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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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JudgeJ · 06/04/2024 21:58

curiositykilledthiscat · 06/04/2024 21:31

Wrap it up any way you want, but it’s exclusion and we all know it.

Sadly it's the acceptable face of discrimination for many hypocrites.

PlasticOno · 06/04/2024 22:03

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:49

"Nobody is being excluded" of course not, legally, but the intention is there and you know it!

"A West End theatre production about race, identity and sexuality in twenty-first century America will be exclusively performed for a white-only audience on certain days to protect them from "the black gaze".

☝️ but this stated in the media would immediately be racist to black people, would it not?????

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Maybe consider the power differential involved, and the ways in which the ‘white gaze’ and ‘the black gaze’ are not structurally equivalent? Ditto the ‘female gaze’ and ‘the male gaze’.

Prawncow · 06/04/2024 22:05

I’m not in any way offended by ‘black out’ nights. I agree with the poster who said that having all female audience nights would be good for some plays. Shared vulnerabilities and shared experiences.

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:06

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 21:49

"Nobody is being excluded" of course not, legally, but the intention is there and you know it!

"A West End theatre production about race, identity and sexuality in twenty-first century America will be exclusively performed for a white-only audience on certain days to protect them from "the black gaze".

☝️ but this stated in the media would immediately be racist to black people, would it not?????

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Yes, it would be racist.

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:08

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:55

"the purposeful creation of an environment in which an all-Black-identifying audience can experience and discuss an event in the performing arts, film, athletic, and cultural spaces – free from the white gaze,”

Wasn't exactly what you said there now, was it.

The fact you had to change it up a bit means you know you're wrong.

It's not racist that a group of people wish to get together and experience something that effects them, no.

You really need to look at why you're so upset about this (I already know the answer).

See? your reply just about sums it all up. One rule blady blah. The intention is there and you know it.

You really need to look at why you're so upset about this (I already know the answer).

Sounds like you're the one who's really upset by this.

The fact you had to change it up a bit means you know you're wrong.

Actually, I know I'm right. I changed it up "a bit" to show the difference on perception of the colours being swapped.

You really need to look at why your so triggered by my replies (I already know the answer😉)

ThomasinaLivesHere · 06/04/2024 22:09

Perhaps people go to the theatre for different reasons. I’ve never thought of other audience members much unless they’re on their phones or generally being annoying. I certainly don’t feel connected to them in some shared experience. If I wanted that I’d go to some support group or such like.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:09

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Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:10

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/04/2024 14:36

Say there's a play about domestic abuse and gaslighting, a very difficult one to watch because the male actor is brilliant (perhaps from experience as a child, hopefully not that he's actually abusive himself in his intimate relationships) at portraying the body language, the swings in sound from quiet to towering over the other actor and bellowing at the top of his voice. You're surrounded by blokes who are there to be seen as worthy or for entertainment.

You then exit the auditorium and hear loud men who were fiddling with their phones, eating crisps, constantly getting up through the performance to go to the toilet and making others get up to facilitate them talking about how she was provoking the male actor, how it's not really like that, that it's what it used to be like in Victorian times, but no respectable man would ever do that in reality now and it's women who are abusive. They're not moving out of your way, they're occupying all the space and drowning out the quiet distress of the female theatregoer who didn't think it would affect them that much, but seeing it on stage, the visceral reaction to the performance meant that she needed people around her to have an understanding of her distress that she's trying to hide because well, that's what you do, you hide the fear, the abuse, the threat. But she's surrounded, her personal space intruded on, by people who aren't her ex/her father behaving similarly in it not affecting them, that was then, it wouldn't really happen like that, it's not that bad, that was boring and too worthy, adding selfies to their Tinder profile so any woman swiping by will see that they're Good Guys (TM), completely oblivious. And if she mentions it somewhere on social media, maybe somewhere like Mumsnet that she'd have preferred an all female audience, she'll be inundated with NAMALT, Not My Nigel, Have you considered therapy, See a doctor, you're just a Misandrist, etc.

That's why.

Is this how you think white people will behave in the audience of the Slave Play?

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:11

ThomasinaLivesHere · 06/04/2024 22:09

Perhaps people go to the theatre for different reasons. I’ve never thought of other audience members much unless they’re on their phones or generally being annoying. I certainly don’t feel connected to them in some shared experience. If I wanted that I’d go to some support group or such like.

I actually think the shared experience is quite an important aspect of live theatre. But each to their own?

Spudthespanner · 06/04/2024 22:13

It's bullshit created by people who quite like segregating themselves and want more of it. Perpetual victimhood.

StarlightLime · 06/04/2024 22:14

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 14:04

But very few do because they find theatres uninclusive. White audiecnes assume they are included, many minorities dont feel they are- and Black out Nights are meant to encourage black audiences to feel included and potentially frequent spaces mroe often.

This sounds like nonsense. Why would any non white person feel they're "not welcome" to book a seat at the theatre?
Theatres are perfectly inclusive; literally anyone can go.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:21

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:06

Yes, it would be racist.

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

Probably half the people on this thread do not "study" history, so your comment here is pretty flippant. Black History is not the only history, although you'd think it was given the responses to some of these comments.

We all know about black oppression, but you're completely missing the whole point.

If you think you're not, then like I've said before, listen to Candace Owens.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:22

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So you piss yourself off then? 😘 bless you, I'll pray for you🙏HTH😉

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 22:23

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:41

You go right ahead and carefully choose your statistics....

Going on about Indian people who work at radio 4 just shows exactly what you're getting at.

Yes what I am going on about is there are lots of programmes on R4 about India...dramas recorded there...where are the Chinese, African, Latin America programmes.
where are the stories about Somerset, dorset...the Scottish plays? Sunderland and Carlisle, Ipswich and Norwich. Where are the guys with my accent reading the gurt lush news...why ain't we talking about daps and dapping down the village.
you don't even know what I am talking about but I bet you know about Bollywood films and bangra music

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:23

Fairyliz · 06/04/2024 15:37

Can anyone explain why black people feel the theatre is not for them?
I regularly go to the theatre and would say about 20% of performers are black which is a lot more than the general population.
So if you can see people like you on stage why not buy a ticket and go?

I expect it’s to do with the stories being told. I’ve been to plays where there are more black people in the cast than in the audience. I’ve also been to plays such as Grenfell and Trouble in Mind where there were lots of black people in the audience. I also directed a play called Windrush generations which brought larger numbers of black people to my very white theatre in a very white city than ever before.

We need to be telling black stories as well as white stories and we absolutely need to find ways of making the theatre financially accessible to poorer people of all ethnicities. Anything else is lip service.

SammyScrounge · 06/04/2024 22:24

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 13:14

If black performers and/or theatre-goers feel that it's important to have Black Out nights in a play about slavery, then I don't think it's my place as a white person to question that.

Excuse me, but everyone has the right to question any group's activity or ideas. They may come away convinced by a group or they may not but they should not disqualify themselves from thinking on the grounds of colour.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:25

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:22

So you piss yourself off then? 😘 bless you, I'll pray for you🙏HTH😉

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I'm not the one getting all of a fluster because some black people may wish to go to the theatre together.

The mental gymnastics you're doing there are quite impressive, I must say.

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:26

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 15:21

That's why I said some black people. I am aware that black people are not one homogeneous group and I have already acknowledged further up this thread that some black people might prefer to attend one of the regular performances instead. And of course, some black people might not be interested in watching it at all.

All I'm saying is that, if there are black people who would welcome the opportunity to watch this play in a audience that only includes other black people, then I think it's right that they should have the opportunity to do so. If the theatre doesn't manage to sell enough tickets, that's their loss.

Some women don't seem to care about single sex spaces. That's fair enough, they are entitled to feel whatever they feel. But their lack of interest in single sex spaces doesn't invalidate my belief that such spaces can sometimes be very valuable.

What about black people who not only don’t want to go to a black only night, but actually feel that the idea is divisive and regressive? Do they have a say?

HorribleHisTories15 · 06/04/2024 22:26

@Medschoolmum and @mids2019 the Jewish theatre in Berlin, and a few others have** had offered closed events to those of Jewish ancestry. Quite rightly too

Link:

djthe.de/index.php

And it has been spoken about at length with ample support and praise on HR2 Kultur (like BBC Radio 4 extra and Radio 3).

www.hr-inforadio.de/podcast/kulturlust/juedisches-theater-frankfurt,podcast-episode-128806.html

There are other performance companies who have done similar things in mainland Europe.

Can't remember where and when I heard another radio programme discussing something by a lady of Traveller heritage who was planning or had done something exactly like this to talk about the experiences of her community.

GRex · 06/04/2024 22:28

SpidersAreShitheads · 06/04/2024 19:55

My initial instinct is that it’s divisive, or at least the way it’s being deliberately marketed is. I think a message that’s particularly encouraging one group to attend is fine, but on this occasion they’re simultaneously asking another group not to attend (although they won’t actually bar them if they turn up). That’s the bit that sits somewhat awkwardly with me.

I’ve been reading all the views carefully here as I’m keen to properly understand the opposing view. I’m well aware that I may not be understanding all sides fully. There have been some really interesting comments, which have been helpful and quite enlightening in helping to see things a different way.

Also, what I struggle to understand is why slavery is considered to be a black issue when many white people were enslaved too? And why are people today so affected when it’s described as “ancestral” - and many people may not even know if their own ancestors were slaves?

And with all that in mind, why would a black audience need a space away from white people? Unless the suggestion is that white people today are still being held accountable for ancestral crimes? I can think of many examples where an exclusive space for black people might be necessary, but I can’t see how this is one?

Im certainly not trying to say “white lives matter” and I hope that isn’t how it comes across! I’m just trying to understand what I’m missing.

For context, I’m autistic and sometimes miss the obvious so just want to emphasise my questions are genuine and well-intentioned, if maybe stupid 🫣

Asking white people not to go feels the opposite of uplifting black people which many people have said is the point.

There have been some really useful comparisons on this thread re single sex spaces.

My example - if was a play that was directly relevant to the autistic community it would be great to see a real drive to encourage autistic people to attend. And I’d expect the show to amplify autistic voices, and feature performances from autistic people. I wouldn’t expect neurotypical people to be discouraged from attending, nor explicitly told to book tickets for another night. I think that’s maybe my issue with this - possibly it’s the marketing that I object to? I absolutely understand the need to encourage more diverse audiences and to emphasise that the theatre is for everyone. I’m just not sure that excluding another group is the way to do it.*

*I know white people wont actually be turned away but the marketing basically ask them not to come.

Ironically, you'll find most theatres do offer at least one "relaxed" autism friendly showing, for almost every production. Sonetimes a weekly relaxed session when it's kid shows.

Think of it as an extra showing to INCLUDE those who might not have otherwise gone, rather than excluding others (who are not barred and can attend).

IDontHateRainbows · 06/04/2024 22:28

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:10

Is this how you think white people will behave in the audience of the Slave Play?

I'm more concerned this is how she thinks male people would behave at the hypothetical performance in her post.

rayro2 · 06/04/2024 22:30

This makes me uncomfortable, Im mixed race and was bought up in a “white cultured” household which u guess could make a difference. If I want to go to the theatre then I’ll go, don’t care who is sat around me!

Maybe I’m missing something but I hate anything divisive

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:30

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 22:23

Yes what I am going on about is there are lots of programmes on R4 about India...dramas recorded there...where are the Chinese, African, Latin America programmes.
where are the stories about Somerset, dorset...the Scottish plays? Sunderland and Carlisle, Ipswich and Norwich. Where are the guys with my accent reading the gurt lush news...why ain't we talking about daps and dapping down the village.
you don't even know what I am talking about but I bet you know about Bollywood films and bangra music

I can't comment on R4 because I don't listen to it.

However you have no idea where I'm from, what I know about, what I listen to, what I watch, what my heratige is or anything else.

It's abundantly clear that you dislike Indian people though. I have absolutely no idea why you keep bringing it up though, it's just making you look racist honestly.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:32

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:25

I'm not the one getting all of a fluster because some black people may wish to go to the theatre together.

The mental gymnastics you're doing there are quite impressive, I must say.

Ok👍🏽 you keep telling yourself that.

And yeah, I am pretty impressive, thanks😘

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:35

valensiwalensi · 06/04/2024 16:29

Yes they are so important and needed!!!

so many butt hurt white feelings - so predictable.

its so funny how white people view equality as them losing something.

No I don’t think that’s what people are saying. Most people objecting are saying they think it’s divisive and not a good way forward. Not that they are missing out.