Who blows the Candles out in your House?

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Light hearted conversation between Me and DH.

I say, whoever goes to Bed last blows them out. (Him)

He says, whoever lit them blows them out before going to Bed. (Me)

Thoughts?

Last to bed. But both that and the lighting are usually me.

Whoever lit.

If you lit them because you like them and partner isn't fussed then you should blow them out when going to bed.
Whoever's last to bed should check candles/doors/lights and the usual before heading off to bed purely from a safety point of view.

Whoever lit them. You created the work, you complete the job.

or get lamps.

Well I was going to say whoever is the birthday person.....

Whoever's birthday it is.

We have electric lamps at my house. But if we didn't I would say whoever lit the candle should blow it out. Or whoever's birthday it is.

Whoever lit them

To say whoever let them should blow them out sounds crazy really. Does that mean the person who switched the TV on is the person who switches it off?

Fucking hell. Did other person agree to/enjoy the candles? If so, the last person to bed. I'd be crying about the ridiculousness of my situation, though.

Last one to bed. And we have a candle snuffer.

Last to bed males most sense.

Does he just leave them if you don’t put them out.

Whoever lit them.

Me and my DP have exactly the same conversation 😄
I just blow them on now to keep the peace

If you start a fire you’re responsible for it being done safely

I would not be able to go to sleep knowing I had lit candles and left them.

My best friends house burnt down due to candles being used irresponsibly. Fortunately everyone made it out alive.

Whoever lit them.

Happy birthday to you ,
Hapoy birthday to you …..

oh not those sort of candles !

The under butler, sometimes the footman.

Well we don’t have a rule about this 😂
Usually me as otherwise dh may not notice they’re lit at all and waste my lovely candles going up to bed and leaving them lit.

The help

Candles are fire hazards, whoever lit them takes responsibility for them.

I light them, I blow them out. DH wouldn't even notice them.

Ha Ha nice try , you can't pass on your work to your husband 😄

Use a snuffer. Blowing can sprinkle candle wax over surface which don’t enjoy it.