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to ask your thoughts on this? Fatal shooting during burglary

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itsjustataste · 03/05/2024 23:34

Happened near me very recently and our community seems very torn with lots of people slinging insults at both sides. Lots of people shouting about playing stupid games, win stupid prizes etc... whilst others calling the shooter a murderer.

I find it very sad that someone so young has ultimately lost their life and has got mixed up in this sort of thing.

BUT that being said, I don't have any ill feeling toward the farmer either and cannot say that I wouldn't do the same if faced with 3 people breaking into my home, especially if I had my children in the house.

The other 2 suspects arrested for aggravated burglary meaning a weapon was involved and there had been a break in at the same home the night previously too.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

Marcus Smith

Whaley Bridge: Farmer held over burglary shooting death

The man is being detained on suspicion of murder following the shooting, the BBC understands.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

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NigelHarmansNewWife · 05/05/2024 07:23

@RLaurelG - it's been disclosed that the dead man was in the farmhouse kitchen. How do you suppose he got there if he and his mates never went inside and were running for their lives? Your posts read like gossip rather than anything based on fact.

Whatever any if us might think of the police, I think it unlikely officers would be so naive as to jeopardise the case by revealing the information you claim they've disclosed locally.

SnakesAndArrows · 05/05/2024 07:24

Itsrainingten · 05/05/2024 06:29

"AllyCart · Yesterday 19:48

berksandbeyond · Yesterday 19:45

Fuck around and find out 🤷🏼‍♀️
One less scumbag in the world
I hope the farmer gets off Scot-free
I agree.

If he ended up being charged and I was on the jury I'd find him not guilty."

And THIS is exactly why trial by jury is not a fair trial. You haven't even heard any fact of the case and you've decided to find him not guilty. Brilliant. What a ridiculous bloody world we live in

Yep. And somehow, posters on this thread will construe this as being “team burglar” because you haven’t pre-judged the situation without knowing all the facts.

Some others will answer this post saying that they don’t need to know any more - it’s obvious what’s happened.

There’s only one “team burglar” poster on this thread and she popped up late last night (and she’s either on a wind up or a relative of one of the burglars).

I very much hope this thread is not representative of the public at large, but somehow I doubt it.

BIossomtoes · 05/05/2024 07:27

ArchaeoSpy · 05/05/2024 00:08

it could be debated or a dissertation written that covered and explained that one of the main problem is with modern media etc and peoples own individual points there will never be or unlikely to be a truly unbiased jury, and given the state of society at the moment chances are the verdict would already be agreed upon even before the trial would have took place

So we should just abandon any attempt at justice and operate mob rule?

SnakesAndArrows · 05/05/2024 07:29

NigelHarmansNewWife · 05/05/2024 07:23

@RLaurelG - it's been disclosed that the dead man was in the farmhouse kitchen. How do you suppose he got there if he and his mates never went inside and were running for their lives? Your posts read like gossip rather than anything based on fact.

Whatever any if us might think of the police, I think it unlikely officers would be so naive as to jeopardise the case by revealing the information you claim they've disclosed locally.

In the kitchen? That is new information - the reports I’ve seen do not mention a location within the property. Do you have a link to the source please? TIA.

Soigneur · 05/05/2024 07:41

JudgeJ · 04/05/2024 20:01

In light of what had been happening around London that day running from the police because you're an illegal wasn't too clever. Had he been yet another bomber and the police had done nothing the same people criticising them would have been asking why they did nothing.

He didn’t run from the police. Why do people keep repeating this shit! He picked up a a metro and walked through the tube gates, got on the tube and sat down.

AlwaysGinPlease · 05/05/2024 07:43

It seems some posters would be ok if some poor misunderstood thugs made a "mistake" and " accidentally " broke into their homes. Maybe you'd step aside and say make yourself at home, tell them where you keep the family heirlooms. Ask them if they're here just to steal or to rape and murder. Honestly it seems some people would just defend the criminals to be contrary.

If you break into a house then you take your chances. You're going in there with bad intentions, you get what you deserve. This chap isn't going burgle anyone else. One less!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/05/2024 07:46

AlwaysGinPlease · 05/05/2024 07:43

It seems some posters would be ok if some poor misunderstood thugs made a "mistake" and " accidentally " broke into their homes. Maybe you'd step aside and say make yourself at home, tell them where you keep the family heirlooms. Ask them if they're here just to steal or to rape and murder. Honestly it seems some people would just defend the criminals to be contrary.

If you break into a house then you take your chances. You're going in there with bad intentions, you get what you deserve. This chap isn't going burgle anyone else. One less!

A friend of mine who moved out at 18 and had a child then too (moved to a council estate) shoved me a sharp knife she kept by her bed when she became single. I don’t blame her.

I’ve never gone that far but a man I knew years ago offered to buy me an Alsatian (German shepherd) dog for protection. I turned him down only because I didn’t want to walk it and look after it. He was adamant a single woman living alone should have a fierce dog for protection.

OhmygodDont · 05/05/2024 07:47

justasking111 · 04/05/2024 22:11

Under the best of circumstances this wouldn't be easy. They're steel cabinets now, really noisy both unlocking with both keys which must be hidden elsewhere one top, one bottom lock, and removing a gun which is clanking against the sides. Then make it to a third location to retrieve the cartridges.

So you've the key location, gun location, cartridge location. Try doing all this without alerting three intruders.

I could do that before someone got though my door. Location of the safes is the thing.

Although frankly clanging around would be a good deterrent you’d hope they would hear oh shit his got his gun run!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/05/2024 07:50

AlwaysGinPlease · 05/05/2024 07:43

It seems some posters would be ok if some poor misunderstood thugs made a "mistake" and " accidentally " broke into their homes. Maybe you'd step aside and say make yourself at home, tell them where you keep the family heirlooms. Ask them if they're here just to steal or to rape and murder. Honestly it seems some people would just defend the criminals to be contrary.

If you break into a house then you take your chances. You're going in there with bad intentions, you get what you deserve. This chap isn't going burgle anyone else. One less!

It’s never happened to me but a few people I know (and living with DC) have had a burglar break into their homes whilst they were asleep.

Luckily they slept through it but what if they or their DC woke up?

I swear MN land is nuts sometimes, they’d hand the burglar a cup of tea and biscuits then their valuable belongings.

Most men I know would within reason tackle a burglar but obvs think as to if they had a weapon. I don’t trust police anymore anyway. By the time I rang 999 the burglar would’ve long gone.

Soigneur · 05/05/2024 07:55

0sm0nthus · 04/05/2024 23:48

cannabis plants won’t grow to anything like the strength needed for the opioid
Is there a cannabis/poppy hybrid?

Of course there isn’t. Just like there isn’t a zebra/dolphin hybrid. They aren’t even remotely related.

EdithStourton · 05/05/2024 07:55

It doesn't take long to open a gun safe, and shotgun shells don't have to be locked up.

blablasmthsmth · 05/05/2024 07:56

wednesdayaffairnc · 04/05/2024 02:42

We were talking about this with our friend who is a police sergeant. I have no idea if it's correct but he said it depends on the reason the weapon is there.

So if you keep a baseball bat under your bed for the sole purpose of using it as a weapon for an intruder, and you happen to use it for that purpose you could be charged.

However if you're a baseball player and your sports bag with a baseball bat and ball is at the bottom of your stairs after coming in from a match is around when an intruder breaks in and you grab the bat to protect yourself you'd probably be fine.

Our friend in the police said he keeps a hammer, a few nails and a photo frame on the landing windowsill, as if it's about to be put on the wall.

Like I say, no idea if he's right.

Anyway, I'm firmly team farmer. Poor guy must be beside himself.

The family of the boy should be ashamed.

Wow if this is true, how crazy is that? Basically, if you make plans to defend yourself in an emergency you're considered a criminal. But if you're completely unprepared and happen to get lucky and stumble upon something to defend yourself in the moment, that's ok!

Honestly, if this poor farmer faces criminal repercussions then the country should be in uproar because the idea that we're not afforded the right to defend ourselves (even in our own home!!) is completely unacceptable.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/05/2024 07:56

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Such a nice lad and from such a nice family that he robbed. Bollocks to that.

The fact he’s a teenager and so were the others is neither here nor there. So they’re allowed to make mistakes and rob people simply because they’re teenagers? Nope.

Yes, I’ve known scrotes who’ve done this as teenagers and seemingly turned their lives around. Do I trust them now? No. There’s a big difference to having fun and doing illegal stuff as a teenager to thieving houses/farms.

OhmygodDont · 05/05/2024 08:01

blablasmthsmth · 05/05/2024 07:56

Wow if this is true, how crazy is that? Basically, if you make plans to defend yourself in an emergency you're considered a criminal. But if you're completely unprepared and happen to get lucky and stumble upon something to defend yourself in the moment, that's ok!

Honestly, if this poor farmer faces criminal repercussions then the country should be in uproar because the idea that we're not afforded the right to defend ourselves (even in our own home!!) is completely unacceptable.

Yup it’s what we were told too we have an active shooting range in the garden thus we have a supply of targets and weapons to hit those targets. It’s a sport/hobby not for self defence purposes. But if someone happened to break in at say 3am and I panicked and grabbed one of the weapons then so be it.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 05/05/2024 08:01

Assumptions I know these facts I’m from the area haha. He could have given them a chance. Their phones fell out as they ran. Everything wallet etc. they were teenagers they deserved a chance to learn from their mistakes like I know we have all made and our children will make mistakes one day. He was from a normal nice family. It’s easy for peers to pressure etc. it’s easy to fall in the wrong crowed. Imagine it was your children

They were armed, weren’t they?

It’s highly unlikely an armed offence was their first offence.

Nanaof1 · 05/05/2024 08:04

NigelHarmansNewWife · 05/05/2024 07:23

@RLaurelG - it's been disclosed that the dead man was in the farmhouse kitchen. How do you suppose he got there if he and his mates never went inside and were running for their lives? Your posts read like gossip rather than anything based on fact.

Whatever any if us might think of the police, I think it unlikely officers would be so naive as to jeopardise the case by revealing the information you claim they've disclosed locally.

Oh, I think she/he was listening to someone who had too much "one-sided insider information" and was trying to pass it off as fact.

I will be waiting for their next round of excuses. "He was in the kitchen because he was thirsty". "They were armed in case a wild pack of chinchillas attacked." "They were there collecting for UNICEF/Save The Children/PETA....."

OhmygodDont · 05/05/2024 08:05

He came armed with a cake tray and was just making a brew for the farmer to go with his cake. Clearly duh 😂

Itsrainingten · 05/05/2024 08:05

Not one single person (other than the 1 strange poster that started suggesting they had insider knowledge) has defended the burglars or called them nice lads so I'm not sure why that keeps getting repeated.

Soigneur · 05/05/2024 08:09

Icantrememberthename · 04/05/2024 07:52

I was more thinking about response times. How quickly can you have the sound of a siren ringing in the thugs ears? But I’m sure it’s a complex issue with no easy fix. A post above mentions county lines and one mentions organised crime, which if that’s involved is a whole other kettle of fish and even more complex than my question about risk versus reward.

The response times in rural areas are basically measured in hours. If at all. Same for ambulances. We used to have four police stations in our borough. Now we have none at all. So, 150 square miles with no permanent police presence. When police are called they often get lost and can’t find remote properties as they aren’t local and don’t know the area.

Rural crime is actually MUCH safer (from the burglars point of view) than urban burglaries. Farm buildings are usually remote from the farmhouse so you
can go and nick stuff with impunity and even if you do trigger alarms you know that basically nothing will happen. And you can always make off cross-country along byways and lanes that you know like the back of your hand and the police will have no knowledge of.

Animalnitrates · 05/05/2024 08:11

There’s no winners here, a very young man is dead, his family left grieving, a family home has been violated and they’ve been in fear, a farmer has to live with shooting a young man dead and seriously injuring another. I’ve sympathy for all involved based on the basic facts. It’s an awful situation all round

Sheknowsaboutme · 05/05/2024 08:14

Useless piece of shit deserved that bullet. Zero sympathy with these kind of people.

stepped over a line and deserved the outcome

SnakesAndArrows · 05/05/2024 08:14

AlwaysGinPlease · 05/05/2024 07:43

It seems some posters would be ok if some poor misunderstood thugs made a "mistake" and " accidentally " broke into their homes. Maybe you'd step aside and say make yourself at home, tell them where you keep the family heirlooms. Ask them if they're here just to steal or to rape and murder. Honestly it seems some people would just defend the criminals to be contrary.

If you break into a house then you take your chances. You're going in there with bad intentions, you get what you deserve. This chap isn't going burgle anyone else. One less!

There’s only one poster on here saying anything like that, and she came and went in the early hours.

justasking111 · 05/05/2024 08:18

OhmygodDont · 05/05/2024 07:47

I could do that before someone got though my door. Location of the safes is the thing.

Although frankly clanging around would be a good deterrent you’d hope they would hear oh shit his got his gun run!

Location of the burglar in relation to the gun safe is relevant also.

The rules on where you can locate the safe are very strict. The police come and check, if they're not satisfied with the location you have to move it. Ours had to be out of sight so usually they favour inside cupboards.

The keys must be hidden too. I don't hold a gun licence so am not allowed in the safe.

Reading this thread I'm not allowed a baseball bat beside the bed. Knives are out, pepper spray, which looking around leaves me with, hairspray, perfume, in their eyes, a hand mirror, a picture off the wall.

So I guess I just pray and let them get on with it.

Luckily last time we were burgled I was on the afternoon school run, so the house was empty. That was distressing.

The time before that I was home with two small children in bed the dog we had went for them and they fled over a six foot fence, into a tree.

CasperGutman · 05/05/2024 08:19

ClareBlue · 04/05/2024 00:36

The sanitised Court case will discuss reasonable force and if there was a real and immediate threat to life and expect a person who is faced by 3 armed intruders to make split decisions on how much force can be used. What it will not and can not do is portray how absolutely terrifying it is to have 3 armed men in your house at 1.30am. It's not terrifying for the 3 armed men who made a decision to do this. They are not even scared of the consequences of getting caught. The total fear of this happening to you and the experience will never come across in a Court case in 18 months time, it will all be words and mitigation. And those paying tribute to someone who makes a decision to arm themselves and break into an isolate house should be ashamed of themselves. They won't of course.

The terrifying reality of being confronted by three armed people in your home in the middle of the night would be absolutely central to any trial here, based on the facts as I very superficially understand them.

The law is that you can use reasonable force to defend yourself in your home, but CPS guidelines also state:
"Where you are defending yourself or others from intruders in your home it might still be reasonable in the circumstances for you to use a degree of force that is subsequently considered to be disproportionate, perhaps if you are acting in extreme circumstances in the heat of the moment and don’t have a chance to think
about exactly how much force would be necessary to repel the intruder: it might
seem reasonable to you at the time but with hindsight, your actions may seem
disproportionate. The law will give you the benefit of the doubt in these
circumstances."

www.gov.uk/reasonable-force-against-intruders

Dymaxion · 05/05/2024 08:26

The poster who believes they have insider knowledge has actually raised a good point. If , as she alleges, it was well known locally that the farmer was a wife beating, dog killing, gun fanatic, then why on earth would the teenagers consider going to his property at that time in the middle of the night ? If you think someone at the property is an angry/ bad tempered, shotgun owner, surely you would give it a swerve ?

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