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To be terrified about PIP?

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BobbyBiscuits · 29/04/2024 15:10

I've tried to blank all this out for ages, but today it hit me when the government basically are saying I'm going to (they want me to) have my PIP cut off?
My main illnesses are severe depressive disorder, general anxiety disorder and severe anorexia. I've severe PTSD symptoms and also think I may have ADHD but have not been able to get diagnosed due to phobia of MH services since I got sectioned.
I now have physical symptoms also and severe osteperosis which I put on my last forms. But had no assessment for several years.
I'm praying this is BS from the Tories and they can't do it anyway as they'll be kicked out.
Or could labour still continue this assault against disabled people?
It would halve my already tiny income, other half is from ESA, and they could kick me off that too even though I can't do anything!?

What do people think?

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 29/04/2024 22:59

Oh hello @ThisOldThang

I believe we met on a similar thread recently.

Ding ding round 2?

After the day I've had trying to access support for my elderly vulnerable step-mother plus supporting my elderly severely unwell father going round and round in convoluted bureaucratic health department circles, I'm itching for a scrap. Give it your best shot and lay off some of the people on here you're determined to kick while they're down.

LadyKenya · 29/04/2024 22:59

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:54

Xenobitch has stated that there's no financial impact due to the disability, so why should somebody receive money for a condition with zero costs?

This is exactly why the entire pip system is unaffordable and will be brought to an end.

For that poster maybe, but plenty of other posters have outlined where the financial help is needed, spent. Or have you missed those posts rather conveniently.

Fresh1ndia · 29/04/2024 23:00

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:57

You don't have to, but it seems somewhat counterintuitive for anorexia to result in higher food costs.

Well that just illustrates your ignorance as regards the illness and pretty much why an ill informed job centre worker wouldn’t be best qualified to make decisions as regards a highly dangerous illness and her ability to work.

Good luck with any such workers going through weekly physical observation stats and the many other safe guarding risks that accompany her conditions.

OldManLogan · 29/04/2024 23:01

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:57

You don't have to, but it seems somewhat counterintuitive for anorexia to result in higher food costs.

Have you tried getting enough nutrition into someone who can't or won't eat enough? Never had an elderly relative that had to have meal replacements? Ever tried thinking before posting a ridiculous question?

SummerBreeze1980 · 29/04/2024 23:02

Hereyoume · 29/04/2024 22:27

But the Government is changing the current system. So the decision on who is entitled to claim PIP will not be assessed by medical professionals anymore.

The assessors will have a remit to deny claims as the default position. It will be up to the claimant to prove they are entitled to it. I'm guessing not many will pass the test. So it would be work or starve. The government is hoping that poverty will inspire people to work instead of claiming benefits.

Where are you getting your information from?! 🙄 PIP is already not assessed by HCPs. The assessor's already have that very remit.

PIP is not an out of work benefit!! If PIP is stopped it will prevent disabled people working so they have to claim benefits!

Honestly, stop spouting utter nonsense!

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:03

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:54

Xenobitch has stated that there's no financial impact due to the disability, so why should somebody receive money for a condition with zero costs?

This is exactly why the entire pip system is unaffordable and will be brought to an end.

PIP is not awarded based on financial impact. My DP would for sure get points based in the fact he needs prompting for basic self care.

Maybe try to claim it sometime, and see how fucked up the whole process is.

Elleherd · 29/04/2024 23:04

MistressoftheDarkSide · 29/04/2024 22:59

Oh hello @ThisOldThang

I believe we met on a similar thread recently.

Ding ding round 2?

After the day I've had trying to access support for my elderly vulnerable step-mother plus supporting my elderly severely unwell father going round and round in convoluted bureaucratic health department circles, I'm itching for a scrap. Give it your best shot and lay off some of the people on here you're determined to kick while they're down.

May i hold your coat, Mistress?

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:05

Fresh1ndia · 29/04/2024 22:56

For the disability as it presents in her case. As such it wouldn’t be awarded. For others where there was a cost it would be- when proof was provided.

No, no proof of cost or spending is needed to claim PIP

fliptopbin · 29/04/2024 23:05

I can't believe that Rishi is expecting us to forget that a few years ago the tories were trumpeting about mental health being equal to physical health, and that PIP was their idea!
I mean, if they can pass a law making Rwanda a safe country, I am half expecting te next thing to be a law saying that Kier Starmer has been PM since 2015, and that Rishi is in fact the opposition.

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 23:05

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Daydreamer44 · 29/04/2024 23:05

Elleherd · 29/04/2024 23:04

May i hold your coat, Mistress?

👏👏👏

MistressoftheDarkSide · 29/04/2024 23:05

@Elleherd 😁

Thank you darling 😘

Just doing a few limbering up exercises.....

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 23:08

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:03

PIP is not awarded based on financial impact. My DP would for sure get points based in the fact he needs prompting for basic self care.

Maybe try to claim it sometime, and see how fucked up the whole process is.

So, you're claiming and you want your partner to start claiming because you have to remind him to have a shower.

Something that

  1. Can't ever be verified to ascertain if it's true.
  2. Has no financial impact to him, whatsoever.

And you all moan about people questioning if people are taking the piss?

Fresh1ndia · 29/04/2024 23:09

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:05

No, no proof of cost or spending is needed to claim PIP

Pretty sure we discussed additional costs during my DD’s assessment and the needs that incurred those costs. That said it was a while ago.

SummerBreeze1980 · 29/04/2024 23:09

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:54

Xenobitch has stated that there's no financial impact due to the disability, so why should somebody receive money for a condition with zero costs?

This is exactly why the entire pip system is unaffordable and will be brought to an end.

Shouldn't need to spell this out but here goes...the condition itself may have zero costs i.e to treat it. However, being disabled makes lots of things more difficult and people can end up isolated and depressed....unable to work, unable to do leisure activities.

As an example of leisure activities. An average person can go and swim at the council pool very cheaply. Someone with ASD may not be able to do that due to sensory issues - noise, temperature, crowds etc. In order to be able to swim they have to go to the more expensive pool.

ilovesooty · 29/04/2024 23:10

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:37

Why do you have days where you can't wipe your own arse?

FFS.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 29/04/2024 23:10

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Goodness. How low are you prepared to go?

Tell us again what qualifies you to dismiss the lived experience of people sharing their fears and anxieties on this thread? Go on, we are waiting with bated breath to hear the source of your expertise ?

We are, agog with anticipation....

SummerBreeze1980 · 29/04/2024 23:11

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 22:57

You don't have to, but it seems somewhat counterintuitive for anorexia to result in higher food costs.

You do realise the idea is to encourage the person to eat?!

Beddgelert · 29/04/2024 23:12

@SummerBreeze1980 this is why some sort of audit trail documenting these additional costs is being debated.

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:12

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Being able bodied is a temporary state. I really hope you never get to feel the need to claim PIP. Maybe then, you will see what a depressing and dehumanising process it is.

But, like others, I remember you. You think people claim PIP for "writers cramp" and are living it up on taxpayers money.

BTW, the info I provided was my DP having ASD. If you think you can judge whether he would get PIP or not based on a brief statement, then you can fucking stroll on..

Fresh1ndia · 29/04/2024 23:13

Beddgelert · 29/04/2024 23:12

@SummerBreeze1980 this is why some sort of audit trail documenting these additional costs is being debated.

How much would that cost to implement? Wouldn’t it better spent on more psychiatrists and mental health professionals.

Daydreamer44 · 29/04/2024 23:14

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Honestly you have no idea what people with disabilities go through. Many people with disabilities can’t wipe their own arses to the point there’s toilets now that actually do it for you. Can’t think why such an appliance was invented??

SummerBreeze1980 · 29/04/2024 23:14

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The sheer jealousy you have of disabled people and their 'free money' is one of the most disgusting things I've seen on here recently and that's saying something!

XenoBitch · 29/04/2024 23:15

ThisOldThang · 29/04/2024 23:08

So, you're claiming and you want your partner to start claiming because you have to remind him to have a shower.

Something that

  1. Can't ever be verified to ascertain if it's true.
  2. Has no financial impact to him, whatsoever.

And you all moan about people questioning if people are taking the piss?

Edited

I don't live with my DP so whether he claims or not is not going to affect me. I also don't claim PIP.

And a descriptor for claiming PIP is about prompting to have a shower... so don't have a go at me about it. I did not fucking write it.

jamimmi · 29/04/2024 23:15

Oh.op try not to panic. I've just been reassuring my DH who claims PIP. He has been waiting nearly 12 months for them to review it, and got emails (,whichnhe cant see) and automated phone messages pushing the government's line about getting back to work. He was retired on ill health, can't work and had a reasonable pension but the pip pays for things like a taxi to get out for his mental health, a chiropodist for his feet as despite being eligible for nhs care they can't offer appts for 12 months as as he's sight impaired he couldn't then reach the clinic alone. Not quite sure who would employ someone who cant see, read a screen or get somewhere without a guide cain.and knowing the route. I mean he could I suppose use a phone but then couldn't write the message down. In.all fairness PIP as others have said is to support with the expenses of disabled life and there are many, not to replace work. But then in true tory style it's easier to pick on the weak rather than provide the service. As for vouchers that will be for their friends to make more money on I would assume as I'll bey it will be for approved providers only.

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