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to ask your thoughts on this? Fatal shooting during burglary

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itsjustataste · 03/05/2024 23:34

Happened near me very recently and our community seems very torn with lots of people slinging insults at both sides. Lots of people shouting about playing stupid games, win stupid prizes etc... whilst others calling the shooter a murderer.

I find it very sad that someone so young has ultimately lost their life and has got mixed up in this sort of thing.

BUT that being said, I don't have any ill feeling toward the farmer either and cannot say that I wouldn't do the same if faced with 3 people breaking into my home, especially if I had my children in the house.

The other 2 suspects arrested for aggravated burglary meaning a weapon was involved and there had been a break in at the same home the night previously too.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

Marcus Smith

Whaley Bridge: Farmer held over burglary shooting death

The man is being detained on suspicion of murder following the shooting, the BBC understands.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

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SnakesAndArrows · 04/05/2024 10:33

DrunkenElephant · 04/05/2024 10:30

The situation would be that your property had been subjected to attempted burglary the night before.

All news outlets are reporting that the boy who was killed was IN the property, two other people were either in your property or outside of it and all three had some sort of weapon.

You wake up to be faced with that, potentially with your family in the house. You are in the middle of nowhere and even if police are dispatched immediately they would not reach you for a while, and you have a gun. What would you do?

I said what I would do in the post you’re quoting.

Also, one burglar was in the property, but which part of the property? The farm house? An outbuilding?

shoppingshamed · 04/05/2024 10:35

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 09:47

Where in that Guardian article does it state he wasn't the farm owner?

Second paragraph.

Isn't the he in the 2nd para referring to the dead burglar?

Bookworm1111 · 04/05/2024 10:36

shoppingshamed · 04/05/2024 10:35

Isn't the he in the 2nd para referring to the dead burglar?

It does. I misread it. Sorry for confusion!

Teentaxidriver · 04/05/2024 10:38

Anotherparkingthread · 03/05/2024 23:45

The farmer had the right to defend himself and his property. They had weapons and there was 3 of them. There was no mistaking their intentions here. The poor farmer.

Totally agree. The poor farmer was on his own - in a remote rural area with 3 armed intruders. I imagine the police will throw the book at the poor man and woke elements of the media will try to drum up sympathy for the deceased.

Maraa · 04/05/2024 10:38

I’m with the farmer.

as a child, we experienced a horrendous break in where I as a 6 year old child sat on the stairs watching my parents go through a horrendous armed burglary. The impacts still affect me 30 years later, the trauma of what I witnessed took a good chunk of my childhood where I was petrified to the point where I stopped talking, completely for months. Years of therapy, and I’m still having therapy and numerous mental health issues which I’m sure my childhood trauma are the root of.

I would do the same to protect my family. Break ins isnt just about the theft of actual items, it ruins life’s.

May09Bump · 04/05/2024 10:40

I back the farmer - if you break into someone's house, then the consequence is that you might not leave alive.

RawBloomers · 04/05/2024 10:41

Sureaseggs44 · 04/05/2024 10:32

Actually as far as I know it does legally , as defence is supposed to be proportional. So if they bring baseball bats you are not supposed to use a gun in defence .
Also guns are supposed to be locked away .

IMO I don’t agree with the law totally as in the dark and in the middle of the night I don’t see how you can check what weapons your assailant is carrying and whether they are willing to use them .

my sympathies lie with the farmer unless more information comes to light .

The force you use is supposed to be proportional to the threat you face. So if it’s reasonable to think they are going to incapacitate you with a baseball bat it’s okay to incapacitate them, even if you use a gun.

FarmGirl78 · 04/05/2024 10:42

No doubt the "victim" (I use the word loosely) will be described in Facebook tributes as "Loveable rogue" and "Life and soul of the party" who "lit up the room when he walked in". And I bet him Mum says he had a heart of gold and just "got in with a bad crowd". All code for an annoying waster who was the scrounge of society and the world will likely be better off without him. No doubt his scrotey little mates will miss him but the rest of the town will likely be breathing a sigh of relief.

DrunkenElephant · 04/05/2024 10:43

SnakesAndArrows · 04/05/2024 10:33

I said what I would do in the post you’re quoting.

Also, one burglar was in the property, but which part of the property? The farm house? An outbuilding?

Edited

I would assume, based on the reporting that one man was found inside the property and another outside, that it was the farm house. As I said previously, we don’t know the facts yet and that is the assumption I’m making.

If he was in the farmhouse, then I would have done exactly the same as the farmer. If for arguments sake he was in the outhouses then that changes things, but what would be of value to steal from those? Farm machinery would need vehicles to move it, unless they were planning on driving a stolen tractor down the road. Hay, animal food, occasionally animal medication would usually be kept in outhouses, it just doesn’t make much sense to me.

TobaccoFlower · 04/05/2024 10:44

I don't feel sorry for a burglar. They ruin people's peace of mind. One less is a good thing.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 04/05/2024 10:45

Livelaughllama · 04/05/2024 10:26

If a member of my friends/ family was an armed robber and got shot in the process of a break in the last thing I'd do would be make a song and dance about defending them locally or in the media. I'd be so ashamed. The poor farmer. He's the victim here.

Well yes, but families and approaches vary, and I'd be very surprised if this one turn out to be squeaky clean themselves

Of course I know nothing about them and could easily be wrong, but time will tell

theilltemperedclavecinist · 04/05/2024 10:46

The farmer is unlikely to be charged if it looks at all like self-defence. His arrest was required only to facilitate investigation.

'Weapon of offence' is understood very widely. Somebody can be charged with aggravated burglary for carrying a jemmy, rope, or pepper spray. I agree it helps a self-defence argument if they were carrying obviously deadly weapons.

I love that the getaway driver got away without his wounded colleague, the coward!

caffelattetogo · 04/05/2024 10:47

One fewer burglar in the world is no bad thing. Poor farmer though. We lived rurally when I was a child, and knew it would be 40 minutes minimum for police to arrive. It was over a mile to the nearest house. You're on your own in places like that.

Beautiful3 · 04/05/2024 10:47

Topofthemountain · 04/05/2024 08:44

If so you have to accept all the consequences that come with that - accidental shootings (Inc a child killing another child) and mass shootings in schools, malls etc, to name just two.

The level of deaths from stabbings here where I live is unreal, it's now reached record numbers. I fully support having licenced guns to defend from home invaders. We shouldn't have to allow ourselves to be raped/robbed/attacked. It doesn't make me feel better that they may be arrested at a later date. I'd want to stop them in their tracks.

LordPercyPercy · 04/05/2024 10:49

There is barely a police force in the UK now, especially in rural areas. People however feel the full force of the law for self-defence. What a miserable situation for law-abiding people.
No sympathy for the dead guy I'm afraid, he had no business there.

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:49

MsLuxLisbon · 03/05/2024 23:37

My sympathy is with the farmer, as it was with Tony Martin. If you break into someone's house, that's on you.

This.

dragonscannotswim · 04/05/2024 10:50

Maraa · 04/05/2024 10:38

I’m with the farmer.

as a child, we experienced a horrendous break in where I as a 6 year old child sat on the stairs watching my parents go through a horrendous armed burglary. The impacts still affect me 30 years later, the trauma of what I witnessed took a good chunk of my childhood where I was petrified to the point where I stopped talking, completely for months. Years of therapy, and I’m still having therapy and numerous mental health issues which I’m sure my childhood trauma are the root of.

I would do the same to protect my family. Break ins isnt just about the theft of actual items, it ruins life’s.

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

And I totally agree that burglary can ruin lives.

FarmGirl78 · 04/05/2024 10:51

MississippiAF · 04/05/2024 07:04

Correct, you don’t know farming well.

So maybe explain and try and educate them about what there is to steal rather than being unhelpful and rude?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/05/2024 10:55

The farmer will do time for manslaughter unfortunately. Do I expect he won’t have to worry too much about being around that man’s family - in the short term anyway.

buildersteacup · 04/05/2024 10:56

FarmGirl78 · 04/05/2024 10:42

No doubt the "victim" (I use the word loosely) will be described in Facebook tributes as "Loveable rogue" and "Life and soul of the party" who "lit up the room when he walked in". And I bet him Mum says he had a heart of gold and just "got in with a bad crowd". All code for an annoying waster who was the scrounge of society and the world will likely be better off without him. No doubt his scrotey little mates will miss him but the rest of the town will likely be breathing a sigh of relief.

I agree. I've been the victim of an armed robbery and have PTSD now as a result.

People who do this are scum. Pure and utter scum. It's not just the incident, you carry the fear with you forever and to never be able to feel fully safe in your home is a horrific feeling. I have no sympathy at all.

willWillSmithsmith · 04/05/2024 10:57

Breaking into a farm seems like a really stupid idea. Everyone knows farmers have guns. It’s never going to end well.

JaneyBlueEyes · 04/05/2024 11:03

Currently on SM as being an aggravated burglary, one person died, another injured.

It’s all incredibly sad and the person I feel most for is the farmer and his family, who he was defending.

Lots of info on Twitter but of course nothing verified.

ruffjustiss · 04/05/2024 11:03

With no opportunity for honest citizens to make their views known, the landscape has continually moved in favour of the criminal.
Sentences should be consecutive so that habitual criminals (two men vandalised 30+ cars in my neighbourhood in one night) and those who cannot safely live among decent people should be off the streets.
Too many people feel entitled to live entirely lawless lives - three strikes and out works for me.
Happy to lend my vote to any politician who guarantees to make crime illegal - and impose that view on the police.

MaryFuckingFerguson · 04/05/2024 11:04

My only sympathy lies with the poor farmer and his family.

It’s a shame the 3 of them weren’t all shot.

TERFCat · 04/05/2024 11:08

God bless the farmer. I hope that he and his family can move past this.

I hope that the other two burglars get life in prison.

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