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To still be really sad and angry about Brexit

285 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 03/06/2024 17:27

It really reduced the opportunities in my future and has achieved absolutely nothing of benefit for anyone else (besides disaster capitalists who made a mint off the financial manipulation effect). We haven't even avoided those stupid fecking tethers on the bottle lids!

When the extra immigration checks come in in October it's going to make every holiday a tiny bit upsetting.

And the new government won't even try to fix it.

Don't get me wrong I'm not one of those idealists singing ode to joy before breakfast but on a personal level it bloody sucks and seems likely it always will.

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Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 19:55

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:52

That’s wonderful but I think it’s safe to say languages are not taught well or extensively in a lot of state schools. I’m thinking about my own dc who got a 8 in German GCSE who couldn’t study it at A level because it had been cut due to budgeting issues. He won’t be the only person in this situation. That means straight away his chances of working in Germany could be curtailed from the get go. I think he plans to learn it in his own time at university so hopefully will make up that ground but how many others wouldn’t be able to do this?

It will have been cut because very few students choose it. A school can't run an A level with 4 students.
If more opted for it, the subject would run.
German is disappearing in our schools, unfortunately.

avocadotofu · 03/06/2024 19:55

I am still really upset about it too.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:55

And don’t get me started on disability rights across Europe. Try travelling in some countries with a disabled person. I promise you you’ll soon be wondering what the EU ever did for people with disabilities!

LoobyDoop2 · 03/06/2024 19:56

theleafandnotthetree · 03/06/2024 19:02

I'm Irish but flew via Standstead to Budapest recently. When we got there, a handful of us sailed through the EU passport side and the other passengers with British passports were hived off into another queue. I said to my colleague that if I were British and a remainer I would be so fucking angry every single time -like this - that I was reminded of what was lost and for absolutely nothing, not even ideology really. Which would at least be understandable.

Fortunately, it wasn’t for nothing. It was to ensure that the Conservative Party wasn’t destroyed from the inside by its lunatic right-wing fringe. If Cameron hadn’t called their bluff and called the referendum the years of internal struggle could have ended in total electoral annihilation for them. Whereas now….

Oh.

EasternStandard · 03/06/2024 19:56

I think things are quite volatile atm, in EU countries too

I understand people want to go back in but I’m not sure where it will all be in five years

Imo this GE was a good time to use the poll lead wrt this. In five years who knows.

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:57

I’m not sure where it will all be in five years

My very brexy DF has been saying that the EU is about to collapse.

Since 2003.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 03/06/2024 19:57

gemsgv · 03/06/2024 18:39

I'm still mad that my life was pretty much switched off for 2 years to pander to other people's fears

Oh come on. It was hell for a bit but saved lives. I lost my business and my kids took time to adjust back (all ND), DH was frontline NHS so saw lots of horror (had to tell small children they parents were dead in the next room three times and a lot more besides). But it's finished and we've got over it (apart from the shitty long COVID that means DH is working reduced hours, just glad he didn't die as 2 of his colleagues did).
Brexit is shit and seemingly forever. People dying in the channel, not enough carers or other essential workers. My kids can't move to their grandparents home land despite wanting to easily. My parents can't split their final years between their two countries as they had always planned.
I can't retire to Greece and have to be in shitty England, earning less money because it costs 15% more to import stuff and it's reduce trade.

Whenwillitgetwarm · 03/06/2024 19:57

Well Farage is back to try and win Clapton. This man has done unbelievable harm this country both socially and economically.

He previously said he didn’t want to stand because he wanted to support Trump in removing more of women’s rights. Maybe the Trump campaign told him his bootlicking services weren’t required.

Apparently he wants to make this the ‘immigration’ election after his precious Brexit vastly increased illegal immigration.

He loves immigration because it keeps the grift going.

Anyone who votes for him, knowing they’ll be more likely to catch him on tv than his local constituency is an idiot and deserves everything coming to them.

I will never forgive Farage for giving us Brexit and poisoning our country. He’s a traitor.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:58

Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 19:55

It will have been cut because very few students choose it. A school can't run an A level with 4 students.
If more opted for it, the subject would run.
German is disappearing in our schools, unfortunately.

Well yes, which begs the question how good is the teaching at GCSE level if no one wants to study it at A level? In actual fact though I know quite a few people who would have chosen it for A level at that particular college and even if the intake was low, in a perfect world it would still be available to those students. Such a shame.

EasternStandard · 03/06/2024 19:58

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:57

I’m not sure where it will all be in five years

My very brexy DF has been saying that the EU is about to collapse.

Since 2003.

My post didn’t mention collapse.

That’s your ‘Brexy DF’

Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 20:00

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:58

Well yes, which begs the question how good is the teaching at GCSE level if no one wants to study it at A level? In actual fact though I know quite a few people who would have chosen it for A level at that particular college and even if the intake was low, in a perfect world it would still be available to those students. Such a shame.

Well most German teachers I know are excellent.
Students don't opt for it because they perceive it to be a hard GCSE.
They feel Spanish is easier.
Not all the teachers' fault.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:01

I have only ever met great German teachers @Corinthiana The problem really is resources.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:02

I also don’t understand why devolved powers are generally considered by most people to be good, except when it comes to the EU.

fungipie · 03/06/2024 20:02

Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 19:55

It will have been cut because very few students choose it. A school can't run an A level with 4 students.
If more opted for it, the subject would run.
German is disappearing in our schools, unfortunately.

Lassi, good for him or her. And yes, he or she shoud continue to study it privately and go and spend time in Germany. There is a huge need in business, engineering, sciences, international law and accounting, banking, IT and so many other careers, for good linguists. And the fewer there are, the most 'niche' they become, the more valuable, and good make all the difference in landing a great job and great opportunities abroad. Not as a linguist per se, but as any of the above + 1 or 2 FL. BRAVO.

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 20:03

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:52

Prices have rocketed everywhere.

I was talking about quality, and choice. Notice that you skirted around that one, unsurprisingly.

Well the same obviously

Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 20:04

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:02

I also don’t understand why devolved powers are generally considered by most people to be good, except when it comes to the EU.

That's what I don't understand.
If you're against a supra national organisation, fine, but it does seem counter intuitive to want to be in the EU if you want your own sovereignty.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:05

Thanks @fungipie They are quite ambitious and would love to work internationally. They know that in order to do that further study is needed. It was just such a shame about the A level but it was more evidence if needed of the inequality we have in the UK. They will be ok (they have me!) but others are not so lucky.

workingtowards · 03/06/2024 20:07

Sad and sickened. What a mess. What egotism to have taken so much from our children and country in the name of ‘patriotism’. So misguided.

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 20:07

EasternStandard · 03/06/2024 19:58

My post didn’t mention collapse.

That’s your ‘Brexy DF’

Your post says

I understand people want to go back in but I’m not sure where it will all be in five years

That implies that you believe the EU might not be doing so well, or perhaps failing.

But my point still stands, and your post kind of backs it up.

fungipie · 03/06/2024 20:07

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:05

Thanks @fungipie They are quite ambitious and would love to work internationally. They know that in order to do that further study is needed. It was just such a shame about the A level but it was more evidence if needed of the inequality we have in the UK. They will be ok (they have me!) but others are not so lucky.

My grandson's private school has very small classes, less than 5, for French, Spanish and German.

Rainydayinlondon · 03/06/2024 20:07

RosesAndHellebores · 03/06/2024 19:50

This thread is quite extraordinary.
For those arguing that the majority vote didn't result in Brexit, blame those who pissed their democratic right to vote up the wall. It wouldn't be very democratic to force people to vote.

In relation to immigration, the UK desperately need skilled workers. Many European skilled workers are still here and the bar to get a skilled worker visa is much lower than it was pre Brexit. The local market test has been abolished.

If economic migrants want to come, that's fine with me providing they don't get housed, provided with a free NHS to which they haven't contributed, or any form of benefits. That is what many want and other European nations won't give it to them.

European economies are as fragile and broken as the UK at present and there are far more extreme influences prevailing presently across Europe than here.

We have a home in France, we won't be subjecting ourselves to French tax - it is far worse than here.

In 10 years time the landscape of Europe will very different than today and I am not persuades the EU will exist in its current form, if at all. If that is so then the UK has a head start.

Both Covid and the war against Ukraine have had a greater impact on our economy than Brwxir. It's coming out now that the scientists being listened to were actually pretty hard left. Was it chance or machiavellian?

My father, maternal grandfather and maternal great, great grandparents came to the UK as refugees. They got not one penny from the State.

My father was a German Jew. His family did not survive. Germany was very very hostile from the mid to late 1920s against Jewish people, and any one else who didn't fit the Ayrian mould, including those who were gay and disabled and who did. Whilst I don't support Farage, the comparator above is as sickening as it is beyond contempt.

The world is on a precipice at present, we need strong, stable and experienced government although I rather hope the Conservatives will be decimated. Only that will force them to sort themselves out and get a unified party together. And we will need it because Labour will disintegrate within two years when they win.

My father’s family also suffered horrifically under the Nazis, but some posters still think there is a correlation between hitler and Farage!

EasternStandard · 03/06/2024 20:08

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 20:07

Your post says

I understand people want to go back in but I’m not sure where it will all be in five years

That implies that you believe the EU might not be doing so well, or perhaps failing.

But my point still stands, and your post kind of backs it up.

No that’s your incorrect assumption

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:08

after reading Small Is Beautiful by EF Schumacher I think my view on the EU changed a little @Corinthiana

Haggardandhungry · 03/06/2024 20:09

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:33

do you really want to live in an echo chamber @Haggardandhungry Like I said I voted remain but if you think everything that is wrong in the UK is down to Brexit that’s a huge oversimplification. It’s like the daft people who complain about Spain having better tomatoes (well yes, their climate is more suitable) and the sad faces at empty supermarket shelves (maybe the lorry broke down or the driver was ill?)
I can’t stand Farage and hate how this issue has divided the UK. Just look at the poster who thinks it’s ok to mock Sunderland.

@Lassi I have never said everything wrong in the UK is down to Brexit, how bizarre you should think that. I rail against this awful government every single day. My work brings me into contact with some of the most vulnerable people in society, whose lives have become immeasurably worse due to austerity policies. Brexit is one of many things I feel sad and cross about. I campaign, I protest, I write to my MP far more than he'd like, I sign petitions. And yes, sometimes it does me good to go onto anonymous forums and say, to like minded people, yep, still furious about Brexit. Being joined on those forums by other people (not you, I realise) who don't seem to have even basic knowledge about Brexit, telling me I should get over it.....well, it seems a bit unnecessary.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 20:11

@Haggardandhungry i have never said you should get over it. Nor would I!