I've only read up to page 9 atm, but has anybody on here ever been on the receiving end of somebody like Martha/Fiona? I have. My exes mum.
She made dozens of fake Facebook accounts to message me abuse, posting pictures of my flat from the road side saying how she can't wait to get hold of me.
She used to follow me in her car and shout abuse out of the window. She posted letters to my neighbours telling them I was hacking their WiFi and all sorts of rubbish.
She managed to get hold of intimate pictures of me, from her son (?!) and made accounts in my name with those pictures on display, adding people from all over the town.
She contacted everybody she could find online who knew me in any capacity whatsoever and sent them messages telling them I'm a prostitute.
I went to the police and they did absolutely nothing and in hindsight I feel that was because she was a lot more credible on paper than I was.
I was 19, a care kid, no money, living in a shared house in a shit area. She was 50 and fancied herself as middle class, married with a detached house and a decent car in the drive. University educated. Money to waste on trumped up cease and desist letters she had a solicitor send to me after instructing them to write to me and demand I leave her alone (I never did a thing to her, it was purely retaliation for me reporting her to the police).
The things I reported her to the police for didn't tally up with the version of her that the police got, because surely somebody doing all of that to a teenage girl had to be seriously mentally ill right?
Except this woman wasn't seriously mentally ill, so the whole thing looked absolutely bonkers and as though I must be making it up.
She was just an incredibly nasty woman with too much time on her hands and that is what I'm seeing in that Fiona. They are cut from the same cloth. It actually triggered me a bit watching the PM interview because they are so alike.
It might seem incomprehensible to some people but perfectly sane people can and do behave like that. Some people are just bastards.
Personality disordered at best. The personality is the problem. Not vulnerable, weak or defenceless. Just nasty pieces of work.