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Londoners have absolutely decimated my city

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CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 12:41

NC as really outing.
I'm a musician and over the years I have seen what was a steady stream of londoners turn into a flood this year.
I'm so gutted. I know everybody has the right to live here but it has pushed so many of my friends out, artists and other musicians. It pisses me off that the whole reason these londoners moved here, they are also destroying.
I'm lucky as my landlord is really decent and hasn't put my rent up in years, so I can afford to stay here. But now I'm considering just leaving because of the vibe factor. It makes me really sad. I still gig a few times a week but the crowd is different. I miss my community, but now everybody is scattered as everyone who was pushed out has gone to different places.
I'm considering just jumping ship and moving on myself but I don't know where to go.
Today some more londoners moved into the street...The whole street is full of scaffolding as they seem to really love doing home improvements 😅
I know I sound really bitter. I guess I am. I don't know whether to stay or go, and of I go, where to?

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londonmummy1966 · 18/05/2024 13:32

DramaLlamaBangBang · 18/05/2024 13:23

Surely Brighton is called ' London by the sea' for a readon. Londoners have been moving there for decades! Blame the fast train into London Bridge! I live in a city where there is also an influx of Londoners ( including me!) and it has pushed house prices up, because Londoners sell their 2 bedroom flats and then everything here seems like a bargain do they pay over the odd. I think we did the same.

I think that the DFL influx to Brighton pre-dates the railway. Brighton Pavilion must stand as the ultimate DFL building project in the town. Basically its all been downhill since 1783 due to those pesky Londoners..................................

EnglishBluebell · 18/05/2024 13:32

Onemoreterm · 18/05/2024 12:49

Deal in Kent. They even use the term DFL ‘Down From London’. A friend brought a lovely cottage there that she Airbnb’s half the year in order to pay the mortgage. She has spent a lot of money doing it up.

She loves her cottage but realises that together with all the other DFLs she is making it unaffordable for locals.

She bought a lovely cottage. You can bring a cottage anywhere. They're not portable

CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 13:33

IItisymoi · 18/05/2024 13:31

I live in 'English valley' in a part of Northern france. Actually it seems almost all the other english have either moved out (or died) so now tyhere is only myself and then my neighbours who run Chambre d'hote and integrated fully here years ago. I joined the local village committee just to kick start my French and have been accepted because I put effort in to do things for others. Returning to the UK is not an option for me now but I wouldn't want to return now anyway as I have made my life in Europe

Are you suggesting I move to France to escape the SE England housing crisis? I guess drastic times call for drastic measures🤣

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GettingStuffed · 18/05/2024 13:35

We have similar in North Somerset, Bristol has become too expensive to live in so people are moving south, doesn't seem to be such a problem in South Gloucestershire though.

Testina · 18/05/2024 13:36

There are also quite a few who moved further along the coast, like Hastings or Worthing. These places definitely don't match up, but I'm tempted to do that as am quite energised by the idea of trying to grow a new community, just trying to assess whether those places can be livened up though

Don’t be such a dick 🤣
This is surely a joke thread, that you want to complain about the change created by new residents, but your plan is to go and “liven up” (change someone else’s “vibe”) and “grow” 🤮 a new community to obliterate an existing one.

Plus, Brighton has been full of Londoners for years.

BigBarm · 18/05/2024 13:36

CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 13:27

Creatives or part of the creative vampire industries?

Not really sure what you mean? But my friends there include 2 musicians, 3 designers/artists, a photographer, a writer and a dancer. Creative enough for you?

HandsDown84 · 18/05/2024 13:37

Hedgeoffressian · 18/05/2024 13:32

I live in a town where the same has happened. I have to admit, all the ones I’ve met have been absolutely lovely but the town is gradually being gentrified.

In just a couple of years the supermarket car parks are full of expensive Range Rovers, you can see the mums walking to school wearing expensive clothes and dog in tow. House prices have shot through the roof. Now you are looking at £345k for a 2 bedroom flat. My house has almost doubled in price since we moved in 8 years ago.

No one can get a nursery place now unless they book one when they start trying to get pregnant. Houses are being built all over the surrounding countryside to try and keep up with the demand.

There’s a trendy market once a month which is popular with the new arrivals, selling artisan goods such as blocks of cheese for £10 or trendy vegan food. I wouldn’t mind but my children haven got a hope in hell of being able to afford to buy a home of their own unless something drastic happens 😢

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Is it Frome? I ask because I was just about to post about it! Somerset is awful for this. Bruton, the same. I live about 10 miles from Frome.

In my head though Brighton is basically London by the Sea as someone said, so I can't get that excited about people moving within an hour train ride.

FutureBillionaire · 18/05/2024 13:37

Well they can only be moving in because “locals” are moving out. Otherwise there would be no properties for them to buy or rent. Maybe your “locals” are moving to London? Why is it OK for them to move around but not people from London?

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 18/05/2024 13:38

Some people work hard nearly all their lives so that they can eventually live by the coast.
Some people are lucky enough to be born and bred in a lovely seaside town.
You can't really have the easy - go with flow -life and expect the same level of income as someone grinding away for years unless you inherited money.
Would you want to live in a town where the houses are done up nice, after the scaffolding is removed? Or where there are lots of run down areas and unemployment?

Startingagainandagain · 18/05/2024 13:38

''@CrushedOrange

The Londoners are all about consuming rather than producing.

They want to live somewhere where they can consume art and music on tap, but they don't want to make any of it themselves. They just want to buy it.

They don't contribute to anything except pushing prices up. Oh and I guess the pavements have fewer weeds.''

Again, that's nonsense.

Many artists, myself included, have moved out of London because of the lack of affordable studio spaces and extortionate housing costs.

You only have to look at Margate: a lot of artists have moved there for a more affordable lifestyle and are contributing to its cooler reputation of the past few years. New galleries and community projects have popped up because of it and many incomers are fully involved in the local creative community.

Same thing in Folkestone, Hastings, Ramsgate and Deal.

As people have commented already Brighton became cool because the gay community and other creatives/outsiders moved there and made it something interesting and vibrant, rather than another sleepy seaside town.

Thepeopleversuswork · 18/05/2024 13:39

@Testina

This is surely a joke thread, that you want to complain about the change created by new residents, but your plan is to go and “liven up” (change someone else’s “vibe”) and “grow” 🤮 a new community to obliterate an existing one.

This. The lack of self awareness of @CrushedOrange is breathtaking.

So you think it’s OK for you to colonise other sleepy towns with your “vibe” but not for Londoners to do the same in Brighton?

Can you seriously not understand what a hypocrite you sound?

Whothefuckdoesthat · 18/05/2024 13:40

newrubylane · 18/05/2024 13:16

Young people move to London because that's where the jobs are.

Yes, I know. And people move to Brighton because it’s where the sea is. People move about. It’s what they do.

She’s hardly in a position to be complaining about incoming Londoners (although I strongly suspect that these are people who have just lived in London, not Londoners. Not the same thing at all) when she’s considering moving a few miles down the road so they can experience her ‘vibe’.

sanityisamyth · 18/05/2024 13:41

Onemoreterm · 18/05/2024 12:49

Deal in Kent. They even use the term DFL ‘Down From London’. A friend brought a lovely cottage there that she Airbnb’s half the year in order to pay the mortgage. She has spent a lot of money doing it up.

She loves her cottage but realises that together with all the other DFLs she is making it unaffordable for locals.

Brought? Where from? That's quite extreme!

Bunnycat101 · 18/05/2024 13:42

There’s a good chance that a lot of the Londoners you mentioned used to live in the area or have family there. London life feels quite transient for many. I suspect lots of people live there for between 5-10 years post graduation and then move out when they have their own families.

BaconCozzers · 18/05/2024 13:42

"What's in Hertfordshire? 😂"... More Londoners op! Many commuting in to London having been displaced from living there due to housing costs or outsiders moving and changing the "vibe".
It works quite well. We live in a similar place outside of London and commute in when necessary, we're considering a second home somewhere nice in the next few years for someone to froth about, although I promise not to go in and complain about all sorts of shit as per a pps town 😆

EmpressOfTheThread · 18/05/2024 13:43

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What?! You don't want them coming to your backward town and improving the vibe? 😉

Greengablesfables · 18/05/2024 13:44

londonmummy1966 · 18/05/2024 13:32

I think that the DFL influx to Brighton pre-dates the railway. Brighton Pavilion must stand as the ultimate DFL building project in the town. Basically its all been downhill since 1783 due to those pesky Londoners..................................

😂😂

CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 13:45

Well listen, I have lost interest in this thread now so will leave it here, but thanks for your ideas. And thanks to all the outraged DFLs who chipped in to give their perspective. Enjoy your weekend all! Go easy on the home improvements ;)

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Whenwillitgetwarm · 18/05/2024 13:45

IFollowRivers · 18/05/2024 13:26

Actual born and bred Londoners are pretty rare in London. I know as I'm one and it's a red letter day when I meet someone like me. Also we generally don't want to leave our home city but, like you, are increasingly being priced out of the places we grew up in.

Waves at fellow born and bred Londoner! I get a little rush of excitement when someone tells me they were born in London, as it feels pretty rare.

OP I can guarantee you most of the people who’ve moved to Brighton probably lived in London for a significant chunk of their lives but moved there from elsewhere, and that’s fine, people can move where they like.

Also doesn’t it demonstrate how welcoming Londoner’s are to new people? After about 5 minutes every newcomer is brought into the London family and treated as a Londoner. This is why when they move elsewhere after a few years, people from other areas just assume they’ve always lived in London. There’s none of this not being accepted until you’re 3 generations deep stuff.

Why don’t you move to London OP? You might like its vibe. Although given the city is pretty much a collection of about 50 villages with their own vibes, I’m sure you’ll find something for yourself somewhere here.

Greengablesfables · 18/05/2024 13:47

Such a fickle vibe!!!

LMMuffet · 18/05/2024 13:47

CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 13:14

No it's not the same at all.

The Londoners are all about consuming rather than producing.

They want to live somewhere where they can consume art and music on tap, but they don't want to make any of it themselves. They just want to buy it.

They don't contribute to anything except pushing prices up. Oh and I guess the pavements have fewer weeds.

This is a bit of an odd point. If someone makes their living as a musician/artist, surely they need people who will pay to consume it? I understand that it helps creativity to be around other creatives, but it’d be impossible to make a living if no one came to see you play/bought your art.

Thepeopleversuswork · 18/05/2024 13:47

CrushedOrange · 18/05/2024 13:45

Well listen, I have lost interest in this thread now so will leave it here, but thanks for your ideas. And thanks to all the outraged DFLs who chipped in to give their perspective. Enjoy your weekend all! Go easy on the home improvements ;)

Sorry yes absolutely we’ll stick to our bourgeois pursuits while you higher minded creative types go off and bring your vibe to the next bunch of lumpen proletariat.

EmpressOfTheThread · 18/05/2024 13:48

Thepeopleversuswork · 18/05/2024 13:47

Sorry yes absolutely we’ll stick to our bourgeois pursuits while you higher minded creative types go off and bring your vibe to the next bunch of lumpen proletariat.

😂

LordSnot · 18/05/2024 13:49

Literally nobody is moving to Brighton to listen to your and your mates' music.

EmpressOfTheThread · 18/05/2024 13:49

How entertaining! I'm not sure about the OP mentioning Sheffield and Birmingham....was it because there's a music scene in those cities, or does she intend to introduce one to the appreciative indigenous folks?