, and looking forward to the day the world will wake up without trans being a thing any more.'

Absolute specious nonsense.

CantDealwithChristmas · 26/06/2024 15:05

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 26/06/2024 14:36

She's the Minister for Women and Equality. I don't think it was anything to do with her race.

It was a crowd of posh, privileged, wealthy white people braying and cheering as one of their own wished a Black Woman out of existence and into silence for the temerity of having an informed opinion.

The coloniser spirit is alive and well in Britain.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/06/2024 15:05

Literal years and thousands upon thousands of posts and comments on these mn boards have wished, insisted, stated and restated that trans & non binary people don’t exist and they should all shut up about it, and looking forward to the day the world will wake up without trans being a thing any more.

No one is denying they exist. We just don't buy into the idea that men can be women. So it's a difference in belief.

2022anon · 26/06/2024 15:06

ArabellaScott · 26/06/2024 15:00

I don't think he wants someone to kill KB, but given there are plenty of dangerously unhinged people out there who are misogynists and racist, making a comment like that is irresponsible and inflammatory.

'swept up by his own rhetoric. (Then checked himself, hence the 'I don't wish her harm' bit.)'

The fact he had to deny that he wished her harm is quite revealing.

"The fact he had to deny that he wished her harm is quite revealing."

I agree. He knows how unhinged/criminal some of the TRAs are.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/06/2024 15:06

What is a "non binary person" btw @TiddlyFlaps ?

Worthalltheyears · 26/06/2024 15:08

Onedayatatime22 · 26/06/2024 13:41

You're twisting this - it's one woman... one woman with some very extreme and unpleasant views.

Badenoch may have some unpleasant views but her views in respect of single sex places and similar are not amongst them.
Her expressed views on sex and gender are in line with a significant number of people.

Worthalltheyears · 26/06/2024 15:09

Stormyseasallround · 26/06/2024 13:44

You’re completely misrepresenting what he said. He wants her to shut up, not all women. And she’s vile, and I completely agree with him.

What has she done or said that is vile?

SerafinasGoose · 26/06/2024 15:11

Literal years and thousands upon thousands of posts and comments on these mn boards have wished, insisted, stated and restated that trans & non binary people don’t exist and they should all shut up about it, and looking forward to the day the world will wake up without trans being a thing any more.

For clarification. What they have mainly insisted is that homosapiens are a dimorphic species and that in the whole history of that species, not one human being has a) produced both large and small gametes from the same body or b) changed sex. These are immutable biological facts. If the statement that humans cannot change sex is interpreted as a wish that trans people didn't exist, then it's precisely that. An interpretation.

I don't think many women, either on the FWR boards or elsewhere, care particularly how others choose to present - with the exception that they object to being unwilling participants in someone else's fetish (again, this is not a sweeping accusation that all trans people are fetishists. But it's not outlandish to state that this breakdown in boundaries between those who generally use female facilities and the more recent infiltrators WILL be taken advantage of by predatory men).

Women are principally objecting to 'woman' becoming a dirty word, to the very language we use to describe ourselves being subject to erasure, and for safeguarding principles to be broken down on the basis of absurd definitions as to a 'woman' being anyone who says they're a woman. And yes, they want the constant assault on women's rights by the TRA lobby to stop.

Nowhere here is there a claim that 'trans people don't exist'. It's a silly, frivolous and meaningless objection. It's also tedious in its predictability.

ilovesooty · 26/06/2024 15:11

I'm looking forward to seeing and hearing less of Badenoch after the election.

cupcaske123 · 26/06/2024 15:11

CantDealwithChristmas · 26/06/2024 15:05

It was a crowd of posh, privileged, wealthy white people braying and cheering as one of their own wished a Black Woman out of existence and into silence for the temerity of having an informed opinion.

The coloniser spirit is alive and well in Britain.

The coloniser spirit is alive and well in Britain

Not according to Kemi, it isn't.

The LGBTQ community are some of the least privileged in society. Do you have a breakdown of attendees by race and background? Tennant isn't 'posh' btw.

cupcaske123 · 26/06/2024 15:12

ilovesooty · 26/06/2024 15:11

I'm looking forward to seeing and hearing less of Badenoch after the election.

Edited

She's running again for party leader. So unlikely.

Danbury · 26/06/2024 15:12

Tennant is entitled to his views just as much as Badenoch is entitled to her views.

Taking his comment to its logical conclusion, if he wishes her to shut up then someone with an opposing view to his would want him to shut up. So then we end up with nobody saying anything.

I do wish 'celebrities' would use their brains before they speak.

SerafinasGoose · 26/06/2024 15:13

The LGBTQ community are some of the least privileged in society.

That, I'm afraid, is arrant nonsense.

sprigatito · 26/06/2024 15:14

I'd like the entire Tory front bench to disappear in a puff of smoke tbh. But failing that, I'd settle for them shutting the fuck up.

Thiswayorthatway · 26/06/2024 15:15

bluebeck · 26/06/2024 13:37

So he didn’t say “women” should shut up.

Just one specific woman.

This

JulianAssangesCat · 26/06/2024 15:15

As he and others are so keen to point out that transpeople exist, you’d think he could accept Kemi Badenoch’s right to exist.

cupcaske123 · 26/06/2024 15:15

Loveofmine · 26/06/2024 15:13

The LGBTQ community are some of the least privileged in society.

why do you think this @cupcaske123

these people certainly don’t seem among the ‘least privileged’ in society?

https://medium.com/translating-everything/17-famous-parents-of-trans-kids-46f9e23259f2

I said the LGBTQ community. Not the celebrity parents of a handful. Keep up.

CheltenhamLady · 26/06/2024 15:15

CantDealwithChristmas · 26/06/2024 15:05

It was a crowd of posh, privileged, wealthy white people braying and cheering as one of their own wished a Black Woman out of existence and into silence for the temerity of having an informed opinion.

The coloniser spirit is alive and well in Britain.

What utter rubbish.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 26/06/2024 15:15

I'm not a Tory, I'm sure there are many, many things I would disagree with Kemi Badenoch on. I don't wish her out of existence though, and it's not great for a white man to wish a black woman to not exist for the specific reason that she believes sex exists and matters - he didn't specify any other reasons.

No disagreement allowed anymore - seems too often that the standard response to someone having a different opinion to you these days is that they should not exist/die horribly.

ScribblingPixie · 26/06/2024 15:16

ilovesooty · 26/06/2024 15:11

I'm looking forward to seeing and hearing less of Badenoch after the election.

Edited

Unlikely. She may be one of the main voices of the Opposition. You may see and hear more of her.

JulianAssangesCat · 26/06/2024 15:16

The only women he wants to “shut up” are those who disagree with him. I’m sure he’d like JKR and Kathleen Stock to shut up (or cease to exist) too.

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