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Jesus held on the cross with nails in his hands

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TaFox · 20/03/2024 21:43

DD5 is in year 1 and has been learning about Jesus at school. Great stuff in the spirit of Easter.

The RE teacher told the class how Jesus was NAILED to the cross.

This is quite graphic for a little girl who believes that the Easter bunny will leave eggs in our garden.

Should I tell school that this is too much info for little ears?

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legalseagull · 20/03/2024 22:13

My 4 and 6 year olds loved the story - they love gory things (hopefully they won't burn in hell 😂) I don't think it's too young. All kids are different and most won't be upset at a story like this

MyLovelyPurse · 20/03/2024 22:13

@PrincessTeaSet i wasn’t questioning whether the crucifixion was real. I have no idea.

I was questioning whether an adult in the U.K. would be really shocked and surprised that crucifixion had been mentioned in their children’s school.

Crucible · 20/03/2024 22:13

Easter really is about eggs and rabbits. If anyone would like the history looks up the fertility goddess Eostre. Stick with the eggs and bunnies OP.

OrangeLemonLime24 · 20/03/2024 22:14

DD is 7 and I remember feeling the same way as you at the time. She was so innocent and I thought it was so graphic. She was very interested in it at the time but is very blasé about it now! No lasting damage. “Nailed to a cross? Whatever!”

Mischance · 20/03/2024 22:14

Easter IS about eggs and bunnies and new life. The Christian religion purloined it for its own ends. It is an ancient pagan festival celebrating the new life that spring brings.

SweetFemaleAttitude · 20/03/2024 22:15

I was brought up catholic and remember doing the stages of the cross in the infants.

My DD didn't even go a religious school, but they done about this in infants. Her storyboard said 'the guards battered jesus' 😂 with a drawn picture of them, giving jesus what for.

FloofCloud · 20/03/2024 22:15

This oisses me off!! You can tell stories without being graphic to children ... I agree with someone above who said religious porn ... want to talk about pain and graphically that's unnecessary - little kids don't need to know that!!
I'd make that clear to my school, professionally and politely, that where is the necessity to be so graphic about things that horrify small children ... in movies they wouldn't show that in a 'U' rate movie, probably a 15 ... bloody pricky teachers 🤡🤡🤡🤬🤬🤬🤬

Parker231 · 20/03/2024 22:15

Gobbolinothewitchscat · 20/03/2024 22:08

I'm Catholic and my three have recently made their first Holy Communion. The littlest can tell you that Christ suffered a scourging, a bloody sweat, a crown of thorns and was nailed to the cross. It was a highly unpleasant experience where Christ suffered for our sins. So I'm not quite sure how it can be taught in any other way or it entirely mitigates the message.

For what it's worth, no one in the First Holy Communion class seems very perturbed or disturbed by it all.

DT’s would have been shocked at that age - as a family we’re atheists, they hadn’t been to church and didn’t go to a British school so religious studies weren’t on the curriculum (separation of church and state).

Lyingbyapool · 20/03/2024 22:16

My gob is truly smacked 😮

Holy Week/ Easter is the most important part of the Christian calendar. I'm staggered that anyone can grow up in this country (where it's the official religion and where state schools have to hold 'broadly Christian' assemblies) and not understand that this is what children learn.

Have we really reached the point where grown adults think it's all about bunnies and eggs?

MsGrumpytrousers · 20/03/2024 22:16

TaFox · 20/03/2024 21:50

DD knew that Jesus was put on a cross. The nails aspect shocked her to be honest and that's all she was talking about all evening.

The school is not a religion affiliated school but they have RE and learn about all religions.

Then I definitely agree with you that this was unnecessary.

"It's just religion" is a really daft response, too.

Telomeres · 20/03/2024 22:17

Sorry but...phobia of wrists? You couldn't look at a wrist without shaking/crying/having a panic attack, or running out of rooms full of people wearing T-shirts?

You didn't 😁

montelbano · 20/03/2024 22:17

Precipice · 20/03/2024 21:54

If she'd ever been to a church (or seen many pictures of Jesus), she can see that often Jesus is portrayed on a cross with the nails also portrayed.

There is, however, dispute about whether crucifixion victims were generally nailed to the cross or tied to it.

Nails through hands would be pointless as the weight of the body would cause the hands to rip apart. Nails were hammered through wrists and ankle bones instead

RemarkablyBrightCreature · 20/03/2024 22:17

The crucifixion bit doesn’t bother me - but the bullshit about being brought back from the dead absolutely does. For my 5 yr old it came at a time he’d lost someone v close and he was very upset by it. Kids that age shouldn’t be taught nonsense.

caringcarer · 20/03/2024 22:17

TaFox · 20/03/2024 21:50

DD knew that Jesus was put on a cross. The nails aspect shocked her to be honest and that's all she was talking about all evening.

The school is not a religion affiliated school but they have RE and learn about all religions.

Wait till your DD learns in some countries they still have volunteers who get crucified every Easter with real nails going through the palms of their hands.

Sauvblonk · 20/03/2024 22:18

Yes, do speak to the teacher if it's been too much.

Our DS had recurring, quite distressing nightmares about being "put in a cave when I'm dead" after learning about the Easter story at school. We had him up at all hours crying and worrying about dying, and especially about being left alone in a cave. He's not a particularly emotional child, but the Eater story really got to him for some reason!

LoreleiG · 20/03/2024 22:18

I was brought up catholic, went to mass every Sunday annd holy day, and personally I actually was traumatised by it, as it gave me nightmares and I once broke down in mass crying. I was five or six. I also cried during Jesus Christ Superstar! Some children are more sensitive than others. Or maybe I am just an OG snowflake.

Upinthenightagain · 20/03/2024 22:18

dd goes to a catholic school and brought a bible home the other day. I opened it at a random page and there was a whole section on men’s discharge and women’s discharge and how unclean it was. There’s some odd stuff in the bible. The nailing hands business is the least of it and at the end of the day they will be learning all sorts of gruesome things when it comes to history lessons. Keeps them interested 😆

DinnaeFashYersel · 20/03/2024 22:18

@Thebestwaytoscareatory

That would be the Spring Equinox. I was of course referring to the Christian origin of Easter which is the problem being experienced by the OP

EverybodyIsFantastic · 20/03/2024 22:18

ZenNudist · 20/03/2024 22:08

Absolutely hilarious.

She's also going to get taught that King Harold got shot in the eye and Henry VIII beheaded 2 of his wives.

Wait til they get to 9-11.

How's she going to cope with the actual news?!

You'd love our Catholic school. Next week and every year in Holy Week the kids will be doing "stations of the cross" which is a prayer reflecting on the experiences of Jesus as he carries the cross, is crucified dies and is buried. The prayer is based on the pictures exhibited round the school hall (permanently). These are pictures actually painted by the older kids representing the different things the bible teaches about Jesus' journey to Calvary.

To try and be useful here you can always say "but he came back and it didn't hurt him anymore!"

And all those wondrously gruesome saints and stigmatics. My convent education has been a huge advantage to me in art museums. I’m always the one consulted on which saint is traditionally depicted carrying her severed breasts on a plate.

SweetFemaleAttitude · 20/03/2024 22:19

caringcarer · 20/03/2024 22:17

Wait till your DD learns in some countries they still have volunteers who get crucified every Easter with real nails going through the palms of their hands.

Ummm why would children ever have to learn that 😂😂

LoreleiG · 20/03/2024 22:19

Sauvblonk · 20/03/2024 22:18

Yes, do speak to the teacher if it's been too much.

Our DS had recurring, quite distressing nightmares about being "put in a cave when I'm dead" after learning about the Easter story at school. We had him up at all hours crying and worrying about dying, and especially about being left alone in a cave. He's not a particularly emotional child, but the Eater story really got to him for some reason!

I had the same nightmares!

OurfriendsintheNE · 20/03/2024 22:19

Command strips?

@Bigwelshlamb points for adding an extra mumsnetty dimension to an already quite mumsnetty thread!

Thebestwaytoscareatory · 20/03/2024 22:20

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/03/2024 22:10

Bunnies came around the same time as Jesus. Rabbits aren't a native species, they were brought in by the Romans.🐰🐇

But yeah, eggs have been around forever.🥚

The Romans were in Britain before Jesus was even a twinkle in gods eye.

And hares have been kicking around these shores for thousands of years so what we assume are bunnies might have been hares 👀

Shamoo44 · 20/03/2024 22:20

I remember this at my infant school, particularly the bit where the other children turned to me and said “you’re Jewish - you killed Jesus”. First time I was really really confused and felt really bad/guilty about my religion.

thesleepyhoglet · 20/03/2024 22:20

Should have used command strips instead.