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To finally be looking forward to a GE?

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Cadela · 04/05/2024 21:32

The past election/PM changes have been horrendous. The visceral disappointment was awful each time.

I can’t wait to actually celebrate this year. I know, I know, Labour are going to set fire to the economy and tax everyone £3mil each and it’ll cost you 4 trillion a month to send you kid to private school, and all women will perish immediately because only Tories know what a woman is Hmm

But finally! It’s been a long fucking time coming.

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Sartre · 06/05/2024 07:27

The UK always does this. We leave the tories in power for so long they totally destroy the country, then we wake up finally and vote Labour in who help a little bit inevitably end up fucking up so back the tories come. Rinse and repeat.

Labour will have a lot of work on their hands to fix the mess the tories have left behind. Talking the full public sector from top to bottom. Education needs fixing from primary through to university. Let’s not get started on the NHS. I know what you mean though, finally feels like we have a shot at getting rid of the tories. First time in my adult life.

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:31

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:26

No some parents won’t be able to pay more and they’ll move to state. Why so keen to disrupt other dc’ schooling?

It won’t help you in any way beyond a brief satisfaction at other dc moving

And it puts extra strain on the state system, what’s so great about that?

The numbers will be tiny and “strain” minimal. Not keen to disrupt education. I’m simply of the opinion disruption is a parent's responsibility and private education is a massive luxury that comes with the understanding of affordability not always being guaranteed. Fees go up, people lose jobs. You plan accordingly.

The focus on this as opposed to anything else speaks volumes 🙄

Another76543 · 06/05/2024 07:33

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:03

Sorry as the parent of a child with an EHCP in the state system I don’t.

Define SEN. It’s a massive spectrum. Also what have parents with kids in private education ever done for the vast majority of SEN kids in the state system? Not heard any empathy what so ever. Just an I’m all right Jack attitude which is what all parents of privately educated kids feel.

The vast, vast majority of parents with SEN kids can’t afford private education, a few more who should have thought and planned ahead will now be joining those ranks. If moving schools(which many kids manage to do within the state system )is going to be so damaging they shouldn’t have gambled on always being able to afford the luxury of private education in the first place.

At this present time my sympathy is reserved for the many many people on PIP currently in desp distress and worry.

How is taxing private school fees and forcing more children into the already struggling state system going to help your child though? A child in the private system is saving the taxpayer thousands of pounds a year. The (optimistic) predicted tax receipt from the policy is around 1% of the state education budget. In reality, it’ll be far less. It’s going to make no difference to the state provision.

Why would anyone think it’s ok for any child to be disrupted and moved from somewhere where they are happy and thriving? We should be concentrating on improving the state provision so people don’t feel the need to use the private system.

The “well I can’t afford private school so you shouldn’t be able to either” attitude is unpleasant.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:34

Sartre · 06/05/2024 07:27

The UK always does this. We leave the tories in power for so long they totally destroy the country, then we wake up finally and vote Labour in who help a little bit inevitably end up fucking up so back the tories come. Rinse and repeat.

Labour will have a lot of work on their hands to fix the mess the tories have left behind. Talking the full public sector from top to bottom. Education needs fixing from primary through to university. Let’s not get started on the NHS. I know what you mean though, finally feels like we have a shot at getting rid of the tories. First time in my adult life.

Normally, Labour mess the economy up and the Conservatives have to sort everything out. And then leave a decent economy for when Labour get in, spend all the money and wreck it again. That's the ridiculous political system we have.

But at the moment I think we are stuffed as the Conservatives have also messed everything up. So Labour will need to turn everything around from a very economic low baseline. Which they haven't done before. And are unlikely to be able to do now.

SherbsL · 06/05/2024 07:36

ComeAlongPeggy · 06/05/2024 06:59

@SherbsL both my children have academic and music scholarships at independent schools. If I was a low earner, I’m confident they’d be offered some bursary support too. SEN does not mean low achieving. SEN covers a wide range of children and abilities.

I’m well aware of this, thank you - that’s not what I was suggesting and that’s not the point I’m trying to make at all. Of course private schools are selective based on ability!

JessS1990 · 06/05/2024 07:36

Thegoodbadandugly · 05/05/2024 22:04

I can't believe for the life of me that people are actually still voting Tory, are they absolutely crazy?

Just read through some of this and other similar threads and I think you will find the answer.

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:38

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:31

The numbers will be tiny and “strain” minimal. Not keen to disrupt education. I’m simply of the opinion disruption is a parent's responsibility and private education is a massive luxury that comes with the understanding of affordability not always being guaranteed. Fees go up, people lose jobs. You plan accordingly.

The focus on this as opposed to anything else speaks volumes 🙄

The pp dc being disrupted won’t be a benefit to you, your focus is there in that you feel good about it briefly.

It’s a poor policy but worse it will impact dc negatively

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:40

JessS1990 · 06/05/2024 07:36

Just read through some of this and other similar threads and I think you will find the answer.

I don't think people are actually still going to vote Conservative. I think you may have drawn the wrong conclusion there. But it doesn't mean that former Conservative voters will necessarily vote for Labour. I think there's a general plague on all your houses attitude.

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:41

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:34

Normally, Labour mess the economy up and the Conservatives have to sort everything out. And then leave a decent economy for when Labour get in, spend all the money and wreck it again. That's the ridiculous political system we have.

But at the moment I think we are stuffed as the Conservatives have also messed everything up. So Labour will need to turn everything around from a very economic low baseline. Which they haven't done before. And are unlikely to be able to do now.

Edited

Um they come to power after the Second World War and created the NHS.

I’d say that was a low baseline.

sunnydaysanddaydreams · 06/05/2024 07:41

@EasternStandard children will cope, same as the ones already in state education, unless you're presuming children in private education as a whole are inherently more fragile than the average child who does not have parents who could afford at any point to privately educate them.

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:42

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:38

The pp dc being disrupted won’t be a benefit to you, your focus is there in that you feel good about it briefly.

It’s a poor policy but worse it will impact dc negatively

No it’s a good and long overdue policy. There are however plenty of far more important areas to focus on.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:46

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:41

Um they come to power after the Second World War and created the NHS.

I’d say that was a low baseline.

Looking overall at the bigger picture over the last couple of generations, that's the general trend.
I did think of post WW2 actually before I wrote my original post as that Labour government is a fave of many Labour voters and I assumed someone would mention it but WW2 was quite some time ago and it's slightly more complicated than that eg it was a cross-party idea and in very unusual circumstances. Anyway probably not massively relevant to my original point due to it's historic nature and I suggest a bit of an outlier bucking the general trend.

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:47

Dri55le555 · 06/05/2024 07:42

No it’s a good and long overdue policy. There are however plenty of far more important areas to focus on.

It brings up some unpleasant side of ha at dc disruption

Not much more, actually less given pp paid but didn’t use state

There are better ways to look at education than go for base emotions

JessS1990 · 06/05/2024 07:48

Bululu · 05/05/2024 22:40

Once Labour is in it is going to be like Biden in the US a total shit show that most of us can see from now.

Edited

I'm sure if most people can see that, then they won't vote for it.
I guess that's what the polls are saying.

https://www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/prediction_main.html

General Election Prediction

https://www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/prediction_main.html

JessS1990 · 06/05/2024 07:52

BronteH · 05/05/2024 23:15

And I do apologise. They didn’t say ‘dwarf’! They said ‘pint-sized loser’. Much more grown up.

Ah, not a fan of Nadine Dorres, that makes two of us.

sunnydaysanddaydreams · 06/05/2024 07:52

@EasternStandard many children move around for their education, many in state schools have to, I understand you're trying to play the sympathy card for the poor, hard done by privately educated child who may have to eventually mix with their state counterparts but really it's a bit distasteful, lots of children go through a lot more and do absolutely fine.

Zonder · 06/05/2024 07:53

BronteH · 05/05/2024 23:34

I don’t know why Labour voters are so desperate to protect how depressingly shit Labour are. We know the tories are shit. Fine. Labour will win the election, almost certainly. I’m not sure why Labour supporters are so unable to constructively criticise their own party. It’s bizarre. It’d be called lack of self awareness in a person, but in the case of a political party I’m not sure. Group Think? Who knows.

The last labour government wasn't shit. Some of us have hope that the next labour government will do at least some good, and at least reverse some of the most cruel policies that have been brought in.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:53

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:47

It brings up some unpleasant side of ha at dc disruption

Not much more, actually less given pp paid but didn’t use state

There are better ways to look at education than go for base emotions

Oh totally. And completely pointless as the economy is stuffed anyway so it won't make any positive difference and will simply have a negative effect on some children. Its just a bit of tinkering to grab headlines and a bit of red meat to keep those Labour class warriors happy. All very negative and depressing and doesn't really inspire hope that a Labour government is going to actually do something constructive and stop the UK going down the plughole. And when it does it won't matter if you're in private or state education then or need SEN provision or anything as there will be no money for anything.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:54

Zonder · 06/05/2024 07:53

The last labour government wasn't shit. Some of us have hope that the next labour government will do at least some good, and at least reverse some of the most cruel policies that have been brought in.

Gordon Brown and the "there's no money left" note.

Which tbf because of the pandemic will be a note that Rishi will also have to leave. But at least he had the pandemic as an excuse and didn't sell all our gold reserves off for 3p. Gold being quite handy to have at the moment for a country....

JessS1990 · 06/05/2024 07:55

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 23:29

Sorry, what facts do you mean?

Look, I make up the facts round here please do not interrupt me while I do so.

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:56

sunnydaysanddaydreams · 06/05/2024 07:52

@EasternStandard many children move around for their education, many in state schools have to, I understand you're trying to play the sympathy card for the poor, hard done by privately educated child who may have to eventually mix with their state counterparts but really it's a bit distasteful, lots of children go through a lot more and do absolutely fine.

It the reality of the policy. I get your posts that you feel strongly about it being ok to disrupt dc, I just don’t share the satisfaction, the opposite in fact it’s depressing to see the reaction.

Plus my dc are in state, if parents wish to pay and not use their space that’s useful.

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 07:56

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 07:53

Oh totally. And completely pointless as the economy is stuffed anyway so it won't make any positive difference and will simply have a negative effect on some children. Its just a bit of tinkering to grab headlines and a bit of red meat to keep those Labour class warriors happy. All very negative and depressing and doesn't really inspire hope that a Labour government is going to actually do something constructive and stop the UK going down the plughole. And when it does it won't matter if you're in private or state education then or need SEN provision or anything as there will be no money for anything.

Yep this

sunnydaysanddaydreams · 06/05/2024 08:00

@EasternStandard using private education is inherently saying one child is worth more, entitled to more purely by accident of birth. It's no more than that.

People can dress up their concerns at this policy as though it's a kin to child abuse but in reality it just hurts them to lose that bit of privilege.

It's also really distasteful that in a country that has significant issues with child and adult social care which is actually creating a significant detriment to some of the most vulnerable, your making a comment about the potential impact on some of the otherwise most privileged children in county.

Alexandra2001 · 06/05/2024 08:01

Normally, Labour mess the economy up and the Conservatives have to sort everything out. And then leave a decent economy for when Labour get in, spend all the money and wreck it again. That's the ridiculous political system we have

Very poor thinking and not backed up by the facts, so in my life time: Tories screwed up the economy in the very early 70s, energy crisis and a 3 day week... Labour voted in.
1979 Labour wrecked the economy and the Tories in.

1997 Tories wrecked everything, Labour back in.

2010 - Global financial Crash (defo not Labours fault) coalition voted in.

2024 Tories have really wrecked everything....

So on balance, its the Cons that wreck the economy.

I don't know what happened in the 50s and 60s too long ago.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 06/05/2024 08:01

sunnydaysanddaydreams · 06/05/2024 07:52

@EasternStandard many children move around for their education, many in state schools have to, I understand you're trying to play the sympathy card for the poor, hard done by privately educated child who may have to eventually mix with their state counterparts but really it's a bit distasteful, lots of children go through a lot more and do absolutely fine.

Your argument would carry more weight if you were straightforward about it and not imply your class prejudice. It just makes you seem like you have an ulterior motive for your point that isn't related to the provision of eduction. Just a suggestion though.

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