aibu to think I can forgive my partner for DV

[Hospitalbaby]

Married 11 years, two kids under 5.
It's happened twice. Once when I was 17weeks pregnant (a push) and more recently at Christmas (a push again)
Although I wasn't hurt I was very shaken up.
I think about it daily.

My DH is in therapy and hugely trying to fix what he's done.
Aibu to think maybe I can forgive and stay in this relationship?

I doubt he has darkened the door of a therapist. The fact that he has even said this to you tells me you need to split.

Ask yourself honestly, do you feel safe? Do you feel like you could have a proper disagreement with him, be heard and continue to feel safe?

I’m a fully regulated therapist - either he is lying about this therapist/counsellor, lying to them, or they are incredibly unprofessional and inappropriate. If you wanted to send me therapist details I could at least check their credentials. But it doesn’t sound like it would be helpful.

I wonder if maybe he’s heard what he wants to hear, maybe the therapist said you triggered him - which they mean technically and in a different way to provoked. Either way it’s not a good use of language.