To ask for your most minor, irrational ick?

[trekking1]

The thing that men do that is completely normal to most people, but gives you the ick?

Mine is men wearing long socks with shorts. I'm sorry I just can't

Bastards!

Men who are cold. Literally, not emotionally.

Have dated two guys now who didn't wear winter coats (not a money issue). They wore light jackets and were shivery/cold/shoulders hunched, and it unlocked a new ick. Random, I know.

I couldn’t disagree with you more. LondonPlease has posted the most sensible thing I’ve seen on here in weeks.

Whistling, or blowing raspberries. Cannot STAND either of those noises.

You'd have to be a certain age for this one:

Men who walk like Thunderbirds puppets.

🤣🤣🤣

All I would say is it takes "two to tango". You can't place the blame for failed relationships on one person. Clearly she has a problem making and maintaining long term relationships and now won't take any responsibility. just an observation 😳

My FIL whistles loudly outside the front door as soon as he arrives at our house … it’s to let us know he’s here. He rings the doorbell about 15 times repeatedly too.

Annoying is an understatement.

I had a male shop assistant called me m'lady. Repeatedly. Don't know what he was trying to do, but all these years later it still rankles😀

Men who wear ridiculously skinny jeans/trousers, especially if they have a big bum and thighs. Even more so if they're fat and not even in shape with it.

Worked with a guy who was never ill or sick - he was 'poorly'.

Ick ick ick.

Ankle grazer trousers with smart shoes and no socks.

Men who are sexist or try and explain feminism to me. I was with an insanely good looking man the other day (not a date, I hasten to add) and then he launched into a long explanation of how pornography isn't that bad for women because it doesn't cause men to be violent to us. Attraction instantly over.

Calling things 'icks' in itself makes me feel 🤢.

Change that to women and you might just get jumped on. 😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️

A man I was seeing said the word "yummy".

ick.

Aso, small children with a line of snot from nostril to mouth. There is a year 5 at my DS's school who still sports a snot line on a regular basis. Wipe your nose, child.

Depends what it's in relation to:
food - fine,
people - nope,
other random things, e.g. a handbag - nope.

Completely agree.

Youve made your damaging assumption that she ‘clearly’ has a problem with relationships based on one post?

I think you’re being wildly judgemental and a little bit naive. I disagree with you and think her view on life is a damn sight better than yours!

Grow up you sound about 12!

How bizarre that my ick is the only one that's got people acting defensive 😂 You do realise the OP used the word "irrational"?

People using index fingers to type on their phones give me the ick. Yes it's irrational but it still gives me the ick!

Those who emotionally dump on you when you first meet. Then they can’t/ won’t reciprocate. Absolute mood hoovers.

Skinnny office hands and fingers that bend sideways (I know they can’t help it). Really quite fancied a guy then noticed this and that was it for me 😂

Noisy eaters. Eating with mouth open.

Jeans that hang too low so you can see their bum crack 🤢
Hairy backs and shoulders, especially if they’re very pale as it always remind me of the hair you get on a joint of pork 🤮 🤮 🤢
Men in sandals
Arse scratching

I think the second example is a good use of ‘a little bit OCD’. They bring their own cutlery to work, wash and dry, then keep it safe somewhere so no one else can use it. It seems quite particular and vaguely neurotic. Most MH conditions exist on a spectrum. Of course this example is probably not associated with the distress or harm of serious OCD, but it’s not completely different. Why do we have to be offended by it.

But yeah the first example is just having decent standards about basic grammar 🤣

😂 amazing
I work with so many of these dickheads