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To request my complimentary stay after all these years

424 replies

ElsieandMavis · 17/05/2024 18:57

I had a really disappointing stay at a hotel about 10 years ago. When I complained to the manager, she was really apologetic and offered me a complimentary 3 night stay as a gesture of goodwill and to give them the opportunity to show me the usual quality of their product.

For various reasons, I never went back to her to arrange the complimentary stay.

AIBU to contact her now after 10 years to redeem my freebie? If so, how should I word the email request? I’ve checked that the same manager is still in charge at the hotel.

OP posts:
AppleKatie · 19/05/2024 10:31

Nothing ventured nothing gained…

Zonder · 19/05/2024 10:34

When is she back?

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 10:37

Zonder · 19/05/2024 10:34

When is she back?

OOO doesn’t say.

OP posts:
Zonder · 19/05/2024 11:06

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 10:37

OOO doesn’t say.

She might have left! I'd forward it to the manager or someone.

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 11:15

Zonder · 19/05/2024 11:06

She might have left! I'd forward it to the manager or someone.

Says she is on A/L. I think I’m better dealing with her because she was so conscientious and professional in dealing with my original complaint.

OP posts:
Icehockeyflowers · 19/05/2024 11:24

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 11:15

Says she is on A/L. I think I’m better dealing with her because she was so conscientious and professional in dealing with my original complaint.

I thought you were kidding. Did you really send it?

Whatever about sending it from hundreds of miles away while sitting at your computer, think how you will feel when you are walking into the hotel and looking at people face to face?

ilovesushi · 19/05/2024 11:26

I have everything crossed that you will get your stay. Let us know if it comes through.

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 11:30

Icehockeyflowers · 19/05/2024 11:24

I thought you were kidding. Did you really send it?

Whatever about sending it from hundreds of miles away while sitting at your computer, think how you will feel when you are walking into the hotel and looking at people face to face?

I did send it.
7% of MN can’t be wrong. 😊

OP posts:
SabreIsMyFave · 19/05/2024 11:59

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 11:30

I did send it.
7% of MN can’t be wrong. 😊

No WAY! 😆 OMG you didn't?! 😂 OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shock😂

Lamelie · 19/05/2024 12:51

Good for you.
Nothing ventured nothing gained. I suspect they’ll offer you a half price stay or midweek and I hope you have a great time.

PoochiesPinkEars · 19/05/2024 13:51
Cary Elwes Laughing GIF

🤣🤣🤣

TorturedPoetsDepartmentAnthology · 19/05/2024 13:52

I’m glad you sent it. You’ve been hilarious and humorous on this thread. You totally deserve the stay @ElsieandMavis 🙂

RuinedBack · 19/05/2024 14:43

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 11:30

I did send it.
7% of MN can’t be wrong. 😊

I think you are an absolute fucking legend 😂

Hakunatomato · 19/05/2024 16:55

I’m embarrassed for you. Company policy offering comps will prob have changed. What an awful position to put the person in.

NeverEnoughPants · 19/05/2024 17:01

Hakunatomato · 19/05/2024 16:55

I’m embarrassed for you. Company policy offering comps will prob have changed. What an awful position to put the person in.

Don't be so dramatic!! The person will either say yes or no. They aren't going to be all angst ridden over it

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 17:04

Hakunatomato · 19/05/2024 16:55

I’m embarrassed for you. Company policy offering comps will prob have changed. What an awful position to put the person in.

Luckily I have no shame.

OP posts:
PossumintheHouse · 19/05/2024 17:09

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 17:04

Luckily I have no shame.

When is she back from annual leave? Surely there's a date on the automated email?

drusth · 19/05/2024 17:12

Hakunatomato · 19/05/2024 16:55

I’m embarrassed for you. Company policy offering comps will prob have changed. What an awful position to put the person in.

I advise you to never work in the hotel industry if you think this is an awful position.

drusth · 19/05/2024 17:13

ElsieandMavis · 19/05/2024 17:04

Luckily I have no shame.

It’s not shame, it’s having a little nous, which so many women seem to lack these days, and they then get angry at other women who do have it.

OutlawZeroHours · 19/05/2024 17:21

I recently found a stash of old vouchers: £60 of Sainsbury vouchers, £9 of Argos, and £45 of Oddbins. All obsolete, because they were too old. Rang the companies (except Oddbins as they went bankrupt obvs) and was told (politely, but basically) no chance love, you can't get any money or new vouchers just suck it up

socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/05/2024 17:26

OutlawZeroHours · 19/05/2024 17:21

I recently found a stash of old vouchers: £60 of Sainsbury vouchers, £9 of Argos, and £45 of Oddbins. All obsolete, because they were too old. Rang the companies (except Oddbins as they went bankrupt obvs) and was told (politely, but basically) no chance love, you can't get any money or new vouchers just suck it up

Happened to me with M&S. But do note the electronic vouchers have shorter expiry dates than before, and a lot more companies have introduced expiry dates.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 19/05/2024 17:43

They abolished expiry dates on vouchers in Ireland a couple of years ago. It's brilliant. I have a restaurant voucher that I got last year and had forgotten about. I've now booked a table.

Mind you, I may get less food for the voucher than I would have last year due to inflation but there won't be much of a difference.

palepinkflowers · 19/05/2024 18:21

Well done for sending your email to the hotel! Why shouldn’t you? You have nothing to lose by asking and may gain a stay at a nice hotel. I certainly would have asked, too, in your position.

ilovesushi · 19/05/2024 19:58

Good for you! I hope you have the best time.

ChickyBricky · 19/05/2024 20:09

Please let us know their response, OP 😻

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