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Why do people say ‘all the parties are as bad as each other’ ?

187 replies

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 08:38

‘I can’t choose between them’
’Lesser of two evils’
It’s just so flipping cynical and pessimistic. And also lets the current lot off the hook who really have been terrible. Ed Davey and Keir Starmer for example seem fairly sensible and above all honest. Current lot haven’t been. Brexit, Covid corruption, austerity. Really how can other parties that haven’t been in power for 14 years, or ever for that matter, be as bad.

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MathiasBroucek · 07/06/2024 09:26

Because governing is hard and it's unlikely that any party will create massive change.

WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:26

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:25

It's not true though. I was so much better off during the Labour period than Tory. They didn't do everything right (Iraq war was horrific) but it was so much better than the bunch of corrupt narcissists we have. Even the old Tory party of 2010 were better than the rot we have now.

Exactly this. This Tory party have realised that they can just siphon off public funds in plain sight. I find it baffling that people think it's okay. Cameron was a saint in comparison and he happily fucked a pig.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:27

KnittedCardi · 07/06/2024 09:20

If there were an MP standing in my area who'd say, been a nurse for 20 years full time, then started with union or politics stuff, I'd probably vote for them

We had one of those locally. She was awful.

Yup Nadine Dories and Maria Caulfield. Both Tories with awful reps, nurses, but doubt involved with the unions…😂

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MariaVT65 · 07/06/2024 09:28

They all have policies that i strongly disagree with.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:28

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 07/06/2024 09:21

Some of us lived through the last Labour Government and remember what they were like.

I remember it clearly. Short NHs waiting lists, minimum wage introduced, Surestart centres, more teachers, TAs introduced, more police, less divisive politics, no Brexit it was hugely better than now. Things they could have done better though was no Iraq war, started building council houses again and no arms length companies.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:30

WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:26

Exactly this. This Tory party have realised that they can just siphon off public funds in plain sight. I find it baffling that people think it's okay. Cameron was a saint in comparison and he happily fucked a pig.

I had to explain to my 17 year old that the pig fucking was a) real b) done by someone I respect more than the last 3 prime ministers.
Is face was 😱🤢😱

Magnastorm · 07/06/2024 09:31

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:28

I remember it clearly. Short NHs waiting lists, minimum wage introduced, Surestart centres, more teachers, TAs introduced, more police, less divisive politics, no Brexit it was hugely better than now. Things they could have done better though was no Iraq war, started building council houses again and no arms length companies.

I do too.

Things are much, much worse under the current tory government.

To be honest, I think we have reached the point where anyone - bar a select few who have done very well out of the tories - who looks at the shit show of the last few years and goes "yeah, but the other lot can't do any better" has to be considered a bit insane.

crackofdoom · 07/06/2024 09:32

MisterMagnolia · 07/06/2024 09:07

But there really are no good parties right now imo. I'm a floating voter and very central in my views. So I read the manifestos in detail and use 'fact checker' online before making a vote. This year their manifestos are all over the place and ill judged. Both parties are chucking in random things and both seem to lack clear vision. I like Kier Starmer, but he does seem to be a bit of a puppet. Labour have failed to support women imo, and have suddenly done a bit of a U turn following the Cass Report. Lowering the voting age to 16 seems a ploy to catch more votes for themselves as research has consistently shown younger voters to be more liberal in their views and more likely to vote for them. It seems rather self serving. Conservatives have had a tricky time in office re Covid, the economy and Brexit. But then Brexit was of their own making and Boris couldn't lie straight in bed. They have run the NHS further into the ground (although Labour increased costs through outsourcing under Tony Blair, which have continued). They don't seem to have made it a priority. And they have some deeply repugnant out of touch politicians. My personal view is that it's time for a change and that switching between parties every few years is a good thing as it refreshes and rebalances. I would absolutely love to see the NHS depoliticised and run by an independent non political body comprising medical staff with experience and with long term financial plans, in the same way as The Bank of England is more independent and has greater clout. I would also like to see the parties put forward and publish clear specific policies backed up by realistic strategies which can be properly interrogated. I do feel as though both parties could do a lot better. It's a shame that the lib dems have become a non entity and that The Green Party have become a woke infighting party, instead of having clear sensible and achievable policies. I feel that politics was better when there were 3 parties in the mix.

No manifestos have been released yet, as far as I know.

beguilingeyes · 07/06/2024 09:32

Most of the people I work with are Tory/Brexit voters who are in denial about the sheer level of criminality this lot have engaged in.
Say what you like about Keir Starmer but he wouldn't have moved his pregnant mistress into no.10 or given his American shag £100,000-odd of public money.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:33

@MathiasBroucek big aspirational policies are often expensive and risky. And get cancelled.
Since Thatcher and her obsession with free market economics and a small state the country has become wary of anything that costs money because its a drain on the public ‘purse’. No one wants higher taxes to pay for big ideas because they believe the mantra that the state is always bad. And yet when Blair and Major implemented PFI to improve investment it was also bad.

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atotalshambles · 07/06/2024 09:34

The conservatives have been horrendous but really the electorate is completely mad - Boris Johnson etc.. what did people think was going to happen? Rishi Sunak has had enough. Labour were not much better when in government. Gordon Brown sold off the gold and pensions, PFI was a horrendous expensive cost to the NHS sold under the guise of shiny new buildings. Iraq war etc... I like Keir Starmer but am not convinced by the Labour party. I have no idea what their policies are except the VAT on private school fees. I feel so despondent generally. I wish we had PR so could have seats from a wide variety of parties so at least together they have less chance of making things worse.

Asiatoyork · 07/06/2024 09:34

It is an actual campaign strategy of the Conservatives this time round to land this message, particularly on scandals and propriety issues - because they can’t defend their record. I think it is terrible for democracy to court apathy, but there you go.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:35

@crackofdoom Who’d believe a tory manifesto though ? They’re promising things that are indisputably damaging, scrap inheritance tax, scrap NI, crazy.

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 07/06/2024 09:37

Because no party can fix our problems and they don’t want to believe that

Itsonlymashadow · 07/06/2024 09:37

I don’t know. I personally have felt fucked over by successive governments since I was about 16.

I think Conservatives are screwing people like my dp over (disabled) and Labour will be damaging to my adult daughter.

My local Labour MP is a bag of shit and either lies or ignores people.

Gallowayan · 07/06/2024 09:38

It's just a conversational cliche or trope. Something to say if you are too lazy to think or care, or go out and vote.

CHEESEY13 · 07/06/2024 09:38

But if you have lived through quite a few General Elections, heard the glowing promises, the arguments, the threats, topped off with gilded manifestos........and within mere weeks (sometimes days) have seen the pledges turn to meaningless ashes, whoever wins, it's tremendously difficult not to feel EVERY politician is a self-serving swindler.

Itsonlymashadow · 07/06/2024 09:39

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:35

@crackofdoom Who’d believe a tory manifesto though ? They’re promising things that are indisputably damaging, scrap inheritance tax, scrap NI, crazy.

Why is scraping inheritance tax, damaging?

I thought not many people paid anyway, it’s one of those issues that often comes up but doesn’t change much wether it’s in place or not.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:39

@atotalshambles this meme that they ‘sold off our gold’ is old hat though and really shouldn’t overshadow the genuine achievements of that period.
PFI was a continuation from Major, the economy was shot, infrastructure was falling apart, and yet no one wanted to pay higher taxes to remedy it, so Blair extended PFI.
Blame Thatcher for decrepit public services, crumbling schools etc.

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Araminta1003 · 07/06/2024 09:43

Because each of the Parties have ideologies some of us fundamentally don’t agree with.

So Lib Dem stance on what a woman is. Some of us really want full minority support for people with gender dysphoria and have lots of empathy for them. But we don’t want our children to be told lies about biological sex and to confuse them and we want safe spaces for women. Nevertheless I am voting Lib Dem as my candidate locally is the best and I don’t think they personally are too into this.

Labour’s ideological stance on private schools is ludicrous and helps nobody. Why not just fund SEN better and make sure all kids in state schools get more exercise. It’s SEN and sports that the private sector do better, it isn’t that complicated. Joe Wicks will be happy to help if you want some branding attached to your ideology.
And I totally agree that your own child’s or relative’s health or education always comes first. Not your party’s outdated bloody ideology.

Tories a cess pit of infighting. They can’t agree amongst themselves. They are too focussed on the grey vote at the expense of our future as well.

The real truth is that politicians have divided the country and there is no clarity between the left and the right anymore. At the poorer uneducated level many hate immigrants and want the nanny state to look out for them. The reality is that all work needs to pay a better wage and housing conditions and access to health needs to improve for all, but some personal responsibility towards your own health (don’t smoke and get fat and drink too much) and own life needs to be taken as well. Lots of traditional Labour voters were pro Brexit. So Labour is too chicken to backtrack on Brexit/closer alliance which is rubbish for the rest of us.

For all of us it would be better if the Centrist got together and formed a whole new party and ditched the far left as well. Sunak was held to ransom by reform type thinking- it’s good they split. Starmer needs to manage those out in his own party gradually who have extremist views too, he clearly tried but the press won’t let him get away with it.

The irony is that I don’t believe that either Starmer or Sunak personally believe in the some of the ideologies their party stands for. So it is a shitshow.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:44

@Itsonlymashadow agreed it only affects top 4% of the population.
I’ve no probs with it. Clearly just pure vote catching gimmickry, pretty much like the labour VAT policy. In the cold light of day one policy helps the richest, the other doesn’t 🤷🏻‍♂️If you don’t mind about scrapping IHT, surely same for VAT on private education…goes both ways.

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TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyHusband · 07/06/2024 09:44

This election is like finding out Jimmy Savile's hospital visit has been cancelled only to hear the sound of a digeridoo coming down the hallway

WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:44

Last week my disabled neighbour had a stroke, his GP called an ambulance and they waited for five hours.
My child has had four different teachers over her final A-Level year.
Our local wild swimming chair ended up hospitalised after an ear infection from dirty water gave her a brain infection. I no longer wild swim.
Our town centre is largely boarded up.
My friends in Devon have crytosporidium after sewage got into the drinking water.
The waiting list for my 'emergency' gynae surgery was a minimum of 18 months.

Not to mention the fact that the entire social contract has broken down and our society is now more fractured than ever.

These are the things that really matter to me. These are the things that were very, very different under a new labour government.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:45

@TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyHusband see it’s analogies like that that are so ridiculous. And it diminishes what the Tories really have done.

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 07/06/2024 09:45

WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:44

Last week my disabled neighbour had a stroke, his GP called an ambulance and they waited for five hours.
My child has had four different teachers over her final A-Level year.
Our local wild swimming chair ended up hospitalised after an ear infection from dirty water gave her a brain infection. I no longer wild swim.
Our town centre is largely boarded up.
My friends in Devon have crytosporidium after sewage got into the drinking water.
The waiting list for my 'emergency' gynae surgery was a minimum of 18 months.

Not to mention the fact that the entire social contract has broken down and our society is now more fractured than ever.

These are the things that really matter to me. These are the things that were very, very different under a new labour government.

I agree but can they fix it?