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Teacher bought an ex students only fans?

366 replies

ShyPearlMoose · 02/05/2024 23:59

My friend has an x rated members website and has just told me that our old science teacher from secondary school has bought it! The same teacher that there were always dodgy rumours about him being a creep.

Is this worth mentioning to the school or is that over dramatic? It's really weird but she's 22 now and hasn't been at the school for 4 years.
Thoughts?

OP posts:
berksandbeyond · 04/05/2024 18:09

I’m not sure that someone on only fans gets to take a moral highground tbh.
Maybe a wake up call that there will be all sorts of creeps wanking over her, could be a future interviewer, could be her dads mates, that’s the risk you take

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:20

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:05

Just read the updates (see all doesnt work on my phone 😕)
Im not really believing this post. I seriously doubt hes used the school as his billing address, surely the card he used would throw up the postcode being incorrect?

Unless its email address rather than postal - postal would make no sense unless its a boarding school and he lives there...

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:22

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:20

Unless its email address rather than postal - postal would make no sense unless its a boarding school and he lives there...

Maybe but even if he was on site at a boarding school surely he'd have a home address for his bank? Im just no buying this story at all

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:25

ScartlettSole · 04/05/2024 18:22

Maybe but even if he was on site at a boarding school surely he'd have a home address for his bank? Im just no buying this story at all

Yep, it is drifting into the realms of fiction, and the facts are changing - and as far as I'm aware (occasionally buying red top paper) the page 3 thing was put to bed years ago now.

Candy999 · 04/05/2024 18:26

lol people going on about the OF girl like she’s a serial killer 🤣 by the sounds of how prude some of you seem I wouldn’t be surprised if their was a lot of MN husbands on there.

In all seriousness he hasn’t done anything illegal and I am pretty sure their is probably some GDPR guidelines she should be more worried about by exposing him. Just put it down to him being a creep and forget about it.

PropertyManager · 04/05/2024 18:29

Candy999 · 04/05/2024 18:26

lol people going on about the OF girl like she’s a serial killer 🤣 by the sounds of how prude some of you seem I wouldn’t be surprised if their was a lot of MN husbands on there.

In all seriousness he hasn’t done anything illegal and I am pretty sure their is probably some GDPR guidelines she should be more worried about by exposing him. Just put it down to him being a creep and forget about it.

Its not only fans now, OP has revised that, it's her own website and she models for page 3.

RachyRoo24 · 04/05/2024 18:30

Still creepy I feel

Johnthesensible · 04/05/2024 18:30

Are you serious. Pot calling the kettle black. Unbelievable.

Newerversion · 04/05/2024 18:40

If he has registered his credit card to the school address then it will be a school credit card, I highly doubt even the most dim of people would do that! This seems a little far fetched to me.

Mtlso · 04/05/2024 18:45

Before doing anything, I’d check with the ICO if you’d be breaking the law. Also ring your LA safeguarding team anonymously.

ImNotARegularMumImACoolMum · 04/05/2024 18:55

Report it to the school, it’s likely that they’ll have a very specific policy about following ex-students on social media, never mind that it’s an x-rated site!!

tiggergoesbounce · 04/05/2024 18:59

So your friend has an -Only Fans page where she wants people to pay to perv at her.
And when they do - she worries they are a perv ??

She is 22- what's the concern sorry I didn't read it all.

jengachampion · 04/05/2024 18:59

A teacher from the Educating series dated some ex students and had schoolgirl fantasies and was barred from teaching so I’d think it was worth telling the school

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:00

Deepdivesueandyou · 03/05/2024 01:07

She's selling, he's buying. No-one is glowing here, but no laws broken - shame him means to shame her.
Icky all round.

This!

Isn't it what she wants?

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:07

renthead · 03/05/2024 06:41

The teacher is disgusting, but how do you know he even remembers her, or looked her up? Teachers have hundreds of students.It could be a complete coincidence.

I think this 'concern' is a bit rich coming from your friend. If she is really that concerned about safeguarding, perhaps she should think twice about this vile line of work / side hustle.

Why is he disgusting if he doesn't know she's an ex pupil?

The woman involved is getting paid for what she's doing, so wants men to pay?

He's appeasing her want?

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:09

Autumntimeagain · 03/05/2024 07:46

But surely every 'only fans' account has been someone's 'student' at some time?

Sure, it's repugnant, but in my view, everyone who subscribes to 'only fans' is repugnant 😬

It's also repugnant to set up an only fans account IMO!

Doltieon · 04/05/2024 19:11

I think we're getting into the realms of fantasy now.

BoringlySensible · 04/05/2024 19:12

How would people respond if 22 year old teacher of adults stumbled across porn of their student?

CestLaVie123 · 04/05/2024 19:12

She's a page 3 model

But page 3 hasn't existed for some time now, OP?

CestLaVie123 · 04/05/2024 19:17

She does make videos in little school girl outfits

Personally I find this disgusting - she is sexualising schoolgirls, and schoolgirl uniforms. Your friend is disgraceful, this harms all young girls by encouraging men to view them as sexual objects. Obviously men who do this, and pay to watch such things, are disgusting to.

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:29

CestLaVie123 · 04/05/2024 19:17

She does make videos in little school girl outfits

Personally I find this disgusting - she is sexualising schoolgirls, and schoolgirl uniforms. Your friend is disgraceful, this harms all young girls by encouraging men to view them as sexual objects. Obviously men who do this, and pay to watch such things, are disgusting to.

Exactly!

She should totally fucking ashamed of herself sexualising school girls!

bloodyplumbing · 04/05/2024 19:33

RachyRoo24 · 04/05/2024 18:30

Still creepy I feel

The ex pupil for sexualising school girls?

Yes I agree!

Havinganamechange · 04/05/2024 19:36

Having, sharing or selling adult porn in general is not illegal so not clear why you should report him. Honestly get a life, it’s not child pornography is it? Plus your friend has just breached his confidentiality hasn’t she, wonder who has broken the law here 🤷🏼‍♀️

CantFindMyMarbles · 04/05/2024 19:42

They’re all adults. End of.

Mercian · 04/05/2024 20:18

So...
A woman decided to sell her body.
And a bloke decided to buy it.
Er, that's it.