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AIBU not wanting DD to go to sleepover?

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EdgyFinch · 13/03/2024 12:07

My DD (8) has been invited to her friends for a sleep over at the weekend, he isn’t someone she often actively plays with at school, AIBU not wanting her to go, as I feel she’s too young?

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LitanyOfDenial · 14/03/2024 14:41

My kids (son and daughter) had regular reciprocal sleepovers from age 7. Many fond memories of those times now they are at university. Maybe we were lucky that nothing bad happened, who knows.

Trust your gut feeling OP and don’t feel pressured.

LitanyOfDenial · 14/03/2024 14:50

Mummame222 · 13/03/2024 17:29

This thread has actually made me feel really worried. I’ve allowed my 7 year old to sleep over at a friends a couple times. I feel like an awful parent. Honestly just thought it was a normal part of growing up, it was when I was young.

We did it loads. We trusted the parents and the kids loved it. We still go out with all the parents now the kids are at university and reminisce about those chaotic and fun times. No regrets or guilt at all!

Menomeno · 15/03/2024 14:34

Sweetheart7 · 14/03/2024 14:35

@Menomeno I don't know who you associate yourself with... It's certainly not the norm that mothers leave their DC with a man that they don't even know! 🙄

My DD would be invited to sleepovers where I’d never met the Dad, and only said hello to the Mum at school pick up. They could have been Fred and Rose West for all I knew. It’s not OTT for a parent to not want their kids to stay overnight with people they don’t know.

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