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I'm absolutely livid and need advice - pulled over by police

146 replies

SableGrape · 14/03/2024 12:41

Just pulled over in the car with my partner (I have another thread about his shit - the idea today was he'd drop me off at work and go back to his own place, pending a more serious conversation about our relationship going forward.)

We get onto the duel carriageway and he was driving like a bit of a knob (speeding, cutting between lanes), which attracted the attention of a police car. Pulled him over and the car has no MOT, no tax and no insurance.

I am absolutely livid - I had no idea about any of it because on the surface it's really nice car (Astra, about three years old). The car has been seized.

I have a licence but don't drive currently (my car is SORN'D because I had an ankle op and haven't been able to drive) I'm worried that it's going to affect my insurance or license or something - I only passed about four years ago (lived in London before so had no need!)

Told partner to fuck off and that it's over so that's a good thing maybe but what do I do now? Do being in the car affect me in any way? I'm so angry I feel like I can't think straight!

OP posts:
Dibbydoos · 14/03/2024 22:52

You weren't driving, you're fine. he's been driving you and others in a car he knows has no MOT or insurance. The tax thing is annoying too but the others are important for safety in its widest sense. What a knob good riddance :)

Doris86 · 14/03/2024 22:55

LondonBagpuss · 14/03/2024 19:29

"No they don’t. This is a myth."

This is not a myth. I would advise checking your insurance policy before driving without a valid MOT as it is a common stipulation in policies.

It is most certainly is a myth. If you don’t believe me then check your insurance policy, and look for the bit where it says that. You won’t find it.

The only impact on insurance of having no MOT is if you write your car off. They will sometimes reduce your payout on the basis you car is worth less because it had no MOT.

Zyq · 14/03/2024 22:56

cardibach · 14/03/2024 12:52

I’m not an expert, but I can’t see that she was entitled to do that. Driving offences are the responsibility of the driver, offences around insurance and MoT are the responsibility of the owner. You are neither. It’s nothing to do with you and you shouldn’t have been asked for anything. Maybe ask at CAB if she was entitled to ask (I’m pretty sure not) then take it further if she wasn’t.

I think she was perfectly entitled to ask, on the basis of reasonable grounds to suspect OP was aiding and abetting.

samarrange · 14/03/2024 23:01

Doris86 · 14/03/2024 22:55

It is most certainly is a myth. If you don’t believe me then check your insurance policy, and look for the bit where it says that. You won’t find it.

The only impact on insurance of having no MOT is if you write your car off. They will sometimes reduce your payout on the basis you car is worth less because it had no MOT.

I googled "is my insurance valid without mot" and found websites from insurance companies, motoring organisations, car magazine, and lawyers, giving every answer from "Yes, the MOT is not relevant" to "OMG, your insurance will be immediately invalid". The consensus, by which I mean the halfway-house answer, is that they can't invalidate your policy for no MOT unless there is an explicit clause to that effect, but that such clauses are common. All very confusing.

Deathbyfluffy · 14/03/2024 23:07

Nannyfannybanny · 14/03/2024 16:41

If you check a motor vehicle insurance,it says vehicle must be covered by valid MOT otherwise insurance is invalid.

Well that’s not strictly true, or you wouldn’t be able to drive a car with an expired MOT to or from a test (which you can).

Doris86 · 14/03/2024 23:28

samarrange · 14/03/2024 23:01

I googled "is my insurance valid without mot" and found websites from insurance companies, motoring organisations, car magazine, and lawyers, giving every answer from "Yes, the MOT is not relevant" to "OMG, your insurance will be immediately invalid". The consensus, by which I mean the halfway-house answer, is that they can't invalidate your policy for no MOT unless there is an explicit clause to that effect, but that such clauses are common. All very confusing.

Such clauses aren’t common, because I believe the insurance ombudsman has ruled it an unfair clause. Even if the clause is there is is not enforceable because it has been ruled as unfair.

Nannyfannybanny · 15/03/2024 00:08

Yes you are allowed to drive to a garage test centre for an MOT,if it is booked. My insurance policy does state it's not valid without a current MOT

Tryingmybestadhd · 15/03/2024 01:03

It won’t affect you but please get rid of him ! Someone that irresponsible is not worthy of anyone’s time !

Louisevuitton · 15/03/2024 01:42

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sashh · 15/03/2024 05:06

Off topic but depending how long your ankle is out of action (and which one is injured) you can get a really simple hand control

https://spinalistips.se/en/tip-mobile-hand-controls-for-car-1491

It costs about £150

Back on topic, your ex is a dick. And if he was driving so erratically the police were probably concerned whether you had been abducted.

Mobile hand controls for car

Mobile hand controls for car - Spinalistips

With mobile hand controls a person with disabilities can drive any automatic car

https://spinalistips.se/en/tip-mobile-hand-controls-for-car-1491

Aposterhasnoname · 15/03/2024 06:30

People who drive without tax, mot and insurance are often involved in other crime, that’s why she asked for your id, to make sure you weren’t a known offender or wanted for anything else. The car issues are nothing to do with you, don’t worry about it.

Doris86 · 15/03/2024 06:48

Nannyfannybanny · 15/03/2024 00:08

Yes you are allowed to drive to a garage test centre for an MOT,if it is booked. My insurance policy does state it's not valid without a current MOT

I doubt it says that, I think you’re probably misinterpreting it. What exactly does the woroing say?

OneMoreTime23 · 15/03/2024 07:19

I think there may be a couple of (very cheap) insurers who do state this but none of the mainstream insurers did the last time I looked.

Kdtym10 · 15/03/2024 08:43

It’s largely irrelevant if the lack of MOT invalidates insurance. It indicates a driver with such a disregard for other’s safety they morally (as well as legally) shouldn’t be on the road. They’re selfish idiots (or completely incompetent)

crumbledog · 15/03/2024 10:44

Aposterhasnoname · 15/03/2024 06:30

People who drive without tax, mot and insurance are often involved in other crime, that’s why she asked for your id, to make sure you weren’t a known offender or wanted for anything else. The car issues are nothing to do with you, don’t worry about it.

You’re allowed to drive to a pre booked MOT without a valid mot, that’s the only legitimate reason you have to be on the road without one.

SableGrape · 15/03/2024 11:42

When I say no mot, tax or insurance I mean for months. Apparently he hasnt been paying his insurance so that's been cancelled in three last week. Or the car finance apparently, because he'd put my number down with them and they rang today asking about payment!

All sorted, because none of my info is linked with the car bar my number.

I'm absolutely livid and need advice - pulled over by police
OP posts:
NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/03/2024 17:38

Oh, he was planning for you to pay all his bills whilst he laid around in your house doing fuck all, wasn't he?

No wonder he was pissed off following the 'I've not been paid' bollocks that you didn't fall for - you prevented his cocklodging plans from coming to fruition.

angela1952 · 15/03/2024 17:47

If the car had been stolen the passenger could have been prosecuted if the police believed she knew the car to be stolen. Obviously they need to ask questions to ascertain all the facts.

Shrosemartin · 15/03/2024 18:10

My partner was driving and was pulled over by the police whilst I was a passenger. He wasn't doing anything wrong, the car was taxed, it had a MOT and was insured. I was asked for my details and proof of ID and gave them to the police officer. We found out somebody had cloned our number plate and put it on their car, they had been stealing catalytic converters from new cars. The police man wanted to check we were the owners of the car and the numberplate matched with the vehicle identification number and we were the registered owners. I think it is standard procedure to check the ID of all the occupants in the car. You were not driving so it won't impact on your licence. I think the only way it would impact on you is if you had a shared insurance policy.

OldPerson · 15/03/2024 19:07

His convictions will not affect you because he was driving and it's his car. So you're in the clear. Personally I'd just dump him for behaving like a knob driving. Do you really want to devote the rest of your life to someone who has no respect for other people's safety? Would you feel safe with him driving your future children around? Or is it just other people's children who don't matter?

Leedsfan247 · 15/03/2024 19:18

Absolutely nothing to do with you, purely the driver.
good decision run in the opposite direction behaviour like this can often lead to other criminal activity

EthicalBlend · 15/03/2024 19:22

It won't affect your insurance in any way. Provided, that is, you avoid completely having anything to do with your ex-BP.

Griff1963 · 15/03/2024 19:23

It has nothing to do with you, only the driver will be penalised.

BabyofMine · 15/03/2024 19:33

This is totally not the point of this but I’m so curious how do you get home from a motorway if the vehicle is seized?!! Do the police drive you to the nearest bus stop or something 🙈😂 they can’t just leave you in a lay-by or something surely?