Yes, i know, we are in March!
Just wanted to see what people thought of this.
Dad lives abroad, comes home for Xmas rarely, maybe once every 5 years. I have two young DC who would love to spend it with him. Last year he was umming and aahing about coming home, Dh said we'd love to have you (have never hosted before) so let us know. He decided not to come.
DSis (fave child- seriously!!) told me last week that she was having him for Christmas day this year plus my nan and grandad, and we were welcome to join them in the evening for games (like an evening wedding guest?!) as she knows we like to have dinner on our own (not particularly, it's just everyone normally does their own thing)
Now he hasn't even told me yet that he is here for Xmas, and they have already made plans.
I am pissed off and v upset.
Wanted to see what others thought.