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To have just had enough of the way that husband reacts to my input in conversations?

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pebblesssss · 30/05/2024 11:11

I am raging typing this, I've just had enough. I think it's years of being completely fucking fuming building up. Whenever we're having a conversation about ANYTHING my comments are always dismissed. Like whatever the topic is. An example- we were trying to figure out something on DC's Nintendo last week, I said press that button (he wouldn't let me touch it obvs- fucking control freak), just met with a no, it's not going to be that is it, honestly I'll sort it just leave me to sort it. Like mate you didn't have a fucking clue either. Told him to piss off and walked off. He later said sorry but I'm being too sensitive as it was just a game. But it's not just a fucking game it's EVERYTHING I BLOODY SAY.

By the way, the button I told him to press was infact correct.

Onto more serious things. We were discussing the sale of our car. I said he needed to remind the potential buyer that the car is still in use so mileage will increase by the time it's sold next month. He looks like a dynamite ready to go off whenever I'm talking. He just said ok ok ok yeah I got it ok, ALL the way through me talking. It's fucking infuriating. Cuts me off every time.

We were speaking about the tragic events in Palestine which I'm quite passionate about. Told my opinion was wrong, that I didn't really know what I was talking about BUT it's ok to have a view BUT then just reminded me it's the wrong view. I just walked upstairs and went to bed.

He asked me why can't we speak about anything without it ending in an argument. Because mate, you WONT LET ME FUCKING SPEAK. if I want to say something important I have to think of how I'm going to quickly phrase it and spit it out in 5 seconds flat or he interrupts me and gives his view instead.

I can't stand it anymore I feel like I'm going to explode. I'm also pregnant with our 3rd child and I don't know how much more I can take. There's no respect for me I'm sick of it.

AIBU to feel this way? Am I being over sensitive?

OP posts:
Bestyearever2024 · 02/06/2024 08:37

Maybe fieldsofbutterflies is DH? 😬🤪

pebblesssss · 02/06/2024 09:14

@Bestyearever2024 I'm starting to think the same thing 🤣 if it all goes tits up I'll pass her details to him, sounds like they'd get on 🥲😂

Joke before anyone flames me!

OP posts:
Bestyearever2024 · 02/06/2024 09:17

pebblesssss · 02/06/2024 09:14

@Bestyearever2024 I'm starting to think the same thing 🤣 if it all goes tits up I'll pass her details to him, sounds like they'd get on 🥲😂

Joke before anyone flames me!

🤣🤣

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