My DH has just had a very small promotion at work. It's been expected for a while and not a particularly big change from his current role, really. We went out for a drink to celebrate but no one did any cards/ gifts as it wasn't a huge thing (he didn't have to interview or anything like that).
But today I've noticed a card on the mantelpiece which is from a female colleague who is his junior, he sometimes talks about her in a friendly way but I didn't think anything of it. But the image on the front of the card is of a very specific hobby that he does in his spare time - she must have sought out the card from Etsy or something because it's not something you'd get on the high street.
Inside is gushing praise about how 'delighted' she is and how well deserved it is along with a little doodle of herself.
It's the only card he's received.
Is there something going on here? I feel a bit weird about it but I don't know if I'm being overly jealous.
AIBU?
To feel a bit jealous about this woman and DH?
pinkmushroom5 · 27/03/2024 12:26
Am I being unreasonable?
341 votes. Final results.
POLLbottomsup12 · 27/03/2024 12:33
Is she much younger than him? Either way sounds like she's sucking up to him because he's going places and it would help her career maybe.
Hopefully he doesn't go weird about this bit of flattery. What has he said about it? Does he encourage it?
LiveLaughCryalot · 27/03/2024 14:01
Yeah, that's weird and overstepping on her part I think us, a doodle of herself?? Wtf?
I'd take it down and see if he mentions it personally and I would definitely be keeping my eyes and ears open.
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