Hi- expecting to be flamed here but interested in what people think. We have a small flat (2 bedroom) in Dublin. Our interest rates have gone up three times so we needed to get a lodger. Husband uses the flat two nights a week. Advertised on well-known spare room type site. Woman interested. Works nearby. She is from the city so led us to believe she was just here during the week. Agreed a price including bills for Monday- Friday. Husband agreed with her that she could stay the occasional weekend if we aren’t using it. The problem is we haven’t been using it and husband has been rarely here too. We have come for the weekend- asked her to leave as kids need to use her room. There is stuff EVERYWHERE- she has clearly fully moved in and here all the time. Created a fuss about how inconvenient it was to move out. The place is filthy. Our bills are now reflecting that she is here full time. Husband does not want this. We have a lot of people using the flat in coming weekends and need her out of here but she is making us feel like the unreasonable ones. Who is being unreasonable? I have said to husband he needs to sit her down and go through house rules. Her bloody mate is storing stuff here too!!!