To think my friend shouldn't have eaten my burger?

[knowledgeablyclueless]

Out for dinner a couple of nights ago.

Me and DP, friend and her BF, and another friend.

All paying for our own food.

I ordered a burger but didn't finish it all, so offered it to DP. He said Yes please, but let me finish mine first.

Immediately after that, friend said 'Oh could I try a bite first?' - she ate about half of what was left, then proceeded to offer it to her DP, and when he said no, our friend.

AIBU to think this was fucking weird? Me and DP were both a bit like, Erm, wtf to say something at the time!

Do you normally have a sandwich snatched from your plate and bites taken from it by several people when you had already offered it to someone else who accepted it......Jesus some people must have odd eating habits

Not sure I'd want it after someone else had even picked it up do you eat food other people put their dirty hands on?

I've never heard anyone be controlling over a burger 😂

Maybe she thought your DP said no which is why she offered it to everyone else apart from your DP. If that’s the case then I think it’s fine. If not then it was really weird.

This story is weird on so many levels. Are you all seagulls?

YABU not to have eaten the burger.

No problem at all, we have a friend who often doesn't finish her food and anyone just grabs it 😂

If you're determined to make this into a kissing analogy then the equivalent of this is if OP's DH leant over and snogged their friend...

There's something about blatantly sharing DNA outside of your relationship/family that is pretty grim, to me anyway.

Meh, nobody needs more than one burger. I'd have probably just asked if anyone wanted it rather than offering to anyone specific.

I mean yes it's rude, but I'm not sure it's worth getting upset about. Next time don't offer it round /agree to let her have some - or cut a bit off for her.

Do you normally have a sandwich snatched from your plate and bites taken from it by several people when you had already offered it to someone else who accepted it......Jesus some people must have odd eating habits

It wasn't snatched off her plate, her friend asked if she could have some and she said yes. I mean I my friend literally snatched food off my plate and ate some and offered it round I'd think it was a bit weird (but wouldn't get worked up about it.) But this didn't happen!

Sorry tried to quote and didn't work!

What burger was it

Beef

Chicken

Squeaky cheese

Veggie

That’s weird for a friend to want to eat a burger that’s been in your mouth 🤢

This. A lot of people on here remind me of my mum - She also doesn't like most of her friends. Although OPs story is far calmer than most of these friend stories on MN.

It's a burger OP. Don't sweat it.

Weird and bit disgusting. Passing food around taking bites and then expecting someone to eat the left overs…🤮 no one touches Joey’s food , or mine.

@memyselfi - the OP's partner didn't refuse it, he didn't get the chance after the lady friend took a bite and then offered it to her partner and other friend!

Did your partner finish the sloppy...fifths?

I don't get the feeling that @knowledgeablyclueless DH did eat what was left after everyone else had had a bite.

OP did it even get back to your DP? Although he probably didn't want it after that anyway.

She knew he was going to have it by the can I have a bite first.

This can't have come out of nowhere. How else is she a CF/tight?

It would seem some posters are being deliberately obtuse, just for the arseholeness.

Next time just stick it on his plate. Or just cut a bit for your friend to try.

Nailed it 😂 you win the award for the best mumsnet reading between the lines award

...or

You were all splitting the bill, you and DH ordered a huge starter while everyone else went straight to mains. They all finished and had to watch you two ploughing through your vast quantities of food. DH was lining up your leftovers as a little something extra before you worked your way through the desert menu. Friend decides to put a stop to your over-consumption and also speed the meal along. 🤔

Jeez it’s a second hand half eaten burher, who cares?!