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To finally be looking forward to a GE?

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Cadela · 04/05/2024 21:32

The past election/PM changes have been horrendous. The visceral disappointment was awful each time.

I can’t wait to actually celebrate this year. I know, I know, Labour are going to set fire to the economy and tax everyone £3mil each and it’ll cost you 4 trillion a month to send you kid to private school, and all women will perish immediately because only Tories know what a woman is Hmm

But finally! It’s been a long fucking time coming.

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IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:03

I asked that @JessS1990 No answer forthcoming.

DuncinToffee · 05/05/2024 11:05

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:01

The Conservatives nearly won

To finally be looking forward to a GE?
JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:07

We seem to be on day 2 of denial of the state the Tory party is in, how long will this stage of grief last?

scoobysnaxx · 05/05/2024 11:07

Usernamechange1234 · 05/05/2024 09:54

@ComeAlongPeggy ‘At the moment, SEN provision for my children in the state sector doesn’t work. I have tried and failed to make it work.’

You don’t see the irony here? The reason it doesn’t work for your children is the systematic defunding of the state system BY THE TORIES. This has put thousands and thousands of poorer and SEND children at supreme disadvantage. You’re arguing for more families to be put in a position, that you claim has led to you living meagrely to support your children’s private education.

I get that you’re being an advocate for YOUR children but it’s this general attitude of well I can afford it so to hell with everyone else that drives many people potty and has led to this government being able to get away with ruining the state education system for the children and parents who have NO CHOICE!

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Totally agree. Well I've got the golden ticket so screw everyone else who I sailed in the boat with. All the other SEN STATE MUMS continue struggling. I won't consider you in my vote. I just don't want to pay more money.

What a stinking attitude.

I just don't understand people who can forget their roots. Forget the shoes they once walked in. Forget their non privileged peers who were unable to escape..I just could never do this.

Even worse from an NHS dr. You have TWO HUGE REASONS not to vote Tory. What they have done to the NHS (your job and health care provider for you and your children) and what they have done to STATE SCHOOL and children l/families with additional needs. You have first hand experience of what the tories have done to these 2 huge issues and you are still choosing to vote for them? Because you don't want to pay anymore money?

Woefully selfish.

stripycats · 05/05/2024 11:08

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 05/05/2024 11:00

Had to. Corbyns membership was untenable and would lose Sir Keir votes. He is nothing if not practical on the self-preservation front. But he supported Jeremy as the next PM and .many people won't forget that. But not enough to lose Labour the next election.

Anyway, what I meant was, he believes the same as Corbyn does. He's just more presentable.

Edited

Right, so you agree he's not Corbyn's man then as obviously expelling him from the party would suggest otherwise.

What evidence is there in the way that the party has changed and the messages that are being given out that he believes the same as Corbyn? Why is the left of the party constantly carping about him and calling for his removal? Why has Owen Jones, for example, left the party? Why have pretty much all Corbyn's allies been removed from the shadow cabinet and, for example, Yvette Cooper brought back? Why is Rachel Reeves, put in her post by KS, constantly talking about fiscal responsibility?

He's made some odd decisions if he just believes everything Corbyn does.

Willyoujustbequiet · 05/05/2024 11:08

EasternStandard · 05/05/2024 11:00

It’s always distance here. For most people bar some supported exceptions

Grammar has selection but that will be hotly contested by families with extra funds

What criteria are you using where you are?

I'm the north east.

We have continuity of education here. So children who have begun their education in the triad, even if out of catchment, take priority over anyone moving into the area. Even if they live right next door to the school.

As soon as mine got their place at 4 I knew there would be no need to worry for the transfers.

The general consensus is its served the children well.

Motnight · 05/05/2024 11:13

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 05/05/2024 10:50

I think Labour landslide. Not because people want to vote for them. They just don't want to vote for the Conservatives.

The Conservative ls have been in power too long and have gone through Brexit and Covid. They have run out of ideas, are worn out, no optimisim or dynamism. The pendulum will swing the other way to the left as is natural in the general scheme of things. So we will have a Labour government. Nothing much will change. Unless as I suspect Kier (Corbyns man) is the real deal on the red front. Then we are in for a sh*show. But nothing much to do about it as we probably can't have another Conservative term of government.

I think that this is about right. I am a lifelong Labour voter and I am sure will continue to be so but I have real concerns about their policies. The only thing that I am hoping will happen that I think there is a real possibility of us that a Labour government will start to overturn the decades of NHS underfunding.

OhYoko · 05/05/2024 11:17

EverhopefulPB · 05/05/2024 09:22

@Pin0cchio

Unfortunately the problems with your schools run so much deeper than merely funding issues.

There are so many different aspects that need tackling and raising up.
I'd be very hopeful for instance if labour said it would tackle literacy issues and have several different types if reading schemes to assist with this.
Or throw support and money at the primary years, smaller classes and so on and more specialist secondly schools.
Unfortunately I have no faith in labour reforming school at all because they don't seem to care about what's there in the state system.
All we hear is this absolute obsession with private schools.
There are many different types of private schools.
Some like the big hitters, Eton, Harrow and Winchester really are beacons of privilege.
They will make your child well connected, give them a tremendous start in life and so on.

But the smaller private schools don't necessarily do that at all and many parents are at their wits end trying to help dc many with mild sen that cannot be looked after in our state system.
Many who don't need lots of money throwing at them just understanding and simple strategies.

Eg how much money would it take to get a secondary school teacher to simply let a child with adhd out of class when they present a card : given to them by a Senco?

The Senco gives it, it's all sanctioned and allowed but unfortunately the teacher in that particular class will not let it happen?

In the last mainstream I taught in there were circa ~60 lessons going on at any one time. So who is policing the potentially 60 ADHD kids leaving class at once, when there are barely enough teachers to cover the lessons going on? And if the answer is that there isn't anyone then it can't happen, lest those 60 kids cause chaos around the school/in the loos/in the corridors. So it would cost money because you need a couple of staff to be in charge of all of those kids who can't be in class.

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:17

BIossomtoes · 05/05/2024 10:43

I’d be astonished. Have you seen the electoral carnage in the last couple of days?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SePP_iofypE

Many are forecasting that the results show that Labour won’t get an overall majority. They are forecast to be a fair few seats short. The question is whether they’d go into coalition with the Lib Dems. This is the Sky News forecast.

Vote 2024: Sky News General Election projection

Professor Michael Thrasher, Sky News election analyst says 'it has been a dreadful set of results for the Conservatives' but points out that Labour has not m...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SePP_iofypE

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:22

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:01

That calculation was before the local elections this week. Many are now forecasting that Labour won’t get an overall majority.

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:26

I fear some don't understand the difference between projections based on the whole of Britain (i.e 100% turn out) voting in the pattern of the local elections and polls.

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:26

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:22

That calculation was before the local elections this week. Many are now forecasting that Labour won’t get an overall majority.

Oh, is there a new poll, please link. Thanks!

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:27

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:22

That calculation was before the local elections this week. Many are now forecasting that Labour won’t get an overall majority.

The local elections where Labour (and the Lib Dems and Greens) saw the biggest swings in seats where they were previously in 2nd place.

Even the home of the Army voted Labour.

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:29

Thanks, but that is a projection not a poll. Very different beasts. @JessS1990 posted the latest polls, but you suggested there was a more up to date one?

Goldenbear · 05/05/2024 11:29

BIWI · 05/05/2024 09:25

You see it's this:

I think the majority of independent school parents (or prospective parents who maybe are now reconsidering) will move into the catchment of the best state schools, do everything they can to get their children into the selective grammar schools and supplement their children’s education with a lot of extra tutoring.

... is actually at the nub of it, and is thinking that characterises the Tory voter. The inherent belief that state schools are poor, and only the grammar system (in lieu of paying for a private school) is good enough. Also behind why the Conservative government will not fund the state system properly.

So again, a choice for the (selective) few, rather than thinking about what every child might benefit from.

Be my guest, if you want to pay for your education, but recognise that it's privilege that you're paying for. And don't try and moan about not being wealthy if you are paying for it. (At least @ComeAlongPeggy has admitted that she is relatively wealthy).

Oh, and why do private schools patronise (in all senses of the word) other entities and (sometimes) other schools? Because they're not allowed to make a profit.

Absolutely this.

Where I live there is no Grammar system and it is a lottery system for school places, they even got rid of sibling preference last year. My DS is in a 6th form where there has been 160 Oxbridge place offers over the last three years. It is wealthy in parts but certainly not everywhere, the streets aren’t paved with Gold and besides your postcode has no bearing on your ability to get a school place. When I visit relatives in London the conversations are a real contrast, the exceptional state 6th forms are all highly selective, much nervousness about getting in to them. The non selective system or at secondary age and the comparatively modest GCSE grade requirements for the 6th form appears to me a much better system.

The underfunding is noticeable with my youngest but she is doing very well at school so we are lucky. There is a falling birth rate here that is below the national average and the infant schools that my two went to are now facing closure as there aren’t enough children to fill these spaces. Consequently, in a few years time secondary schools won’t be oversubscribed.

the80sweregreat · 05/05/2024 11:29

I don't think it'll be a labour landslide either , which is why the conservatives are holding out till the bitter end.
Maybe more votes going to the lib Dems or greens too.

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:30

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:27

The local elections where Labour (and the Lib Dems and Greens) saw the biggest swings in seats where they were previously in 2nd place.

Even the home of the Army voted Labour.

I’m not an electoral expert. I’m merely pointing out that some of those who are don’t necessarily think there’ll be a Labour majority.

stripycats · 05/05/2024 11:32

Yes, our media and the experts they choose to platform are doing a great job of making the focus of this weekend 'It's not that great for Labour,' rather than 'Tories relegated to THIRD place!' Funny that, I can't think why they're doing it.

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:33

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:29

Thanks, but that is a projection not a poll. Very different beasts. @JessS1990 posted the latest polls, but you suggested there was a more up to date one?

Edited

I think I have worked it out. Part of Rish!'s The PLAN is to introduce PR for the next GE.

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:34

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:30

I’m not an electoral expert. I’m merely pointing out that some of those who are don’t necessarily think there’ll be a Labour majority.

If you do not trust in opinion polls, another way of checking what the likely outcome is, is to look at the bookmakers odds.

https://www.oddschecker.com/politics/british-politics/next-uk-general-election/overall-majority

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:35

IClaudine · 05/05/2024 11:29

Thanks, but that is a projection not a poll. Very different beasts. @JessS1990 posted the latest polls, but you suggested there was a more up to date one?

Edited

I’m saying that some commentators are now saying, after the local elections, that Labour won’t necessarily get an overall majority. At the end of the day though, no one really knows. Local elections don’t necessarily translate into general election voting. There’s also variables such as weather/turnout etc which no one can really predict.

Lifesd · 05/05/2024 11:37

I’ve posted the polling/analysis I was referring to as have a several others!

My main point on this thread and why I voted YABU is because I personally see no cause for excitement. For those that bother to vote many are doing so for the least worse option which is a shitty situation to be in as a country. Starmers uncosted policies don’t fill me with any cause for optimism - the NHS will continue to be a shitshow and bankrupt councils won’t suddenly be awash with cash. There is no money to fund the radical change that is needed to put this country back on the right track.

JessS1990 · 05/05/2024 11:37

Another76543 · 05/05/2024 11:35

I’m saying that some commentators are now saying, after the local elections, that Labour won’t necessarily get an overall majority. At the end of the day though, no one really knows. Local elections don’t necessarily translate into general election voting. There’s also variables such as weather/turnout etc which no one can really predict.

For more than the past year, opinion polling and the swings in by-elections, together with local elections have all clearly shown that Labour will win a significant majority of the seats in a GE. Weather and other variables will not come into it, because it isn't that close.

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