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To have pointed out to super enthusiast vegan where pearls come from?

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listsandbudgets · 06/05/2024 20:58

I went out with some friends today and one of them bought a friend of hers we'd not met before. She would not let up with the vegan stuff - kept lecturing us about where our meat came from, how cows were tortured to make our cheese, how hens were mistreated to lay our eggs etc. etc. it was embarrassing - our poor friend who'd bought her along was obviously mortified. She said later that she knew they were vegan but had never heard them talking like that before.

Finally I'd had enough and asked her about her necklace saying it was beautiful and were the pearls real... she confirmed they were and I said "Oh that really surprises me that a vegan would wear something from a living creature round her neck"

Astonishingly she didn't know where pearls came from and believe me we took some pleasure telling her how oysters were cut open and the pearls were taken from their bodies....

We all ate our ice cream in peace Grin

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LaMarschallin · 07/05/2024 14:43

I've also got a pearl necklace and pearl studs which I sometimes wear - depends what look I'm channeling. I think they go in and out of fashion on a regular basis according to my reading. Mind you, the fashion writers often suggest "multiple ropes" of them, which I couldn't run to, sadly.
Anyway, I'm an omnivore and, besides, I'm sure the oysters producing my pearls had eipidurals.

I've got a relative who's a vegan and not at all lecture-y. However, they sometimes get lectured by other, stricter (presumably, in their own minds, better) vegans about the fact that they enslave animals ie keep pets.
Worse, they keep chickens and their DP (non-vegan) eats the eggs Shock

WearyAuldWumman · 07/05/2024 21:46

alloweraoway · 07/05/2024 07:39

I dont think many vegans would have any issue with sharks teeth - sharks drop them by the thousand

I live and learn!

WearyAuldWumman · 07/05/2024 21:49

BitOutOfPractice · 07/05/2024 08:06

Not here for the troll hunting or vegan bashing but just to say that I genuinely cannot remember the last time I saw someone wearing a pearl necklace (no tittering at the back!). Are they back in fashion? I lady wore one in the 80s á la Princess Di.

I wear one occasionally, but I'm not fashionable - in my 60s.

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