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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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Mookie81 · 06/04/2024 21:08

Finlesswonder · 06/04/2024 18:28

I'm going to stick my neck out and say that the UK is one of the least if not the least racist countries in the world

😂😂😂😂...oh, you're serious?

Soigneur · 06/04/2024 21:10

godlikeAI · 06/04/2024 20:55

@PressureLikeATickTickTick you do realise that being married to a Black person does not automatically mean you aren’t racist?

Surely it does though? Just like being married to a woman means you can’t possibly be a misogynist?

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 21:12

Soigneur · 06/04/2024 21:10

Surely it does though? Just like being married to a woman means you can’t possibly be a misogynist?

Ha, quite!

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:14

SpidersAreShitheads · 06/04/2024 21:03

In fairness, I’ve only seen a small amount of the PR so my perception may be skewed. I no longer live in London and I’m not black so when I’ve seen it mentioned, I’ve just skimmed past. I’m not scandalised or upset by the notion, but neither am I their target audience so I’ve not given it much headspace until this post.

I’d be really supportive of reaching out to groups and organisations to try and reach the target audience, in this case black theatre goers. I think positive encouragement is what’s needed - a message that this event IS for you etc. It’s essential to consider what the real barriers might be, and work to overcome those.

But I can’t get behind a simultaneous message of exclusion even if it’s well-intentioned unless it’s a safety issue (regardless of what group it’s aimed at). For example, at events like Let Women Speak I’d be happy to see supportive men there too, providing the focus remained on women’s voices. I think saying “don’t come” to anyone other than the target audience is unnecessary and divisive and detracts from the intention of uplifting the main group, black theatregoers in this example.

Happy to agree to disagree on this point.

That's fair enough if you would like men at a 'Let Women Speak' event, I wouldn't like that at all really.

And that's absolutely OK.

As long as there is choice which there is here. White people are being encouraged to go on another day, of which there are many, not told outright they shouldn't, just asked.

JudgeJ · 06/04/2024 21:16

zurg123 · 06/04/2024 13:39

I support black out nights.

I don't support anything that is not inclusive. Can we say that only Danes can watch Hamlet etc.?

JudgeJ · 06/04/2024 21:17

Mookie81 · 06/04/2024 21:08

😂😂😂😂...oh, you're serious?

Actually one of the most intelligent comments, people need to get around more.

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 21:18

No it's racist. "Lets have a whites only night" yeh like anyone is ever going to say.

I come from a white working class West country background...apart from "outlaws" on BBC when do you ever see me portrayed on tv. Less than 1/2% of my school year went to university....I'm seen as what the yanks call a redneck. I open my mouth and I am a yokle...there ain't theatre nights for us...

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 21:19

JudgeJ · 06/04/2024 21:16

I don't support anything that is not inclusive. Can we say that only Danes can watch Hamlet etc.?

Do you honestly think that's even remotely comparable?

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/04/2024 21:20

I'm still wondering how white people are losing out, being disadvantaged or otherwise negatively impacted by being asked to consider leaving a handful of evenings for a non white audience?

How does it hurt us to respect this small gesture?

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:24

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 21:18

No it's racist. "Lets have a whites only night" yeh like anyone is ever going to say.

I come from a white working class West country background...apart from "outlaws" on BBC when do you ever see me portrayed on tv. Less than 1/2% of my school year went to university....I'm seen as what the yanks call a redneck. I open my mouth and I am a yokle...there ain't theatre nights for us...

No it's not racist. Asking a group to go another of the many, many nights for the comfort of a minority group isn't racist at all.

You think white, British working class people are under represented? 🤣

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:30

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:24

No it's not racist. Asking a group to go another of the many, many nights for the comfort of a minority group isn't racist at all.

You think white, British working class people are under represented? 🤣

It is tbh.

curiositykilledthiscat · 06/04/2024 21:31

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:24

No it's not racist. Asking a group to go another of the many, many nights for the comfort of a minority group isn't racist at all.

You think white, British working class people are under represented? 🤣

Wrap it up any way you want, but it’s exclusion and we all know it.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:31

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:30

It is tbh.

No, it really isn't.

Mrttyl · 06/04/2024 21:31

I think it is all bit patronising and cringy.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:31

curiositykilledthiscat · 06/04/2024 21:31

Wrap it up any way you want, but it’s exclusion and we all know it.

Who is excluded?

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:33

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:31

No, it really isn't.

No, it really is!

Jesus!!!

ThomasinaLivesHere · 06/04/2024 21:36

The way some speak it’s as if all black people have ancestors who were slaves which isn’t the case.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:36

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:33

No, it really is!

Jesus!!!

Nobody is being excluded, some people are asked to be mindful of a minority group who may wish to have a shared experience for a couple of nights.

Where's the racism?

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 21:37

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:24

No it's not racist. Asking a group to go another of the many, many nights for the comfort of a minority group isn't racist at all.

You think white, British working class people are under represented? 🤣

Yes we are..where are we on the bbc news, the houses of parliament (both houses), only 16% of white working class boys go to university against 32% of black working class boys.
Since Labour killed the grammer school system...white working class social mobility has died
Listen to radio 4 how many Indian names do you hear working behind the scenes? Where are the captain mainwearings, the Alan Bennett's? Boys who worked hard and pulled themselves up both functionally and really

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:41

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 21:37

Yes we are..where are we on the bbc news, the houses of parliament (both houses), only 16% of white working class boys go to university against 32% of black working class boys.
Since Labour killed the grammer school system...white working class social mobility has died
Listen to radio 4 how many Indian names do you hear working behind the scenes? Where are the captain mainwearings, the Alan Bennett's? Boys who worked hard and pulled themselves up both functionally and really

You go right ahead and carefully choose your statistics....

Going on about Indian people who work at radio 4 just shows exactly what you're getting at.

Tygers · 06/04/2024 21:47

SpidersAreShitheads · 06/04/2024 19:55

My initial instinct is that it’s divisive, or at least the way it’s being deliberately marketed is. I think a message that’s particularly encouraging one group to attend is fine, but on this occasion they’re simultaneously asking another group not to attend (although they won’t actually bar them if they turn up). That’s the bit that sits somewhat awkwardly with me.

I’ve been reading all the views carefully here as I’m keen to properly understand the opposing view. I’m well aware that I may not be understanding all sides fully. There have been some really interesting comments, which have been helpful and quite enlightening in helping to see things a different way.

Also, what I struggle to understand is why slavery is considered to be a black issue when many white people were enslaved too? And why are people today so affected when it’s described as “ancestral” - and many people may not even know if their own ancestors were slaves?

And with all that in mind, why would a black audience need a space away from white people? Unless the suggestion is that white people today are still being held accountable for ancestral crimes? I can think of many examples where an exclusive space for black people might be necessary, but I can’t see how this is one?

Im certainly not trying to say “white lives matter” and I hope that isn’t how it comes across! I’m just trying to understand what I’m missing.

For context, I’m autistic and sometimes miss the obvious so just want to emphasise my questions are genuine and well-intentioned, if maybe stupid 🫣

Asking white people not to go feels the opposite of uplifting black people which many people have said is the point.

There have been some really useful comparisons on this thread re single sex spaces.

My example - if was a play that was directly relevant to the autistic community it would be great to see a real drive to encourage autistic people to attend. And I’d expect the show to amplify autistic voices, and feature performances from autistic people. I wouldn’t expect neurotypical people to be discouraged from attending, nor explicitly told to book tickets for another night. I think that’s maybe my issue with this - possibly it’s the marketing that I object to? I absolutely understand the need to encourage more diverse audiences and to emphasise that the theatre is for everyone. I’m just not sure that excluding another group is the way to do it.*

*I know white people wont actually be turned away but the marketing basically ask them not to come.

It’s because it’s a culture that has been imported from America, where black slavery occurred almost within living memory. In the UK our relationship with slavery is completely different but everyone is jumping on the bandwagon.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:49

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:36

Nobody is being excluded, some people are asked to be mindful of a minority group who may wish to have a shared experience for a couple of nights.

Where's the racism?

"Nobody is being excluded" of course not, legally, but the intention is there and you know it!

"A West End theatre production about race, identity and sexuality in twenty-first century America will be exclusively performed for a white-only audience on certain days to protect them from "the black gaze".

☝️ but this stated in the media would immediately be racist to black people, would it not?????

GinForBreakfast · 06/04/2024 21:50

If you read the thread, British people are not banned from those performances.

I read the thread. My point was pretty clear from my post, maybe re-read it?

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:55

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:49

"Nobody is being excluded" of course not, legally, but the intention is there and you know it!

"A West End theatre production about race, identity and sexuality in twenty-first century America will be exclusively performed for a white-only audience on certain days to protect them from "the black gaze".

☝️ but this stated in the media would immediately be racist to black people, would it not?????

Edited

"the purposeful creation of an environment in which an all-Black-identifying audience can experience and discuss an event in the performing arts, film, athletic, and cultural spaces – free from the white gaze,”

Wasn't exactly what you said there now, was it.

The fact you had to change it up a bit means you know you're wrong.

It's not racist that a group of people wish to get together and experience something that effects them, no.

You really need to look at why you're so upset about this (I already know the answer).

GinForBreakfast · 06/04/2024 21:56

@Tygers makes a good point. Racism has different origins and implications in the UK than the USA. Importing American solutions to UK racism is not going to work.

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