Teacher bought an ex students only fans?

[ShyPearlMoose]

My friend has an x rated members website and has just told me that our old science teacher from secondary school has bought it! The same teacher that there were always dodgy rumours about him being a creep.

Is this worth mentioning to the school or is that over dramatic? It's really weird but she's 22 now and hasn't been at the school for 4 years.
Thoughts?

Even if he were a complete stranger to the OP's friend - using a school address indicates he's involved with education and young people. She knows he's a teacher, rather than one of the maintenance staff or something (though most schools I'm aware ofonly provide housing for teaching staff,) but I can't imagine the school would be happy about any staff using the school address to subscribe to porn channels and would want to know.

They probably wouldn't be happy that ex-pupils are going into this line of business, either, but if I were them (and I'm not,) it would be the staff risking bringing the school into disrepute I'd be most worried about.

I Googled "When was page 3 banned" and brought up the Wikipedia article that I've posted, so the claim that the friend is a page 3 girl for the Star seems to be nonsense. If there is any truth in this, then the girl concerned is obviously modelling for other publications.

The appearance of the college address is tipping this over the line for me, I must admit, but the OP's friend might get herself into trouble for a data breach. [ETA The only reason for not contacting the school - the friend might get into trouble.]

TBH, I suspect that the OP is the "friend". I feel sorry for her. Reality has hit her hard and she's looking for advice as to what she should do.

I think she needs to look for alternative employment. She's making herself miserable.

Maybe she shouldn't have an x-rated site if she's going to be freaked out about any particular man looking at it?

So, your 22 year old friend is using OnlyFans where she displays explicit content, showcasing her body to the world. But teachers are exempt?

It's not really how the porn industry works.

Whether your teacher is a creep or not, he's completely entitled to watch your friend get her bits out just like everyone else in this forum is.

It should be said, you are essentially documenting how your friend breached privacy rules, and in such detail that any lawyer could now prove it beyond reasonable doubt. Not sure if you are doing her a favour.

Regarding her posing in 'little girl outfits' as someone concerned about children welfare... Words fail me ...

I have to say that if this is true (and I'm not convinced) it shows paying shed loads for a private education doesn't necessarily lead to great returns on the investment...

On the other hand, how many male teachers have a poke around their ex-student's social media and never commit any offense?

Red flags are always "obvious" in hindsight, but discount the innumerable number of times completely legal but slightly pervy behaviour does not escalate to something illegal.

Nothing to report. Plenty of teachers have relationships with former students. I’m a uni lecturer and one of my colleague’s is in a LTR with a former postgrad student, it happens.

In this case, I can see why it’s creepy because he knew you as children but she isn’t a child now. Both adults, he hasn’t done anything illegal, just sleazy.

The chances are he doesn't even realize it's her as I'm guessing she's looking a bit different than she did at school unless she's dressing as a school girl on her onlyfans.

I think you just need to leave him alone! She's accepted his subscription and she knows EXACTLY who he is I'm pretty sure she could have chosen not to accept his subscription. Of course the school don't need to be notified!

I still don't understand why she would use her real name for such activities? If she's that easy to find, identify and follow this will undoubtedly affect all her future career/relationship/life prospects??

If she's advertising it through her social media, as a pp suggested, she's probably got a fair number of people who have known her or met her in real life following her, maybe not subscribing to £25 a month, but still aware of her and looking at her less x-rated 'content'.

I'm guessing....
*Goto mumsnet with (gleeful) evidence a teacher has done something immoral (but not illegal).
*Bypass any other channel that adults are signposted to consult for situations like these (childline, NSPCC, a lawyer etc).
*Ignore the fact she's a page 3 girl as well so is already publically known and therefore very easily found on the Internet by all and sundry, especially the press.
*Use the commotion that will be stirred up, to increase traffic to all the sites she's selling her 'content' on.
*The customer could be sacked and then will have to consider court for breach of site contract.
*Woman with her bits out lives off the SM proceeds ever after.

If the teacher found her, then the whole school probably know what she's up tom including all the other teacher and past students. She must be widely known in the area for selling herself- I used to work in a school and one of past students did something similar, the rumour spread like wildfire.
Does anyone remember the stolen photos off celebrities cloud scandal? How many people who are not even usually into porn have downloaded these to watch out of curiosity? Id be surprised if he was the only one to subscribe to her 'content'.
On another note, the fact he has a dodgy reputation may be a rumour too. There was a teacher in my secondary school who just looked a bit off, but was actually really nice, he just did not loo after his appearance much, had like a crooked tie and uncombed hair, and someone spread rumours he looked like a pedo, lots of people repeated it for fun, then two girls made allegations against him, the school suspended him, and then it turned out they made it up because they didnt like him, because he gave one of them a low mark on a test and they thought it would be fun to get their revenge on him. There was nothing wrong with him, but he never came back to work in our school.

There's nothing to report and he hasn't committed any offence. It's been a while since she left school and he has not abused a position of trust. She will just have to either refund him and block his account, or accept that Mr X the science teacher is wanking off to her pictures. I have more of an issue with your friend dressing up as a schoolgirl to be honest. That's not exactly morally any better.

Its been 4 years since your friend even attended that school!! What is there to report? What? So more rumours spread around about this Teacher that could potentially ruin his life while giving your friend's only fans a ...boost is it?!

Unsmart & petty move to report him. He has committed no crime. Sounds like you are a gossipy, immature little 20 odd year old.

Keep it between you and your friend and BOTH of you Grow up!!

Just read op's other updates and i'm convinced she is indeed the "friend"! Why not just be honest?

But as bonkers MN can be, It is warming to see the huge amount of helpful commenters alerting OP to the data/ privacy issues which is very serious and OP is oblivious to GDPR it seems.

I would 100% get revenge on your 'friend' if she outed me for squeezin mi sausage in private.

Refund him and block him if it bothers you so much - another poster suggested this and its absolutely bloody well spot on if you are that upset about it.

Them screenshots will get you into trouble OP - and i doubt you had X Teacher's consent which clearly you do not.

Out of curiosity..where on earth are your parents? Are they happy seeing their little girl "plastered everywhere" your poor family (Brothers, Uncles, Cousins etc)

So a man watching porn is creepy but a woman making porn is of no concern. I see.