To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment?

[Biggybigbiggles]

Just that really... mine is that I feel frumpy and ugly. Having always been tiny, I've gotten to 30 and I suddenly just feel disgusted with what I see any time someone takes a photo of me.

If you could click your fingers and remove a problem you have, what would it be?

A big hand hold to you all.

This!

I'm suffering from withdrawal from Oxycodone. I've been on it for 3 months due to a bad dose of shingles. I've been reducing slowly but took my last dose yesterday.

I desperately want to change my job, I've been looking for 6 months now.

I don't want to swap my problem with others though. I don't live in a war zone, don't have cancer, quite like my body, and noone has died recently.

The amount of hair I've pulled out recently :(

My life is a total failure,

Money worries and the effect that that is having on DH.

How come you're using annual leave for sick leave?

My son,it's always been my son.

Also the house still needs a ridiculous amount of work more than twenty years after we moved in.

My little pot belly. 😔Hoping it disappears over the next couple of months!

Rectal prolapse and being told there's not much I can do about it

No pension provision

Hrt no longer working

Big toe nail has fallen off so I've not only got a manky arsehole, but manky feet as well.

@GreekGod London is actually really safe. Your dd is not any more likely to encounter crime in London than anywhere else. The knife crime you read about, while terrible, is not really random. I speak as a very protective mother of an 18 year old dd in London!

Diagnosed with breast cancer today and thinking the worst

House repossession.

My mum died recently, I wish I could speak to her one more time. She was my world and I feel so sad my heart keeps hurting like a physical pain

Feeling frumpy and ugly at 30, it will only get much worse, lol!?
Right now I guess fear for my mum's health.
Other than that I'm really lucky. Roof over my head, not dying imminently, can afford to feed myself.
My looks are something I've realised are simply unimportant. If your body works, that's the most relevant thing.

Marriage woes
Depression
Weight
Money or lack of

Wishing you well. Cancer sucks 🌷

Damage from my cancer treatment that affects me every day.
Fear of the bloody thing recurring.
DH health
Money

My relationship with my dh is all kinds of fucked up but I don’t have the balls to leave

my dd is living with a drug dealer and my nerves are shredded

(name changed for obvious reasons)

I'm always skint. Everytime I get a "pay rise", my rent or some other bill goes up to wipe out the increase.
"Have you thought about retraining?" Yes, I have retrained in a better paid career but the problem is everything has gone up so much, there probably wasn't any point in bothering (yes, I know I'm being a negative Nelly).
The plan for retraining was to be able to afford a small house but that's out of the window with the cost of living crisis. The new plan is to strive to keep my head above water.
Right now, I'm getting into debt each month as I'm reliant on credit cards.
And that's with a part time job in addition to my full time job.
I'm a single parent with one child and the other parent pays a pittance in child maintenance (all he can afford to be fair).
I'm on the waiting list for an ADHD assessment. If I'm lucky, I'll only be waiting 18 months and then another 6 or 7 months for medication.

Everything is fucking shit!!!

But I try my best to keep going and keep making the best of things.

Take my cancer away.

Health concerns.

Hugs to everyone struggling 💕 xx

Sons suidice death and alcoholism

I’m the only one in my family who is fit and healthy. My dad has terminal cancer. My mum is suddenly becoming frail, permanently affected by various minor things and obsessed with her own health, and my brothers have serious life-limiting conditions. My in-laws have all retreated into themselves and don’t want to know since COVID. My husband has had depression and anxiety for years, and he’s trying so hard and is much better, but he has his moments still. So it’s just me being the strong one. It’s lonely.

I'm so sorry x