My daughter moved out in January. She lives alone and has no furniture. Once a week I come over with takeaway and we eat together and learn about each other's week. I asked if she wanted furniture for her birthday and she said yes. I suggested a table and chairs because we eat together and she liked that idea.
I've shown her pictures and taken her shopping, but she hasn't made any decisions. She said she doesn't know her style. I've been looking at used furniture online and I found the green upholstered chairs with black metal frames. She sat on them at IKEA. She likes green and liked that they were comfortable.
Then I found a wood table I had shown her a picture of. She had liked the picture but didn't want me spending so much when she hadn't seen the table in person.
I've tried talking to her, but she's busy. She's earning, her boyfriend is ill, she doesn't have time to drive out to homes to look at furniture. She doesn't share my urgency to get these deals before someone else. Would I be unreasonable to just buy the furniture? It could always be sold if she doesn't like it.
AIBU?
WIBU to buy my daughter furniture she didn't pick out?
Mastmw7g · 11/04/2024 10:02
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Mrsjayy · 11/04/2024 10:39
I don't understand why she hasn't any furniture not even a seat to sit on Is her place rented or bought? Does she have any additional needs because not having anything in your home is unusual , I wouldn't be pussy footing around any of my children if they lived like this.
Mrsjayy · 11/04/2024 10:40
I'd take her to ikea or wherever and say do you want this,this or this..
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