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Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH

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MeadowL · 29/03/2024 21:02

Does it bother you? I have a semi famous DH, he gets paid to gig and go on podcasts etc if we go out locally he does get asked for selfies so we tend to go away for weekends as a family.

I do find it slightly annoying but I guess it pays the bills 💃

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oakleaffy · 30/03/2024 13:23

listsandbudgets · 30/03/2024 13:20

@GladAllOver Get him a metal bucket for his birthday.. should hold in place better on windy days

This:

https://www.medieval-shop.co.uk/basinettes/8914-battle-ready-basinette-with-visor-2-mm-steel.html

TheIcecreamManCometh · 30/03/2024 13:25

Nah, he's a legend

Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH
CaterhamReconstituted · 30/03/2024 13:26

I’ve done a bit of detective work and I think OP’s DH is Tony Blackburn

Surfapparel · 30/03/2024 13:26

I'm sure this point has already been made repeatedly, but noone who was happy with their life would make this thread. If OP really is married to a semi famous DJ then tbh I hope she's OK

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 13:28

With vanishingly few exceptions, it's always easy to know who is genuinely extremely famous. They're the ones at airport check-in, M&S customer service counter and mid-range restaurants, asking "Don't you know who I am?"

It's a big hilarious in-joke, because of course everybody knows who they are - they're at the very top of their game!!!!

Ratfan24 · 30/03/2024 13:30

My husband isn't famous but he has had the same fairly recognisable look since the 1980s and when we are out in our local town he often gets recognised by some other random middle-aged person who used to work with him in one of his many different jobs years ago and then we have to stop for a long reminiscing chat.

TheIcecreamManCometh · 30/03/2024 13:31

Or she's bored/amusing herself. Takes all sorts.
I'd thank her irl as I've been listening to Last of the international playboys, Hey boy hey girl and the Bus Stop version of Get it on for the last half an hour.

Chemical Brothers. That's another one.

You know more DJs than you think you know!

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 13:31

It is difficult for those of us in the higher echelons of the fame sphere - especially when ordinary people just don't get what we're all about.

Last Thursday, I did a book signing at my local bookshop - I signed 613 books - but even so, the manager was furious and threw me out when she found me.

oakleaffy · 30/03/2024 13:37

Surfapparel · 30/03/2024 13:26

I'm sure this point has already been made repeatedly, but noone who was happy with their life would make this thread. If OP really is married to a semi famous DJ then tbh I hope she's OK

It definitely shows deep insecurity and a desire for reflected glory.
It's much easier not to be famous.

You can just live your life without people pestering for selfies and autographs,
which must get tiresome.

Also one is at risk of having stories sold to the press about you and press hanging around outside your house hoping for a shot that they can sell.

It's freedom being un-famous, one can be oneself, incognito and it's so much better.

Freddie Mercury is someone who I would call ''Famous'' - his garden gate sold for more than £412,750 {after commissions}

Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH
BathshebaKnickerStickers · 30/03/2024 13:37

baroqueandblue · 30/03/2024 06:53

One of my classmates was on the popular quiz show Blockbusters in the 80s. But by then he was in sixth form and the school I had decided I wasn't staying on so I didn't get to bask in any reflected glory.

I wasn't bitter though because it soon became apparent that fate had other plans for me. One of my brothers went on Going for Gold with Henry Kelly! He only lasted 3 rounds, but did get a screenshot his picture in the local paper.

Sometimes people ask if I miss those heady days of fame by association, but I always tell them I have no regrets - I like the person I've become, and wouldn't want it to have changed me 🤷‍♂️

I was a Daily Winner on Going For Gold…!!!!!

tuvamoodyson · 30/03/2024 13:41

wizzbitt · 29/03/2024 21:33

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oakleaffy · 30/03/2024 13:42

TheIcecreamManCometh · 30/03/2024 13:31

Or she's bored/amusing herself. Takes all sorts.
I'd thank her irl as I've been listening to Last of the international playboys, Hey boy hey girl and the Bus Stop version of Get it on for the last half an hour.

Chemical Brothers. That's another one.

You know more DJs than you think you know!

''Hey Boy hey girl '' reminds me of Whippets tearing around a field!

They need no stimulants.

Hey Boy Hey Girl

Provided to YouTube by Universal Music GroupHey Boy Hey Girl · The Chemical BrothersSurrender℗ 1999 Virgin Records LimitedReleased on: 1999-01-01Producer: Th...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aoc2hHVgbcU

pleasecallmeback · 30/03/2024 13:48

You're married to Pat Sharpe aren't you? He does Butlins these days, since he lost his job on Greatest Hits Radio after making a crude comment about a woman's breasts. I wouldn't brag about being married to him, tbh.

x2boys · 30/03/2024 13:53

baroqueandblue · 30/03/2024 06:53

One of my classmates was on the popular quiz show Blockbusters in the 80s. But by then he was in sixth form and the school I had decided I wasn't staying on so I didn't get to bask in any reflected glory.

I wasn't bitter though because it soon became apparent that fate had other plans for me. One of my brothers went on Going for Gold with Henry Kelly! He only lasted 3 rounds, but did get a screenshot his picture in the local paper.

Sometimes people ask if I miss those heady days of fame by association, but I always tell them I have no regrets - I like the person I've become, and wouldn't want it to have changed me 🤷‍♂️

Somebody I went to school.with was on Blockbusters too.,she won £15 .😂
She wss really clever too.

MummyDummyNow · 30/03/2024 13:55

Is he going to do the school disco though?

PePePe · 30/03/2024 13:59

Just confirmed...it is MC Grindr!

Crackalac · 30/03/2024 14:00

not famous but he's a chatterbox and knows everyone. so, it's the same effect in terms of trying to go anywhere! 🤣

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 14:07

It's freedom being un-famous, one can be oneself, incognito and it's so much better.

I couldn't agree more.

I would also add having an old, non-pristine (but still decent condition and reliable) car to that - it is such a freedom not having to panic at the slightest hint of a new scratch or tiny bump!

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 14:08

PePePe · 30/03/2024 13:59

Just confirmed...it is MC Grindr!

Never heard of him... but he doesn't sound like the kind of guy who would want a wife in the first place!

TheIcecreamManCometh · 30/03/2024 14:14

There have allegedly been spouses of famous/semi-famous people on here, mind. And slebs themselves.
Didn't Mrs Jon Ronson pop up on here many many moons ago?
And Jules Oliver was purportedly a Mumsnetter?
Jack Monroe has allegedly been on threads.
Daisy Lee Cooper and Nadia Sawalha must browse at the very least.
And one MN Crown who isn't on here anymore (at least under the name they were) was related to Leona Lewis iirc.

Stickysusan · 30/03/2024 14:16

I was on play school when I was 4. It’s been hard to shake off the fame. So many people come up to me and say they remember seeing me through the round window. I think it stresses my family out as we can’t go anywhere without someone wanting a selfie.

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 30/03/2024 14:18

ParkerPipe · 29/03/2024 21:54

@MeadowL My husband, Fatboy Slim would like to ask your husband Dave Doubledecks if he would like a fight under Brighton pier? Also, he said he would do your kids disco for gratis. Fatboy reckons it's pretty shite charging your kid to do their disco for them

I'm nominating this for post of the thread 🙂

I laughed. A lot 🤣 At the mention of Dave Doubledecks and the vision of he and FBS engaging in handbags at dawn under Brighton pier. I'd buy a ticket for that 😝

Loving it, @ParkerPipe Please pass my regards to Fatboy 🥰

KomodoOhno · 30/03/2024 14:19

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 30/03/2024 14:18

I'm nominating this for post of the thread 🙂

I laughed. A lot 🤣 At the mention of Dave Doubledecks and the vision of he and FBS engaging in handbags at dawn under Brighton pier. I'd buy a ticket for that 😝

Loving it, @ParkerPipe Please pass my regards to Fatboy 🥰

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Yes this is definitely the winner

ntmdino · 30/03/2024 14:22

It's freedom being un-famous, one can be oneself, incognito and it's so much better.

Absolutely. I'm weirdly (and accidentally) well-known online in a fairly niche way, to the point where I've had a few well-known creators make videos about me, and it's very...odd...when I'm recognised. Those folk who know always want to talk to me, and it's not something I'm good at so I'm always worried I'm going to leave them feeling a bit shit about the whole thing. It's almost like I have a responsibility to make them feel good.

I'm not kidding myself, I'm quite small-fry in the grand scheme of things, but as a small taste of what the truly famous must get on a daily basis, and what they must have to plan their lives around...yeah, I'd never ever want to be actually-famous.

GoldenSpraint · 30/03/2024 14:23

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