Husband following hundreds of women…

[Leopardspots338]

So I just want other peoples opinions.
i have recently found my husbands TikTok account where he is following hundreds and I mean hundreds of half naked women. Now I am not talking about gym goers in tight leggings.. I will show you some examples. He is also following hundreds more on Facebook and Instagram too.
galactica.whr
oppai_sense
maysa.alcantara95
ladyaisha27

Now. I am in no way naive in thinking that men don’t look at these types of things. But he has his full name and it’s a public forum where anyone can look at who he’s following. Our kids both have phones and are getting to an age where they are going to be joining social media. I genuinely believe this just shows his complete lack of respect for me. AIBU?

Yes, it’s horrible. My 24 yr ds doesn’t follow any accounts like this and I’d be surprised if any of his friends do. Yuk.

Thanks. He’s a soon to be 38 year old man.

He's a horrible creep and I'd get rid of him to be honest. I can't imagine ever finding him sexually attractive again. His behaviour smacks of 'sad little pervert' syndrome. I imagine him panting over these girls whilst locked in the lav. Yuck.

Urgh
How revolting
what a pathetic little man

Ewwww

I knew he was doing it on Facebook and he has a few on Instagram but the fact I’ve just found all of these has completely blown my mind. Absolutely no respect for me at all.

Check he is not on dating / hook up sites
I bet he is
Do you have access to his email addresses ( even hidden ones ? )

Not that I can find. Thank god I’m not the only person who finds this revolting.

He's grim. Raise your standards

GRIM and disrespectful 🤮

Curious to know the reasoning behind votes for I am being unreasonable

Grim he doesn't deserve you my ex dp did this denied it saying it wasn't him blah blah blah I said don't treat me like a fool and that was that I gave him a chance for a while it stopped and then started again he got thrown out the door
Girl you know your self worth

Utterly grim. LTB.

Christ! He needs to raise his standards too, looking at those accounts!

I’ve just looked up those names you posted OP.

Does he have an unhealthy obsession with badly down implants? Fake and out of proportion?

I’m sorry OP, but you deserve better 🌹

Why would you even need to ask op? Of course it’s not respectable or acceptable. Is he thick? Why would you even want to be with a man who objectifies women like that? Vile.

I’m sorry OP this is horrible to find.

Are there any messages from these women?

it is grim and disrespectful to you. He should be ashamed of himself.

Weird and creepy for a 38yr old married man to be doing this. I’d suspect he’s chatting to some too. Urgh. To me it’s a version of cheating. It’s one thing watching some random porn to get off occasionally but actively following hundreds is not normal.

Thanks all so much for the reassurance. I just wanted to hear other people’s opinions I suppose to make sure I am not going mad. I don’t even know how to bring it up to be honest.

checked Out the instagram of the first person on op’s list and to be fair she is objectifying herself. But it is gross for a nearly 40 year old man to be following this content when the females he is following are half his age and he has a wife and young kids.

It is disrespectful to you op and very embarrassing of him.

Absolutely grim. My 70 year old FIL does this, even though he is married and has daughters twice the age of those who he follows and “likes” photos.

My DH & I are no contact with him now as we both think its grim

And people let their kids have Tik Tok!!!!

I know! My kids don’t have it but the thought of them seeing that from their dad knocks me sick!!!

That's grim, he's a bad creep.

Those are the men on here sniffing round the ladies 😳