At least not in the minds of some MNers lately.
I know some posters have always accused others of 'drama' or 'making a song and dance' whenever they've dared to mind about something, but am I alone in thinking there's been an especially bumper crop of this lately?
To avoid TAAT-ing I'm going to make this fairly general, but as far as I've spotted around MN this last few weeks women are not allowed to:
- want special days marked/celebrated;
- vent about a frustrating relative;
- gently encourage our kids out of unhelpful behaviours;
- get upset if our friends treat us like shit;
- mind if our male partners stuff act thoughtlessly ('at least he made an effort OP!')
- call anyone out on behaving like an arse;
- cry about ANYTHING unless it's something like a bereavement;
- expect people to do the things they've said they'll do/mind if they don't do them.
Basically, we're not allowed to mind about anything are we? We've got to be 100% low-maintenance all the way or else we're drama llamas. Or maybe it's our hormones! A novel thought indeed.
All I can say is, if those who are doing this consider themselves supportive of women in general, they've got a bloody funny way of showing it. Either that or they're just bored/in a bad mood and fancy a bit of a goad.
Wouldn't be remotely surprised if this attracted a ton of YABUs and 'why are you on here if it's so awful'? Don't care if that happens. I come here for the constructive stuff, and constant accusations of drama on the part of other women ain't it. Freedom of speech is so important and yes of course I can just scroll past stuff I don't agree with, but name-calling to me just feels like playground behaviour and tbh I don't get why so many people stoop to it.
Rant over.