To think having a male partner and a child is more like raising two children than being an equal partnership? Having a husband seems like more hassle than it's worth.
AIBU?
To consider having a child without a partner
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:27
Am I being unreasonable?
147 votes. Final results.
POLLHaydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
crumblingschools · 27/03/2024 09:34
@dreamygirl25 what about the child? They will have the right to know who their dad is?
If you go down this route and have a boy, how would you explain it to them, that you think the male species is a waste of time, awful?
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:35
I would raise him to be a good man, for a start
crumblingschools · 27/03/2024 09:34
@dreamygirl25 what about the child? They will have the right to know who their dad is?
If you go down this route and have a boy, how would you explain it to them, that you think the male species is a waste of time, awful?
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
WithACatLikeTread · 27/03/2024 09:49
Love?
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:51
But at what cost? Men are a nightmare
WithACatLikeTread · 27/03/2024 09:49
Love?
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 09:30
And yet the bulk of posts here are women complaining about how dreadful their partners are and 90% of the comments are women telling them to leave. What's the point of having a male partner, do we really need them at this point?
Haydenn · 27/03/2024 09:29
I agree with you. Mumsnet likes a traditional set up though
CatCatCatCatCatCat · 27/03/2024 10:01
Yes because being a single parent is a piece of piss 😏 it’s not just about you it’s also about your child who will grow up without a father. My kids don’t see their father through his choice and it’s definitely affected them and they are often asked why they don’t have a dad by other children at school.
RegretMisery · 27/03/2024 10:02
No one said it's easy, but it seems to me like having a partner is more hassle than being single.
CatCatCatCatCatCat · 27/03/2024 10:01
Yes because being a single parent is a piece of piss 😏 it’s not just about you it’s also about your child who will grow up without a father. My kids don’t see their father through his choice and it’s definitely affected them and they are often asked why they don’t have a dad by other children at school.
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