I’ve cross posted because I’m desperate and I’ve literally no where to turn
So my husband of 7 years went on holiday and never came back (3 weeks ago, not dead just a shithead).
he’s left me with 2 young children. 4 and 2. I work full time. New role in probation strict 3 day in office rule.
im fucking drowning. I need to work to live. I need to be up at 6 to get breakfast before school and get ready for work myself. Im doing the bare min house wise meaning it’s all pilling up, like clean laundry etc. I tidy kitchen and kids tear apart lounge. I have no one, no village, no family (see other thread for dm situation). I’m not getting to bed before midnight most nights, I get back at 6 from work, get kids, reheat dinner, by the time they’ve tantrumed and then eaten it’s nearly 7. Then the bedtime routine, books, bath, tidying etc and then bed at 8/8:30
then I normally have to finish work I’ve not done in the day and then I need to properly clean up, sort food for the next day and before I know it it’s 11pm or later.
honestly I’m drowning
how do single mums handle it and work full time?
please if you’re a troll or love a pile on please don’t here, I feel so very fragile