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I am not voting for Labour or Con…

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EddyF · 14/03/2024 08:13

What party can I vote for that may have a chance? I do not want to waste a vote but may have to. As a young(ish) Black woman, none of the above present me. I was born here as were my parents. Originally from East Africa. Spent a lot of holidays there as a child but not so much as an adult, otherwise I would seriously think of going back to live there.

I have always voted Labour but they are disappointing. For the first time, I am thinking of not voting but it does not sit right within me.

I might try the Green Party I guess.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 20/03/2024 23:37

caringcarer · 20/03/2024 20:07

They are eating into traditional Labour seats too.

Not really. Preston tonight showed a poll about the swing to Reform. 70% are swinging from voting Tory. Only 4% are swinging from Labour.

Spinet · 21/03/2024 07:23

Sillypede · 20/03/2024 23:26

So what's your point? I mentioned enthusiasm, you mentioned opinion polls, presumably as an indication of enthusiasm for Labour. Now you're saying there isn't a link between voting intention and enthusiasm.

You can't seriously think people believe Starmer's tenure is going to be transformative in any way, they don't even claim to be in their own campaigning.

It's also worth noting Labour have a history of performing below what polling levels suggest.

So what are you basing enthusiasm on? Hearsay? What is a more accurate indicator of enthusiasm in the population? Genuinely interested.

Itscatsallthewaydown · 21/03/2024 08:54

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Itscatsallthewaydown · 21/03/2024 09:18

Sillypede · 20/03/2024 20:18

The left won't vote for Starmer and the right are shifting over to reform. What with voter suppression, boundary changes and the Tory voters who stubbornly turn out, it's not going to be a Blairite walkover. There's zero enthusiasm for Starmer's Labour from the general public.

This is total wishful thinking and self-delusion. You’re entitled to your own opinion, but not to your own facts.

DuncinToffee · 21/03/2024 09:29

Latest YouGov poll really backs up the "zero enthusiasm for Starmer's Labour from the general public" Confused

Labour lead at 25 points in latest YouGov poll for The Times

CON 19 (-1)
LAB 44 (=)
LIB DEM 9 (=)
REF UK 15 (+1)
GRN 8 (+1)

Fieldwork 19 - 20 March

edited to add link
https://x.com/lara_spirit/status/1770685592264700387?s=20

BIossomtoes · 21/03/2024 10:48

presumably as an indication of enthusiasm for Labour

Not at all. It’s not 1997. There will be no euphoria among Labour voters with a Labour win, just heartfelt relief.

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 10:48

justteanbiscuits · 20/03/2024 16:27

What rights, exactly, regarding my female biological status? There has never been a right for single sex toilets, or changing rooms, or toilets, or even hospitals. There are still many hospital wards that aren't single sex due to massive lack of beds.

I still have maternity pay. I am still able to vote. I still have the right to equal pay. I have the right to birth control. I have the right to have my own bank account. I am able to request a divorce. These are all things I wouldn't have been able to do 100 years ago or less.

If there have been cases in this country of female children being mutilated I would very much like to see the evidence. Baby / young boys are mutilated every day, obviously, but I have seen nothing about young girls being mutilated. Of course there is a problem with female genital mutilation outside of this country, but as far as I am aware, this is, and always has been, against the law.

Pretty sure puberty blockers not being prescribed by the NHS for trans patients doesn't affect any of my rights as a woman and really don't understand why you threw that in there.

Responding in detail to your post is beyond the scope of a MN post, and my time. There are many posts already here and online with the information you are asking for.

Suffice to say I was referring to the fact that women as a legal biological sex category have now ceased to exist. This is because males are now legally enabled to call them selves women. You will understand that this makes a category of ‘women’ redundant in terms of biological women’s rights. The ones I mention in my initial post and more.

You ask for evidence of legally enabled sex mutilation. I attach examples here. There are more.

https://www.transgendertrend.com/breast-binders-in-uk-schools/

I am not voting for Labour or Con…
I am not voting for Labour or Con…
Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 10:52

And so I repeat.

If the Labour Party wanted my vote again, they would stand up for woman’s and children’s rights. Sadly they are not doing this. I don’t know why, I really don’t know why, unless it’s the influence of their donors. It would be such an easy ‘win’ for Labour. Perhaps they think they don’t need to. They could be wrong. The movement for women’s and children’s rights is growing, and people are seeing, day by day, how their rights have been taken away by the extreme gender ideology bull shit - which Labour are taken in by. If they are not - they need to do something about it.

justteanbiscuits · 21/03/2024 11:11

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 10:48

Responding in detail to your post is beyond the scope of a MN post, and my time. There are many posts already here and online with the information you are asking for.

Suffice to say I was referring to the fact that women as a legal biological sex category have now ceased to exist. This is because males are now legally enabled to call them selves women. You will understand that this makes a category of ‘women’ redundant in terms of biological women’s rights. The ones I mention in my initial post and more.

You ask for evidence of legally enabled sex mutilation. I attach examples here. There are more.

https://www.transgendertrend.com/breast-binders-in-uk-schools/

Asking you to outline what rights I have lost as a woman is not beyond the scope of an MN post what so ever. It is obviously beyond what you can be bothered to do is all.

And your "mutilation" screenshots (not links so I could follow them, just very edited screen shots) is about a 17 year old and her parents. Her parents were trying to block it. The very important part you have missed out in your lack of information and pearl clutching screenshot is the following:

"But a High Court judge has refused to grant the injunction saying that while their child was only 17, they would turn 18 within days of the hearing and would therefore be able to give consent to gender-affirming treatment as an adult."

So actually, the judge ruled that it was basically just pointless granting the injunction as it would only be in effect for a few days. Once the young person turned 18 - "within days of the hearing" - they would be able to give consent as an adult. Which also means that no child was "mutilated" as surgery also would not have been able to happen in those few days before they turned 18.

Rather than just scream how evil trans people are, I actually fight for improved access to services. Safe information to prevent damage, and most importantly, access to adequate psychological services to ensure that the right decision re gender afforming surgery is the right choice. Because yes, of course there are people currently rushing into it without this psychological support and making mistakes. By providing good care it can help reduce this. By blocking it out and refusing to allow young people support when they are questioning is when they will rush into surgery when they reach 18. In the same way we know that teaching abstinence rather than safe sex doesn't prevent young people having sex, it just encourages dangerous sex, refusing support for young people who are questioning their gender doesn't stop young people from trying to access help - it just forces people into unsafe help.

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:13

justteanbiscuits · 21/03/2024 11:11

Asking you to outline what rights I have lost as a woman is not beyond the scope of an MN post what so ever. It is obviously beyond what you can be bothered to do is all.

And your "mutilation" screenshots (not links so I could follow them, just very edited screen shots) is about a 17 year old and her parents. Her parents were trying to block it. The very important part you have missed out in your lack of information and pearl clutching screenshot is the following:

"But a High Court judge has refused to grant the injunction saying that while their child was only 17, they would turn 18 within days of the hearing and would therefore be able to give consent to gender-affirming treatment as an adult."

So actually, the judge ruled that it was basically just pointless granting the injunction as it would only be in effect for a few days. Once the young person turned 18 - "within days of the hearing" - they would be able to give consent as an adult. Which also means that no child was "mutilated" as surgery also would not have been able to happen in those few days before they turned 18.

Rather than just scream how evil trans people are, I actually fight for improved access to services. Safe information to prevent damage, and most importantly, access to adequate psychological services to ensure that the right decision re gender afforming surgery is the right choice. Because yes, of course there are people currently rushing into it without this psychological support and making mistakes. By providing good care it can help reduce this. By blocking it out and refusing to allow young people support when they are questioning is when they will rush into surgery when they reach 18. In the same way we know that teaching abstinence rather than safe sex doesn't prevent young people having sex, it just encourages dangerous sex, refusing support for young people who are questioning their gender doesn't stop young people from trying to access help - it just forces people into unsafe help.

Rather than just scream how evil trans people are.

You are not listening. I’m not talking about trans people. I’m talking about women’s sex based rights.

Trans people like all people deserve respect, just not at the expense of women’s and children’s rights.

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:17

I’m largely GC in a 70s feminist way, and I also believe some spaces and events should be based on biological sex, but a lot of the rhetoric here disturbs me a bit. Can I just ask, @Redrosetat , when you say ”Suffice to say I was referring to the fact that women as a legal biological sex category have now ceased to exist. This is because males are now legally enabled to call them selves women.” - is that also true of men as a sex category?

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:18

And btw, human brains do not fully develop until about the age of 22- 25yrs old. And more importantly the last part to develop fully is the prefrontal cortex; which is responsible for skills like making good decisions, prioritising and controlling impulses.

justteanbiscuits · 21/03/2024 11:19

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:13

Rather than just scream how evil trans people are.

You are not listening. I’m not talking about trans people. I’m talking about women’s sex based rights.

Trans people like all people deserve respect, just not at the expense of women’s and children’s rights.

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What rights? That is what I asked. What rights have I, as a woman, lost?

Sillypede · 21/03/2024 11:19

Itscatsallthewaydown · 21/03/2024 09:18

This is total wishful thinking and self-delusion. You’re entitled to your own opinion, but not to your own facts.

4% of reform's voters coming from Labour voters (according to a poll a pp has mentioned)

Membership of the Labour Party has fallen since Starmer took control. That's a fact.

From 5 days ago https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/world/labour-members-leaving-party-over-diane-abbott-suspension-activists-claim/ar-BB1jZzFl

I joined the LPYS in 1981, always voted Labour at General Elections, canvassed, campaigned, got involved in the wider Labour Movement. There are thousands like me who have left and won't vote for the trilateral commission's man.

They should still get in, but there's zero evidence there's any enthusiasm for them.

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/world/labour-members-leaving-party-over-diane-abbott-suspension-activists-claim/ar-BB1jZzFl

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:20

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:17

I’m largely GC in a 70s feminist way, and I also believe some spaces and events should be based on biological sex, but a lot of the rhetoric here disturbs me a bit. Can I just ask, @Redrosetat , when you say ”Suffice to say I was referring to the fact that women as a legal biological sex category have now ceased to exist. This is because males are now legally enabled to call them selves women.” - is that also true of men as a sex category?

You mean can women now legally call themselves men? Yes.

Pieceofpurplesky · 21/03/2024 11:21

As a single parent and carer for my parents, alongside being a teacher the tories have done nothing for me as a woman. Before I even think about 'trans women are women' I want a government who will help the masses of women on the breadline, in poverty and without support. Whilst I know the responses here will be 'but soon there won't be women/trans women are taking over' etc my vote must go to those that need immediate help. I can't be a one issue voter.

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:22

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:20

You mean can women now legally call themselves men? Yes.

Edited

So it’s not an attack on women then? It’s a development that needs questioning and thinking through, but it doesn’t show contempt for women at all…

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:25

justteanbiscuits · 21/03/2024 11:19

What rights? That is what I asked. What rights have I, as a woman, lost?

I’ve got work to do but as you insist, though it is obvious. You’ve lost any rights that meant you had a position as a biological female. I referred to some examples a few posts ago. Listen if you cannot understand (or will not understand because it doesn’t suit your narrative), there is little point in discussing it further.

BIossomtoes · 21/03/2024 11:25

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:22

So it’s not an attack on women then? It’s a development that needs questioning and thinking through, but it doesn’t show contempt for women at all…

Of course it doesn’t. Nor does it make women cease to exist.

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:26

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:22

So it’s not an attack on women then? It’s a development that needs questioning and thinking through, but it doesn’t show contempt for women at all…

😂 ok Sherlock

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:26

BIossomtoes · 21/03/2024 11:25

Of course it doesn’t. Nor does it make women cease to exist.

😂 nope you’re correct. I’m still here.

justteanbiscuits · 21/03/2024 11:26

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:25

I’ve got work to do but as you insist, though it is obvious. You’ve lost any rights that meant you had a position as a biological female. I referred to some examples a few posts ago. Listen if you cannot understand (or will not understand because it doesn’t suit your narrative), there is little point in discussing it further.

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So I have lost my right to maternity leave?

cardibach · 21/03/2024 11:27

Redrosetat · 21/03/2024 11:26

😂 ok Sherlock

Sorry, I don’t understand. Are you agreeing with me? Why the laughter? Why the Sherlock reference when I just followed your own point…

bingoringo4 · 21/03/2024 11:42

Labour will get my vote. I will take a gamble if it means the conservatives are no longer in power. Anything has to be better than the situation we are in right now.

purkey97 · 21/03/2024 12:06

sulkingsocks · 20/03/2024 13:19

Why don't they come out and show who they are then so the electorate know who they are voting for.

Op i feel politically homeless too.

This isn't how it works - it's too early, if they reveal their cards at this stage that gives the opposition the opportunity to reshuffle their cards and re-allocate spending. They will likely reveal the majority of their policies in their manifesto, until then they'll want to keep a lid on it.

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