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Noangelbuthavingfun · 06/06/2024 23:11

Many threads on MN ... I want to know this: why haven't Labour given any info on their modelling of what will likely happen and the different scenarios that could play out when they impose VAT? It matters - because if they get thus wrong ... and a shed load of kids leave private because their families have scrimped to send them there ... the state sector in some councils will quickly be overwhelmed with kids needing state places that does not exist....which could be a lose lose for everyone! You don't build a new school and resource it in a month.... these things take years . I feel for all kids as they will all lose out if this happens and labour having got contingency in place.
How would you feel if your child is in a good state school , perhaps they get some SEND support...and suddenly there is an influx of private kids as they need the spaces. Class sizes go up to 40, all SEND provision gets cut as not enough funds, extra curricular gets cut and teachers are even more stressed, so the vicious circle if teacher shortages now intensifies....the spiral continues for years to come. Who has won?? No one ....
What are your thoughts on this ?
I don't disagree with the principle that private is a luxury and probably should pay VAT... what I disagree with is the notion you can just implement something that will fundamentally shift things on a seismic way in one big bang. No thought whatsoever. Tell me if you agree or have a different view and why ?

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Xelawho · 07/06/2024 10:00

I don’t have a child in private school and don’t intend to (my husband is a state school teacher and passionate about the state system) but I think any policy that raises money through taxing education is a cynical policy.

Similar to healthcare. Private healthcare in VAT exempt, though it is out of reach of many. But I wouldn’t support adding VAT to private healthcare, though you could argue that people going private are also trying to ‘jump the societal queue.’

Raise money in other ways - I think taxing parents trying to pay for their children’s education is a depressing route (with seemingly mediocre financial gain) and doesn’t motivate or appeal to me as a Labour voter.

wombat15 · 07/06/2024 10:00

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 09:54

@Scruffily An extra £18K a year IS an unbelievably heavy burden, on top of the tax I already pay. Education is NOT and never has been treated as a “luxury” on which VAT is charged. If we were still in the EU, under EU law the government wouldn’t even be able to charge VAT on private schools with charitable status (that is most of them). That is how controversial this is.

There are plenty of rich parents who send their children to state school - why should they not have to pay extra to fund state schools? Private school parents are the ones already relieving the state of the burden of having to fund the education of our children.

Labour are just going to make the rich leave the country (an entirely viable option for me by the way) or stop working so hard - because honestly what is the point?

So leave the country, get demoted or reduce your hours. I'm sure you will argue that no one else can do your job and pay taxes but you would say that.

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:01

@Mirabai I don’t understand your point. The vast majority of dc who attend a London grammar have some form of tutoring or often attend a prep. Grammar dc tend to come from a fairly narrow demographic, are you disagreeing with that? And as I said some of the best state options are faith so tutoring won’t make up for lack of church attendance.

Mirabai · 07/06/2024 10:02

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 09:54

VAT will not affect the very wealthy at all, it will impact less well off families making sacrifices to prioritise education - immigrants working 3 jobs etc. All it really does is entrench privilege.

So the inequality wasn’t an issue until they can no longer afford it?

What is unequal about immigrants working 3 jobs to send their kids to private school? They’re working hard to equalise their own disadvantage. It’s an option is open to anyone who wants to do it.

There will always be fee-paying schools. The more they charge the more elitist they will become.

Droolylabradors · 07/06/2024 10:03

MumChp · 07/06/2024 04:35

Private school pupils can start tomorrow in state school. Lots of places around. I suppose these children and parents are used to better conditions at school than most common British children have.
These spoilt children won't be happy in a state school and only very few families will go this I am pretty sure.

Do you think that private schools are palatial? I spent 6yrs in a state school and now work in one top tier school and DC are in another 2nd tier school and I can tell you that the walls are not lined with silk nor are they carpeted or without draughts in the winter in either school.

The difference is that at private school the children don't tear down the art work off the walls, presentation cases on the walls don't have to be locked shut, the children don't block the toilets for fun, or talk back to teachers. Because if they did these things, they are asked to leave and their parents have to go through the hassle of finding another school.

It isn't about whether the parents would dislike sending their children to a state school building, it's that they don't want their lessons disrupted by pupils who can't behave and are not disciplined when they misbehave, that they don't want them to have to be restricted in their use of the toilets. They also don't want them to be subject to MAT/academy style rules and discipline which is used simply to control the misbehaving cohort of pupils.

I sent my DC private so they wouldn't have to deal with what I had in the 90s, kids blowing up condoms and using them as water bombs, spitting tissue onto the ceiling, constant rudeness to teachers.

NetMum2 · 07/06/2024 10:04

Icepop79 · 07/06/2024 05:04

“Spoilt”?
We pulled my daughter out of her state secondary school after 2 years of being hit, spat at, pulled off her bike, having glue poured down the back of her uniform, bottles and pens thrown at her. And that’s not including the daily verbal abuse, the getting shoved out of the lunch queue, having her path blocked in corridors.

So yes, I suppose you’re right - she’s certainly less used to the conditions of her local state school now.

This is exactly why we pulled our child out of his state school. Bullying is everywhere but he is now thriving in a much smaller class size where positive friendships are encouraged and poor behaviour isn’t tolerated. We don’t have a big house or big holidays or a fancy car. Many other parents at his school don’t either.

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:04

Labour are just going to make the rich leave the country (an entirely viable option for me by the way) or stop working so hard - because honestly what is the point?

So you would say you are rich?

As I said upthread I don’t know why you do a job you hate, that must be soul destroying.

The idea that the “rich” will all leave is nonsense.

Beveren · 07/06/2024 10:05

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 09:47

@Mirabai London has a huge issue with falling rolls & the best states are generally already oversubscribed.

In leafy Richmond, usually at or top of the tables in terms of state school attainment, a lot of the primary schools expanded a few years ago due to expansion of the local population, and a number of new academies were established. Now a lot of those extra classrooms in the primary schools are empty and the secondary schools are beginning to feel the effects.

There is also a hefty proportion of children from the area in private schools. If the projected 6-7% of those pupils come back looking for places it's pretty clear that there will be no problem whatsoever accommodating them in perfectly good schools.

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:05

What is unequal about immigrants working 3 jobs to send their kids to private school? They’re working hard to equalise their own disadvantage. It’s an option is open to anyone who wants to do it.

Maybe they need a 4th job so they can afford VAT?

MyNameIsFine · 07/06/2024 10:06

DanielGault · 07/06/2024 10:00

Well that's your choice, and sorry for all the awful stuff that happened to you, but until people en masse demand better, nothing will change. Home schooling won't change it, private schooling won't change it either. People really have to protest if the state schools are that bad. It has to be reflected in votes come election time, and raised with anyone who knocks on the door. I can't see how private schools are the answer tbh. It's a bit like saying 'well, at least I got in the lifeboat ' and ignoring everyone else on the Titanic.

So you think all the people in the life boats should have just jumped into the sea with everyone else? Or could the company have done the sensible thing and provided the correct number of life boats in the first place?

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:06

@Beveren Richmond has some excellent state schools although house prices are potentially a little more prohibitive than VAT.

NImumconfused · 07/06/2024 10:07

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 09:46

@NImumconfused I would be in favour of dc with EHCPs having some sort of VAT exemption/discount.

That's a sensible idea, but not all of the kids with special needs will have one, largely because it takes so long. In our area, it takes a couple of years to get a diagnosis of eg autism, then another couple of years to fight your way through then system to get an ehcp. DD didn't get diagnosed until she was nearly 15, and in NI they only last until school leaving ages (unlike in England) so she'd never have got one in time.

The school my daughter is at had just announced a 17% rise in fees the day before the election was called. Add 20% VAT to that and quite a few parents won't be able to afford it. It's at the very cheap end of private schools to begin with, which makes it more accessible (although I acknowledge still only to the reasonably well off) but that does mean they don't have any spare cash to buffer the introduction of VAT.

I totally agree that state education needs more funding, I just wish I was confident that the money raised from VAT on private school fees will actually reach schools.

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 10:08

@wombat15 Eh? I’m not saying me leaving the country is going to break the country’s economy?

I’m saying that if you bring in unfair taxes, and tax people too much, they will (IN LARGE NUMBER) stop working so hard or go to live in another country where they can actually reap the rewards of their hard work.

And no that wouldn’t just create vacancies for everyone else - the reason people get paid a high salary is generally that only a small number of people are actually qualified and able to do that job. And anyone who is would likely be as pissed off as I am about the tax burden placed on us.

PrincessTeaSet · 07/06/2024 10:09

Ozanj · 07/06/2024 09:53

After a child tried to set my 8 year old DN’s hair on fire with a lighter the state school involved couldn’t suspend or even expel him or even contact the police. There was a legal challenge that forced their hand. All of the kids in his year were pulled out in protest but nothing changed. Look at what happened to Brienna Gehy — she was murdered by a child whose original school couldn’t expell her. Same thing when the 13 year old kids threw a piece of cheese at that boy who had a known allergy to it.

At DS’ private school an older boy tried to push a younger child and was suspended on the spot and the only reason why he wasn’t expelled was because the younger child’s parents stepped in.

State schools need to get better at getting police involved during criminal acts & also at permanently expelling evil kids. Until they do there is no way in hell I’ll send my kids. If I get to the stage I can’t afford private school I’ll homeschool and pay for enrichment activities.

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I agree they need to be much more decisive about bad behaviour. These kind of assaults would result in a criminal record if they took place on the street but in school there's no adequate response to keep the victim safe. Immediate expulsion for the first violent offence is the only suitable response really. Imagine how long you'd last in a job if you set a colleagues hair on fire.

A friend's son (15) was subjected to 3 separate assaults in class, the last of which left him needing stitches on his face. The perpetrator continued at the school while the victim had no choice but to either leave or continue to be attacked

Mirabai · 07/06/2024 10:09

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:05

What is unequal about immigrants working 3 jobs to send their kids to private school? They’re working hard to equalise their own disadvantage. It’s an option is open to anyone who wants to do it.

Maybe they need a 4th job so they can afford VAT?

Sure, let the immigrants eat cake eh?

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:11

I’m saying that if you bring in unfair taxes, and tax people too much, they will (IN LARGE NUMBER) stop working so hard or go to live in another country where they can actually reap the rewards of their hard work.

Tax is high now under the Tories but I don’t think loads of people have left?

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:11

@Mirabai You are the one saying the option to work 3 jobs to afford PE is open to all, why not 4 or 5 jobs?

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 10:13

@Pollipops1 Yes I would say I’m rich, compared to the general population. Does that mean I can easily afford an extra £18K a year? No. Am I earning a seven figure salary? No - I’m not even earning half that.

Not sure what your point is.

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:13

Or they could be like my parents who are immigrants and sent us to state schools. It still closed the disadvantage you talk about.

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 10:15

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:11

@Mirabai You are the one saying the option to work 3 jobs to afford PE is open to all, why not 4 or 5 jobs?

What???? I mean for heaven’s sake, you are just being facetious.

HelenaWaiting · 07/06/2024 10:16

Can we please have a moratorium on these threads. It feels like there have been about fifty of them.

Pollipops1 · 07/06/2024 10:17

@Elvisthedonkey It’s refreshing to hear a poster counter the “all PE families are scraping by” narrative.

PrincessTeaSet · 07/06/2024 10:17

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 10:08

@wombat15 Eh? I’m not saying me leaving the country is going to break the country’s economy?

I’m saying that if you bring in unfair taxes, and tax people too much, they will (IN LARGE NUMBER) stop working so hard or go to live in another country where they can actually reap the rewards of their hard work.

And no that wouldn’t just create vacancies for everyone else - the reason people get paid a high salary is generally that only a small number of people are actually qualified and able to do that job. And anyone who is would likely be as pissed off as I am about the tax burden placed on us.

People who are rich enough to go and live in a tax haven are not going to be massively affected by 20% Vat, especially when you consider the cost of living effect of the current government has already resulted in fee increases above this.

But if you want to leave that's up to you. People always act selfishly in the end. Rich people are not morally better than anyone else. We all depend on each other. Some of the least well paid people do the most vital and least appealing jobs. You should just be grateful you aren't cleaning toilets for minimum wage and stop being so superior.

wombat15 · 07/06/2024 10:18

Elvisthedonkey · 07/06/2024 10:08

@wombat15 Eh? I’m not saying me leaving the country is going to break the country’s economy?

I’m saying that if you bring in unfair taxes, and tax people too much, they will (IN LARGE NUMBER) stop working so hard or go to live in another country where they can actually reap the rewards of their hard work.

And no that wouldn’t just create vacancies for everyone else - the reason people get paid a high salary is generally that only a small number of people are actually qualified and able to do that job. And anyone who is would likely be as pissed off as I am about the tax burden placed on us.

Fortunately it is not an unfair tax then so no need for large numbers of people to stop working "so hard or go and live in another country". Many of those earning a high salary are not more qualified or harder working than those earning a slightly lower one.

charitynamechange · 07/06/2024 10:19

sashh · 07/06/2024 01:39

There really are not enough private pupils to push class sizes up to 40.

Before any school has to increase class sizes the empty places at undersubscribed schools will have to be filled.

So the rough school that is the bottom of your list will get the ex private kids first. If these kids have had a better education than their new peers then this is a good thing, it will improve the school's results and increase the diversity of the school.

I believe this is true. The comp my children attended was in an area of rural beauty but deprivation. The 'local' private is 17 miles away. Even assuming all those kids are forced to move they'll scatter throughout the county.
There's a lot of scaremongering going on!

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