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Any other Christians annoyed at what society has turned Easter into?

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Opol · 31/03/2024 14:20

I’m resigned that the same has been done to Christmas. But for me that is “only” the birth of Christ.

As a Roman Catholic, Easter is of far more importance to me. For me, God’s love for humanity meant he sacrificed his only son. Jesus’ resurrection is literally the embodiment of the victory of light over darkness, good over evil etc.

I don’t wish to gate keep but seeing it reduced to Easter baskets and chocolate rabbits is unpleasant to witness. I’m more annoyed at society making everything hollow and superficial via consumerism and over consumption.

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89redballoons · 01/04/2024 12:31

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:04

Pagans aren't monopolising but saying that elements of pagan festivals were used when Christianity was taking over. Plenty of people in the southern hemisphere celebrate a Christian Easter when it's not spring, should they not be allowed?

Of course Christians in the Southern Hemisphere are allowed to celebrate Easter. Why on earth would I say they wouldn't (and why would they listen to me if I did)?!

The OP started a thread about how Easter has become commercialised and devoid of any spiritual meaning, Christian or otherwise. Several posters then (some in quite a rude way) posted very similar variations on "well, Christianity incorporated various elements of pre-Christian springtime festivals" as if that's some kind of gotcha. I am trying to explain as a Christian that yes, we know, and celebrating spring is part of my religion too.

Anyway, as I have said, you do you. Happy Easter, spring equinox celebration, Ostara, four day bank holiday piss-up, or whatever you are celebrating.

cakeorwine · 01/04/2024 12:33

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 01/04/2024 12:29

No I taught them fact.
Are you saying what I said was wrong?

Do you make sure you teach your children the violence committed under the church?
Or do you indoctrinate them and only cherry pick the pretty bits and miss out how the story really started?

I wonder how many Christians in the UK are aware of the history of Christianity in the UK and all the things that happened in the UK in the name of Christianity - especially depending what sect you belonged to.

*See my previous list

ImInTheBathRightNow · 01/04/2024 12:33

Geotheanum · 01/04/2024 12:30

What an odd comment to make when it was in fact you that said it wasn’t any of PPs business 😳🤣.
Thats more like ‘police’ speak

What? I said how other people worship isn’t any of her business. It’s not. How other people worship their personal deities is no one’s business but their own. As many have repeated on this thread. How I worship is personal to me and no one else needs to insult it because it’s nothing to do with them.

How bizarre to argue that people should have to share their personal beliefs with everyone else?

Runaway1 · 01/04/2024 12:35

I’m more bothered by the RC oppression of women and kids, tbh.

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:40

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 01/04/2024 12:29

No I taught them fact.
Are you saying what I said was wrong?

Do you make sure you teach your children the violence committed under the church?
Or do you indoctrinate them and only cherry pick the pretty bits and miss out how the story really started?

This is literally teaching kids correct history 👏🏻 mine will learn the same. If they get to learn about other religions in school they'll for sure be learning the true history of Christianity and it's origins as well as the true history of paganism and how to continue to practice it nowadays

ShinenKan · 01/04/2024 12:40

Interesting article on Exodus and slavery.
I can’t remember who first brought it up or I’d tag.
Apologies OP for a bit of a detail here.
Its worth reading to the end for a sort of modern day comparison.

Any other Christians annoyed at what society has turned Easter into?
Any other Christians annoyed at what society has turned Easter into?
DanielGault · 01/04/2024 12:41

Runaway1 · 01/04/2024 12:35

I’m more bothered by the RC oppression of women and kids, tbh.

Funny the way that's being massively glossed over isn't it? Where is the Christianity in exporting babies, imprisoning mothers, slave labour. Where the fuck is it? Where is the Christianity in making a rape victim keep their unwanted baby? Why do these people feel so 'right' in their beliefs?

benefitstaxcredithelp · 01/04/2024 12:42

MariaVT65 · 01/04/2024 05:40

Less than half the population are now Christian, so not sure why you’re surprised tbh.

And of that half, most of that 40% are over the age of 50 (see the 2021 census data).

This demonstrates how Christianity here is on the way out. It just does not resonate or mean anything to most younger Brits now.

Celebrating the seasons, nature, family, ancient symbolism and our beautiful land is much more meaningful to most younger Brits 🥰

MintCocoa · 01/04/2024 12:43

ExSJA · 01/04/2024 09:51

What an utterly hideous concept. Born with sin? It’s borderline abusive.

No. It’s a metaphor. A reminder that we are neither perfect nor infallible. And that we should always question ourselves and do not elevate ourselves above others.

Not all denominations teach that we are born with a sin, btw, but this is the meaning of it.

History teaches us that great atrocities are usually committed when people decide they have all the answers and stop questioning themselves. This is why pride is one of the 7 deadly sins.

upthehills1 · 01/04/2024 12:44

DanielGault · 01/04/2024 12:41

Funny the way that's being massively glossed over isn't it? Where is the Christianity in exporting babies, imprisoning mothers, slave labour. Where the fuck is it? Where is the Christianity in making a rape victim keep their unwanted baby? Why do these people feel so 'right' in their beliefs?

This is why I worship the Easter Bunny only

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:44

benefitstaxcredithelp · 01/04/2024 12:42

And of that half, most of that 40% are over the age of 50 (see the 2021 census data).

This demonstrates how Christianity here is on the way out. It just does not resonate or mean anything to most younger Brits now.

Celebrating the seasons, nature, family, ancient symbolism and our beautiful land is much more meaningful to most younger Brits 🥰

Absolutely. It's almost as if we're going back to our pre Christianity roots, I see so many more people doing this rather than blindly following the church

DanielGault · 01/04/2024 12:44

upthehills1 · 01/04/2024 12:44

This is why I worship the Easter Bunny only

Enjoy 😍

ShinenKan · 01/04/2024 12:46

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:40

This is literally teaching kids correct history 👏🏻 mine will learn the same. If they get to learn about other religions in school they'll for sure be learning the true history of Christianity and it's origins as well as the true history of paganism and how to continue to practice it nowadays

There’s a lot of violence committed in the name of nearly all religions including Paganism
A lot of violence is still being committed in the name of religion to this very day.

Its up to everyone what they want their kids to learn and understand but important I think not to cherry pick just one religion.

DanielGault · 01/04/2024 12:49

ShinenKan · 01/04/2024 12:46

There’s a lot of violence committed in the name of nearly all religions including Paganism
A lot of violence is still being committed in the name of religion to this very day.

Its up to everyone what they want their kids to learn and understand but important I think not to cherry pick just one religion.

That's all well and good until it's state imposed. And tbh, I think it's a bit of a cop out tbh.

1dayatatime · 01/04/2024 12:49

@ImInTheBathRightNow

"I disagree. I found what she said insulting and as this is MN, as you say, I can express that. It’s a debate, this is my opinion, dint try and be the thread police"

OK - so only your opinion is valid and all other opinions are insulting and @Justpontificating post is dismissed as "thread police".

That is not an accepted definition of debate.

Theedgeoftheabyss · 01/04/2024 12:52

Opol · 31/03/2024 14:20

I’m resigned that the same has been done to Christmas. But for me that is “only” the birth of Christ.

As a Roman Catholic, Easter is of far more importance to me. For me, God’s love for humanity meant he sacrificed his only son. Jesus’ resurrection is literally the embodiment of the victory of light over darkness, good over evil etc.

I don’t wish to gate keep but seeing it reduced to Easter baskets and chocolate rabbits is unpleasant to witness. I’m more annoyed at society making everything hollow and superficial via consumerism and over consumption.

The Romans co opted Eostre, the pagan goddess of fertility and rebirth for their own ends.....

EasternEcho · 01/04/2024 12:52

Justpontificating · 01/04/2024 12:26

I disagree.
PP picked out a particularly ( these days) shocking extract from Exodus as an example that Christian values are shocking.
The result sounds shocking that Christians would ‘follow’ such a thing and yet failed to mention, conveniently, that Exodus is Old Testament and so not unique to Christianity but also Judaism.

No I didn't. My post had two distinct paragraph. First of all, my post was in reply to another PP who pointed out that slavery was mentioned in the bible. I pointed out a specific section in the bible. The second paragraph referred to Christian values being interesting, since no-one can agree on what these values are. I hope that is clear.

I understood this thread to be about Christianity and not about analyizing all other religions for whataboutisms.

MintCocoa · 01/04/2024 12:53

EasternEcho · 01/04/2024 11:31

@Otherstories2002 You're right. In fact the bible has specific requirements for selling your daughter into slavery. Exodus 21:7 - “When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are.

These Christian values are rather interesting when you start really looking into it.

It’s a historical record of how things were at the time. Nothing more. Hadith tells us that the Great Prophet married a 9-year-old child. Also a sign of the times.

Plus, this is from the Old Testament- this part of the Scripture is similar in all three Abrahamic religions.

Christianity has the New Testament where Jesus parts with the old ways. This is where Christianity is different.

cakeorwine · 01/04/2024 12:54

MintCocoa · 01/04/2024 12:53

It’s a historical record of how things were at the time. Nothing more. Hadith tells us that the Great Prophet married a 9-year-old child. Also a sign of the times.

Plus, this is from the Old Testament- this part of the Scripture is similar in all three Abrahamic religions.

Christianity has the New Testament where Jesus parts with the old ways. This is where Christianity is different.

Edited

See - I am not sure how much Christianity does part.

This is based on a recent thread.

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 01/04/2024 12:55

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:40

This is literally teaching kids correct history 👏🏻 mine will learn the same. If they get to learn about other religions in school they'll for sure be learning the true history of Christianity and it's origins as well as the true history of paganism and how to continue to practice it nowadays

I'd love for that poster to come back and explain how I'm in the wrong.
But I bet they won't be able to accurately defend it.

Always hilarious how atheists are indoctrinating our children by teaching them the truth and not allowing them to be bullied through life by the belief of a misogynistic evil being in the sky who judges people on how much they worship him.

ImInTheBathRightNow · 01/04/2024 12:56

1dayatatime · 01/04/2024 12:49

@ImInTheBathRightNow

"I disagree. I found what she said insulting and as this is MN, as you say, I can express that. It’s a debate, this is my opinion, dint try and be the thread police"

OK - so only your opinion is valid and all other opinions are insulting and @Justpontificating post is dismissed as "thread police".

That is not an accepted definition of debate.

Except I haven’t said that. You said you piece, I responded. I did y say you couldn’t post online, I said I found what you said offensive and that it wasn’t your right to know how other people worship if they worship privately. That person interjected and I said they were trying to police my response because they were trying to tell me what I was and wasn’t allowed to post. I stand by the fact that how others privately worship is no one else’s business

EasternEcho · 01/04/2024 12:58

@mintcocoa There's some difficulty in thrashing this issue without taking into account the context of all what I've said previously on the debate about "Christian values". Slavery may have been mentioned in the old testament, but it was definitely practiced by "Christians" in a relatively not too distant past.

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 12:58

Wibblywobblylikejelly · 01/04/2024 12:55

I'd love for that poster to come back and explain how I'm in the wrong.
But I bet they won't be able to accurately defend it.

Always hilarious how atheists are indoctrinating our children by teaching them the truth and not allowing them to be bullied through life by the belief of a misogynistic evil being in the sky who judges people on how much they worship him.

Me too! I don't know how you can argue with teaching kids correct history, that way they have a full picture of what has happened and not some state biased version of it.

Prunesqualler · 01/04/2024 13:01

DanielGault · 01/04/2024 12:41

Funny the way that's being massively glossed over isn't it? Where is the Christianity in exporting babies, imprisoning mothers, slave labour. Where the fuck is it? Where is the Christianity in making a rape victim keep their unwanted baby? Why do these people feel so 'right' in their beliefs?

I’m far more bothered by the current oppression of women and kids by countries and religions that are currently far far more oppressive and always have been.

Its worth mentioning as an aside the ‘Magdalene hospitals’ you’re referencing didn’t act in isolation. Parents didn’t want their pregnant unmarried daughters in their homes, in those days it brought shame on the family. The families wanted rid of the babies and clearly some sort of punishment for the girls. It’s also worth mentioning there was no state support and no jobs available for unmarried mothers so if the family didn’t want you it was the streets or the church.
There was both a lack of Choice and humanity by both Christians, non Christians and the State.

Its worth pointing out that many cultures and countries still have this attitude today with many so called honour killings, stoning or public whippings as punishment.

Flopsy145 · 01/04/2024 13:04

ShinenKan · 01/04/2024 12:46

There’s a lot of violence committed in the name of nearly all religions including Paganism
A lot of violence is still being committed in the name of religion to this very day.

Its up to everyone what they want their kids to learn and understand but important I think not to cherry pick just one religion.

I think children should learn about all aspects of history, all religions, enough to make their own judgement. I went to a CofE primary school and then in secondary school studied philosophy and ethics and got a pretty well rounded view of mist religions, then studied history at Uni so again studied quite a lot. So I base my beliefs on what I know to be true throughout history and I feel most comfortable forgoing anything state imposed and instead going back to basics and would consider myself a pagan, celebrating nature and seasons, and also researching lots of different pagan cultures just out of interest as I didn't get to learn a lot of that in education.