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Sick of this fucking weather. No wonder we are all ill and fat.

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Wayofliving · 08/04/2024 18:25

The heating has been on at home at some point every day for the past 7 months. I’ve no inclination to get out and walk or do anything at all after work. I come home and cook comfort food as there’s sod all else to do. Drying washing everywhere, house always looks untidy.

It’s always cold, dark, rainy, depressing. If we’re lucky we’ll get 2-3 months of a bit of warmth and sunshine before it all starts waning towards winter again.

No wonder there’s lots of bugs and colds around, we’re all indoors all the time! Couple the shitty weather with high costs of living, crap public services and it makes me wonder why I didn't feck off to Australia when I was younger.

No point to this post, just a moan!

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SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 22:54

PollyPeachum · 08/04/2024 22:53

In the 1940s there were very cold winters with frozen waste pipes on houses.
In medieval times as well as Black Death there were some years with no sun therefore no harvest.
At least we are spared those extremes.

Give it time!

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 22:55

easylikeasundaymorn · 08/04/2024 22:52

it might 'be' a saying but it's a stupid one. No amount of waterproofs can make grey sky more appealing than clear blue, brown mud more appealing than green grass, relentless drizzle more appealing than sun (doesn't even have to be hot, just clear).
objectively there is such a thing as bad weather, no matter what you're wearing.

Plus waterproofs "might" keep you dry but they also make me hot and sweaty.

You can wear as many waterproofs as you like, it doesn't make sitting on a bench having a chat with a friend or having a picnic, in pouring rain, in any way fun.

Full proper head-to-do waterproofs and comfortable dry boots are expensive too. There are lots of things you can wear them for, like going for a run. Most people don't have a mudroom or even a cloakroom so end up traipsing water and mud back into the living room or hall which would need to be swept and washed every single day for a family going in and out in the rain.

100% this. ^

StephieSlade84 · 08/04/2024 22:56

Yeah, I'm definitely sick of this weather too 😭😭😭! I loan a pony, and all the fields are knee deep in mud at the moment, so it's impossible to turn out.
Definitely feel like this weather makes you feel hungrier and lazier too.

RampantIvy · 08/04/2024 22:58

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 22:55

100% this. ^

1000% this.

ShadesofPoachedSmoke · 08/04/2024 22:58

@RedToothBrush nope, it's a weather problem. Just cos it's bad elsewhere doesn't mean we can't moan about it being bad here!

oakleaffy · 08/04/2024 22:59

AngryLikeHades · 08/04/2024 22:51

Gorgeous doggy @oakleaffy. What's her name?

Thanks, Wiggly woo is her nickname.

Do you have any dogs @AngryLikeHades ?

Whippets really hate the wet. She had to have a proper shower as rolled in stinky fox wee as well as muddy undercarriage.
I put her in the shower with door closed hoping she'd shake the water off in there, but she just stared at me til I opened the door and then caught her in a warm towel.

She gets very grumpy being showered off, and shows it! {Pic of her dry after the shower}

Her pad was actually cracked with the wet- I bought some bamboo paw balm that really helped.

''First Sun Paw Cream Balm''...it's cheap from Ebay and better in reviews than much more expensive stuff.

Sick of this fucking weather. No wonder we are all ill and fat.
willWillSmithsmith · 08/04/2024 23:00

Misthios · 08/04/2024 22:17

Who are these people who relish getting out for a lovely walk when it's blowing a force 10 gale and raining sideways? You'd need oilskins like the deep sea fishermen wear to keep you dry on some of the days we've had and i'd look bloody stupid trudging round the local park dressed like that.

You do see some of the exercise fanatics out jogging in a deluge, and people with dogs have to take them out. But the reaction of most people is to say fuck that for a game of soldiers, i'll wait until it stops raining to go out. And then it doesn't stop raining.

Yes and on those days I have no choice but to go out (dr appt or whatever) there’s hardly anyone around and they look as huddled and miserable as me. So who are these people enjoying themselves in the rain because I never see them?

Plumeface · 08/04/2024 23:00

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 22:27

@Wildgeen · Today 21:35

Thankfully I don’t know anyone like this in IRL 😂

Well exactly. I don't know a single soul in real life who just LOVES the shitty cold windy rainy weather, and especially not in the middle of SPRING. The type of weather that stops you doing fuck-all. NO-ONE likes it. NO-ONE says 'oooh ... but jigsaws, snuggles on the sofa, board games, big cosy jumpers, and HOT CHOCOLATE!' in real life ... NO-ONE!!! Hmm

I actually do love those things but not in April.

lorn195 · 08/04/2024 23:03

Mummyratbag · 08/04/2024 22:33

In Cornwall, currently 50-60 mph winds and it feels like it hasn't stopped raining since about 1982..

I'm in Cornwall and the wind has definitely picked up and howling outside. Could be a long night.

NoisySnail · 08/04/2024 23:04

Nannyfannybanny · 08/04/2024 18:37

I've got dogs. There is a saying "no such thing as bad weather just inappropriate clothing". No idea where you live, but here in the SE UK,it was 18c today, shorts and t shirt. Yesterday cloudless sky,warm out of the wind. Took dogs and DGS to Forest about 8 miles away,he was climbing trees, playing with the dogs. Easter weather was nice, just a few showers one afternoon. When my DKS were small, I couldn't afford the electric fire, I bunged them in a pram, pushchair, because it always felt warmer when I went back indoors.

If you live somewhere where you have lots of rain free days then you have no idea what it is like.
Where I live in the last 6 weeks we have had two days without rain. And I do not mean a few showers. I mean lots of heavy rain. The ground is saturated and muddy.

Fruitandclottedcream · 08/04/2024 23:04

YANBU, I'm usually a "there's no such thing as bad weather" person.... But it's too wet. I live in the rural south west. Its either windy and raining, or not windy and raining. I can't think of a single day since December where it hasn't rained.

Most of the fields we go past are flooded, we can't access our usual walking routes because they're horrifically muddy and bordering on unsafe for me and DD, and are downright dangerous for DH who has mobility problems. Half the country roads we need to use are flooded horrifically at points, and between that and the water filled pot holes, traveling by car takes twice as long as usual.

At this point, it would make my year if it stopped raining for long enough for me to mow the grass.

Kerflapperty · 08/04/2024 23:05

It's the grey over cast sky... its grinding me down loads and I actually felt a bit panicky/anxious about it the other day.

MelissaLouRocks · 08/04/2024 23:07

I saw a news report yesterday that said water companies are already warning about shortages this summer.

WTAF?!! I'm in the Midlands, not the Outer Hebrides, and honestly can't remember one dry day since Christmas.

Livelovebehappy · 08/04/2024 23:10

oakleaffy · 08/04/2024 22:47

Someone here is very fed up by the mud and rain.. Despite coats , she gets mud soaked, the fields are inches deep in mud and water.

Ah! He/she looks a doppelgänger for my whippet! He has that very sad look 99% of the time, so it’s hard to tell if the rain makes him sadder…..

Plumeface · 08/04/2024 23:11

I don't know why it can't ever be just, like, temperate?! Hideous wind and rain and then suddenly it is summer oh but it's 35 degrees for 2 weeks then back to wind and rain.

18-25ish degrees, sunny with a nice breeze is my ideal in spring and summer (and sunny and freezing cold in winter) but it doesn't seem to happen much!

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 23:11

MelissaLouRocks · 08/04/2024 23:07

I saw a news report yesterday that said water companies are already warning about shortages this summer.

WTAF?!! I'm in the Midlands, not the Outer Hebrides, and honestly can't remember one dry day since Christmas.

Are they taking the actual piss? Shock How can there be a water shortage when it's rained for 170 of the past 183 days?!

TheCheekyKoala · 08/04/2024 23:12

I don’t think it’s actually been that bad.
Yeh it’s wet some days but today was fine, it rained for a short amount of time and then it brightened up.

Jellykat · 08/04/2024 23:14

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 23:11

Are they taking the actual piss? Shock How can there be a water shortage when it's rained for 170 of the past 183 days?!

They dont have the storage facilities apparently..

JudgeJ · 08/04/2024 23:14

WalkingonWheels · 08/04/2024 18:34

I'm so fed up of it 😔 I haven't been out of the house since February. The only (very rare) dry days we've had, I've been working.

I don't know where you all are but today has been glorious, back doors open all day though had to wedge them because it was a bit windy, what my late mother called 'a good drying day'. I've had to water my fledgling baskets even, last year's fuchsia are starting to grow again even though they were out all winter.

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 23:15

Jellykat · 08/04/2024 23:14

They dont have the storage facilities apparently..

They should flipping well invest in some then. Utterly ludicrous!

Plumeface · 08/04/2024 23:15

JudgeJ · 08/04/2024 23:14

I don't know where you all are but today has been glorious, back doors open all day though had to wedge them because it was a bit windy, what my late mother called 'a good drying day'. I've had to water my fledgling baskets even, last year's fuchsia are starting to grow again even though they were out all winter.

I'm in Bristol and it was drizzly nearly all day.

TheCheekyKoala · 08/04/2024 23:18

Plumeface · 08/04/2024 23:15

I'm in Bristol and it was drizzly nearly all day.

I’m also in Bristol and it defo wasn’t
drizzly all day. I was walking around the city centre for over an hour at lunch time ish and it didn’t rain at all in that time and the floor was dry so it didn’t rain before that. I didn’t wear a coat and can remember thinking how nice it was.

FishCoral · 08/04/2024 23:18

lorn195 · 08/04/2024 23:03

I'm in Cornwall and the wind has definitely picked up and howling outside. Could be a long night.

Me too - I can’t get to sleep because of the wind and rain, and I think something just hit our upstairs window… I dread to think what I’ll see in the morning, it must be blowing from the sea as I don’t remember hearing so much noise before. We live in well insulated house that has thick walls and small windows.. but it still sounds as if they are going to blow in!

Our dog was straight back in after his evening wee, even he looked shocked 😂

HauntedBungalow · 08/04/2024 23:19

SabreIsMyFave · 08/04/2024 22:27

@Wildgeen · Today 21:35

Thankfully I don’t know anyone like this in IRL 😂

Well exactly. I don't know a single soul in real life who just LOVES the shitty cold windy rainy weather, and especially not in the middle of SPRING. The type of weather that stops you doing fuck-all. NO-ONE likes it. NO-ONE says 'oooh ... but jigsaws, snuggles on the sofa, board games, big cosy jumpers, and HOT CHOCOLATE!' in real life ... NO-ONE!!! Hmm

Yes exactly 💯

Similarly, no one in the world ever thought "Ooh, the kids are off school next week. Let's book a flight to the UK so we can wear kagools and carry fucking thermos flasks around in damp rucksacks. That's much more fun than going to the Mediterranean coast."

NoisySnail · 08/04/2024 23:20

TheCheekyKoala · 08/04/2024 23:12

I don’t think it’s actually been that bad.
Yeh it’s wet some days but today was fine, it rained for a short amount of time and then it brightened up.

Some days!!
I have no idea where you are but where I am it sodding pours down virtually every day. The air feels so damp. I just want the rain to bleeding stop.

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