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That puberty blockers should not be promoted for children by any charities or celebrities for children.

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WandaWomblesaurus · 13/03/2024 00:04

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-68549091.amp

https://archive.ph/hmIvY

Loads of news today about the NHS stopping puberty blockers being given to children who think they are trans. Puberty blockers are sometimes prescribed for children who have precocious puberty, however a narrative that has been pushed by Mermaids, Stonewall and celebrities like India Willoughby and Emma Watson (who gave a large donation to Mermaids) - that puberty blockers are safe and "lifesaving"

WPATH guidelines in the USA which the UK NHS have followed in procedure have had leaked documents and videos showing that they knew that children didn't have the ability to understand the long term effects.

https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/mar/09/disturbing-leaks-from-us-gender-group-wpath-ring-alarm-bells-in-nhs

https://archive.ph/h0BtF

And a new Finnish Study debunks the idea that children who say they are trans are more suicidal https://archive.ph/h0BtF

However Mermaids, Stonewall and India Willoughby are pushing puberty blockers as safe.

https://x.com/stonewalluk/status/1767603259932361036?s=

https://www.tiktok.com/@mermaidsgenderr*/photo/7345520902936726816?isfrommwebapp=1&senderdevice=mobile&senderrweb_id=7345629783211378209

https://x.com/indiawilloughby/status/1767595379921404151?s=46

AIBU to think that anyone pushing puberty blockers at this point is unethical? And that they should never have been allowed to be given to children who did not need them for precocious puberty where the risks are weighed up against the side effects and they are only used short term?

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EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 13:31

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/03/2024 13:29

Yes. I've seen training materials from a range of trans activist groups - all including the lie that puberty blockers pause puberty and are reversible. These materials are aimed at children, parents and adults who work with children - including medics. All promote immediate affirmation of children.
Most of these materials / training have to be purchased and there are sadly enough "useful idiots" working in education and health who purchase and disseminate them.
That's how all this works - to the financial & ideological benefit of queer theorists and to the detriment of children.

Yes this is where we are. It’s abusive because children have no choice but to trust adults pushing it

I would love to see some actual financial or other ramifications to this

Helleofabore · 13/03/2024 13:33

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 13:23

I think you might have missed my point which is that I have no idea whether the studies or the commentary on them is accurate, driven by any personal views or biases. I don't know those individuals commenting on any of the studies to know if they are experts in the field, reliable commentators or none of the above but these threads always seem to continue to quote people and organizations as gospel who I've never heard of and have no idea of their reliability to assess multiple studies and data. And please don't use the 'i'm trying to silence people' argument. I'm not silencing debate just suggesting that maybe, assuming neither of us or most of the people on this thread have any qualifications in medicine or the data fields, that whilst we can certainly have our own opinion, we might not be best placed to advocate for a complete shutdown of one branch of medicine. I would never have breast augmentation because the idea terrifies me but I accept for other people that maybe an option they choose to take. Medical treatments all have risks. I have monthly injections which can reduce my bone density but it's an informed decision I made in conjunction with my doctor because the treatment benefits out way the risks - for me. And that's my point. It's about a personal decision made with all the information available and with the support of people with better knowledge than me.

"It's about a personal decision made with all the information available and with the support of people with better knowledge than me."

yes. We get it.

You haven't done the reading, so you don't seem to have grasped the issues in getting patients the accurate and indepth information that they need to make the decision. And you don't seem to understand that this is about children and what they can and cannot ethically make an informed decision on.

Froodwithatowel · 13/03/2024 13:37

Worth too keeping in mind.

For PBs to be easily, quickly available to children has been the preferred path of a very rich, powerful, influential lobby that the establishment is very scared to upset.

Their influence has been huge, wide ranging, including being allowed to freely misrepresent the law and teach children that drugs are safe and reversible long after the evidence was clear that this was not true.

If there was evidence that made this path the right one for children this lobby would have made sure it was very widely known and represented, including in the several court cases where it was relevant. Instead, the lobby have been extremely reluctant and wanted to avoid and prevent research or evidence being collated.

The NHS has not reached this decision quickly or willingly, and will have had the lobby trying to drag them back every inch of the way. They will have been under intense political pressure.

That they are now making this unequivocal decision suggests to me that the Cass report holds information that made not acting even worse than the political outcomes of acting.

TheKeatingFive · 13/03/2024 13:38

Helleofabore · 13/03/2024 13:33

"It's about a personal decision made with all the information available and with the support of people with better knowledge than me."

yes. We get it.

You haven't done the reading, so you don't seem to have grasped the issues in getting patients the accurate and indepth information that they need to make the decision. And you don't seem to understand that this is about children and what they can and cannot ethically make an informed decision on.

Exactly

Firstly, we do not know the long term effects of puberty blockers on these children. Because that research work has not been done. As the Cass report indicated, even basic follow ups with patients have been neglected. I wonder why?

Secondly, we are asking children to consider things they cannot possibly understand let alone consent to. Their future sex lives, their fertility - that's just the basics.

The WPATH leak makes it totally clear that the doctors advocating these treatments knew perfectly well that children didn't understand the ramifications. But they ploughed in ahead regardless.

So yes, do the reading and inform yourself. Wake up basically, because these are vulnerable children we are talking about and it is incumbent on all of us to understand what is going on.

TheKeatingFive · 13/03/2024 13:40

The NHS has not reached this decision quickly or willingly, and will have had the lobby trying to drag them back every inch of the way. They will have been under intense political pressure.

That they are now making this unequivocal decision suggests to me that the Cass report holds information that made not acting even worse than the political outcomes of acting.

Quite. The Cass report will be some reading, I'm sure.

pickledandpuzzled · 13/03/2024 13:40

@newyorker74 I don’t understand your position. You are saying leave it to the experts and the patient.
The experts are saying ‘No, too dangerous, not enough benefit to take the risk ‘

The patients are children- before puberty- so unable to understand the risks. They do not have sex drives, haven’t orgasmed and don’t know what they are giving up. And they never will.

Most kids think sex is yucky and babies smell. Adults tend to disagree.

Kids can’t choose a lifelong disability.

Whose interests can it possibly benefit to prevent children growing up properly?

MadamVastra · 13/03/2024 13:45

I am flinging likes out left right and centre on this thread! 👏

ArabellaScott · 13/03/2024 13:54

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 13:05

I'm not a doctor or health care researcher who studies data from medical treatments but I know a large number due to my job. In order to get a job in my firm to interpret scientific studies, you have to have a PhD to even get an interview. I guess my point is that it's extremely difficult for any lay person to fully understand these studies and whether they are all agreeing or disagreeing, whether the study was well done or badly written (read anything by Ben goldacre to scare you about how badly medical studies can be set up, run and documented) and therefore come to any conclusions about what the long term impact may be. So maybe this is one of those decisions that should be left to the young person in conjunction with their doctors and guardians. Rather than a lot of people online deciding that it should be stopped across the board with, and I include myself in this group, no qualifications to make that decision. Leave the experts to expert is my general rule.

Is David Bell enough of an expert for you?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001x4l9

From around 06.30

Dr Bell is an ex governor of the Tavistock and Portman.

PM - 12/03/2024 - BBC Sounds

Afternoon news and current affairs programme

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001x4l9

StephanieSuperpowers · 13/03/2024 13:55

Leave the experts to expert is my general rule.

Is this trite and extremely childish expression supposed to indicate that there's no need for you to inform yourself in any way at all about things that you support because you airily assume that the likes of WPATH are ethical and doing a super job so it's probably all fine?

ArabellaScott · 13/03/2024 13:56

TheKeatingFive · 13/03/2024 13:21

I think the release of the WPATH whistleblowing has been hugely influential in this decision.

Not that you'd know that from its coverage in mainstream media. 🙄

Following this material, it is no longer an option for the NHS to say they were following WPATH and were happy with their approach and credentials. A key foundation stone has been dislodged.

Nottingham Trans Health centre still links to WPATH's SoC version 8, the one with the references to The Eunuch Archive.

This is the document (the SoC 8) that led NHS Scotland to report to Police Scotland for 'images of child sex abuse' after they hosted it on their website.

https://ncth.nhs.uk/other-gp-guidance/

Other GP guidance

There are various places where medical professionals can find details about the treatment of trans and gender diverse individuals.

https://ncth.nhs.uk/other-gp-guidance

anyolddinosaur · 13/03/2024 14:07

@newyorker74 This is a medical scandal to rival thalidomide.

I'm not going to out myself but I actually am more than competent to assess research studies, hence my comment above. I normally support the NHS but I am utterly ashamed of the way they have behaved over this. They have finally stopped caving in to pressure groups, too late for many damaged young people.

If you dont feel able to make a decision on this yourself that's fair enough - but if I felt like that I wouldnt say anything. Celebrities who support this generally dont have the knowledge to take a decision either.

We dont support young people in any other form of self harm, that's what puberty blockers are.

EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 14:09

anyolddinosaur · 13/03/2024 14:07

@newyorker74 This is a medical scandal to rival thalidomide.

I'm not going to out myself but I actually am more than competent to assess research studies, hence my comment above. I normally support the NHS but I am utterly ashamed of the way they have behaved over this. They have finally stopped caving in to pressure groups, too late for many damaged young people.

If you dont feel able to make a decision on this yourself that's fair enough - but if I felt like that I wouldnt say anything. Celebrities who support this generally dont have the knowledge to take a decision either.

We dont support young people in any other form of self harm, that's what puberty blockers are.

This is a medical scandal to rival thalidomide.

Yes gender ideology as a whole is

I cannot wait until exposure phase kicks in properly

PrincessTeaSet · 13/03/2024 14:10

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 13:23

I think you might have missed my point which is that I have no idea whether the studies or the commentary on them is accurate, driven by any personal views or biases. I don't know those individuals commenting on any of the studies to know if they are experts in the field, reliable commentators or none of the above but these threads always seem to continue to quote people and organizations as gospel who I've never heard of and have no idea of their reliability to assess multiple studies and data. And please don't use the 'i'm trying to silence people' argument. I'm not silencing debate just suggesting that maybe, assuming neither of us or most of the people on this thread have any qualifications in medicine or the data fields, that whilst we can certainly have our own opinion, we might not be best placed to advocate for a complete shutdown of one branch of medicine. I would never have breast augmentation because the idea terrifies me but I accept for other people that maybe an option they choose to take. Medical treatments all have risks. I have monthly injections which can reduce my bone density but it's an informed decision I made in conjunction with my doctor because the treatment benefits out way the risks - for me. And that's my point. It's about a personal decision made with all the information available and with the support of people with better knowledge than me.

Your monthly injection is only available because studies have shown that there is a potential benefit. Your doctor advised you that the benefits outweigh the risks in your specific situation, presumably having discussed different options that all have an evidence base. You will have had some input into the decision making but all based on years of work by scientists that has been distilled into a few bullet points by your doctor and maybe a few Google sites.

This is not at all the same as the use of puberty blockers where the evidence is that they do more harm than good. How can a child possibly know more than a range of experts? Or even, how can a single medical practitioner know more than a range of experts?

Helleofabore · 13/03/2024 14:39

Maybe it doesn't sink in what the 'harm' is.

The impacts proven are:

bone density
major ligament and connective tissue damage have been shown to the be long term effects developed by women after treatment for precocious puberty.
IQ has been shown to be lowered
female people go through a sudden and excruciating menopause
pseudotumor cerebri (idiopathic intracranial hypertension) caused the FDA to issue that warning linked above
severe and long term body aches

This is just from the top of my head.

There is a reason that for women with endometriosis it is limited to a very short duration. Why would someone declare they are safe when women with ends are told that their treatment with the same drugs are to be significantly limited? Where is the disconnect here?

Who exactly benefits from children being given such a low standard of care? And who benefits from people being told that someone else knows best so leave it to the experts?

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 14:56

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 13/03/2024 13:22

I didn't make it up, it's not my assertion, the stats are out there if you google.

As for how many receive treatment, well that's an interesting question isn't it. How many are getting meds online, bypassing the NHS? I know of people who have done that and it's a whole other area of concern.

If you say "As I understand it the majority of young people in this situation, if left alone, will realise that they are not trans" then it's not up to me to provide or look for your stats. If you make an assertion, then be able to back it up. First law of the Internet ;)

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 14:59

PrincessTeaSet · 13/03/2024 14:10

Your monthly injection is only available because studies have shown that there is a potential benefit. Your doctor advised you that the benefits outweigh the risks in your specific situation, presumably having discussed different options that all have an evidence base. You will have had some input into the decision making but all based on years of work by scientists that has been distilled into a few bullet points by your doctor and maybe a few Google sites.

This is not at all the same as the use of puberty blockers where the evidence is that they do more harm than good. How can a child possibly know more than a range of experts? Or even, how can a single medical practitioner know more than a range of experts?

Not quite true here. My injection has only been licensed for 5 years so, in medical terms, very limited data for what is a life long condition. At least according to my doctor who is the head of his department. However we made a decision to risk against the comparative lack of data because the alternative of using another lesser treatment was detrimental to my quality of life.

EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 15:00

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 14:59

Not quite true here. My injection has only been licensed for 5 years so, in medical terms, very limited data for what is a life long condition. At least according to my doctor who is the head of his department. However we made a decision to risk against the comparative lack of data because the alternative of using another lesser treatment was detrimental to my quality of life.

Great.

What has your treatment got to do with experts deciding no more puberty blockers for children?

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:04

anyolddinosaur · 13/03/2024 14:07

@newyorker74 This is a medical scandal to rival thalidomide.

I'm not going to out myself but I actually am more than competent to assess research studies, hence my comment above. I normally support the NHS but I am utterly ashamed of the way they have behaved over this. They have finally stopped caving in to pressure groups, too late for many damaged young people.

If you dont feel able to make a decision on this yourself that's fair enough - but if I felt like that I wouldnt say anything. Celebrities who support this generally dont have the knowledge to take a decision either.

We dont support young people in any other form of self harm, that's what puberty blockers are.

That's not what I'm saying. I am saying that decisions should be made by the individual in conjunction with their doctor and with all the medical facts available. I'm glad you have the knowledge to make an informed decision should it ever be necessary for you or a loved one. I'm saying that society in general deciding - without the level of specific, trained knowledge you have - should not be be making decisions for other people. Also I'm fine with saying I don't have all the answers to most things in life. I think it would be extremely arrogant to say someone can't voice an opinion because they admit they don't have all the answers. Surely the point of life is admitting that and owning it and then learning?

SabrinaThwaite · 13/03/2024 15:04

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 14:59

Not quite true here. My injection has only been licensed for 5 years so, in medical terms, very limited data for what is a life long condition. At least according to my doctor who is the head of his department. However we made a decision to risk against the comparative lack of data because the alternative of using another lesser treatment was detrimental to my quality of life.

But you, as an adult, have capacity to make an informed decision and give consent to treatment.

This is in no way comparable to an 11 or 12 yr old child being asked to consent to a drug developed for short term use and with unknown consequences when used in a way it was not designed for.

EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 15:07

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:04

That's not what I'm saying. I am saying that decisions should be made by the individual in conjunction with their doctor and with all the medical facts available. I'm glad you have the knowledge to make an informed decision should it ever be necessary for you or a loved one. I'm saying that society in general deciding - without the level of specific, trained knowledge you have - should not be be making decisions for other people. Also I'm fine with saying I don't have all the answers to most things in life. I think it would be extremely arrogant to say someone can't voice an opinion because they admit they don't have all the answers. Surely the point of life is admitting that and owning it and then learning?

We have guidelines for all sorts of treatment

It will apply here too as people who know more have decided it’s best for children

You say you defer to experts, so there you go it’s been decided by them

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:08

EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 15:00

Great.

What has your treatment got to do with experts deciding no more puberty blockers for children?

Because people are saying that beta blockers have limited data available to prove long term impacts. I was using my examples of regularly taking a drug which also has limited long term impact studies as an example of where risk can be considered and motivated to make the treatment worth doing.

anyolddinosaur · 13/03/2024 15:11

Adults can, with the help of their medical advisors, make informed decisions. Children dont actually develop fully adult brains until around 25. Adults need to protect children from making ill-informed decisions whose consequences they cant fully understand. I say ill informed because they were frequently not given accurate information or time to properly consider. Many had no experience of what they were giving up.

When society knows that children are not being protected society has a duty to step in and make sure they are. That is finally happening.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/03/2024 15:11

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:04

That's not what I'm saying. I am saying that decisions should be made by the individual in conjunction with their doctor and with all the medical facts available. I'm glad you have the knowledge to make an informed decision should it ever be necessary for you or a loved one. I'm saying that society in general deciding - without the level of specific, trained knowledge you have - should not be be making decisions for other people. Also I'm fine with saying I don't have all the answers to most things in life. I think it would be extremely arrogant to say someone can't voice an opinion because they admit they don't have all the answers. Surely the point of life is admitting that and owning it and then learning?

Society doesn't delegate the responsibility for safeguarding to children. The fact we've allowed a group of adults to target them with the belief that their growing bodies are wrong and that a sex change can fix them is unforgivable.
In the light of all the evidence about this extreme medical experimentation on children, it's worrying to see anyone arguing that these children should be allowed to make decisions about their the removal of their future fertility, sex lives, and damaged physical and mental health.

Safeguarding children means sometimes saying no to those seeking to harm children. That's what NHS England have done - said no. At last.

EasternStandard · 13/03/2024 15:13

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:08

Because people are saying that beta blockers have limited data available to prove long term impacts. I was using my examples of regularly taking a drug which also has limited long term impact studies as an example of where risk can be considered and motivated to make the treatment worth doing.

Ok so you say you’re not an expert

People who are have concluded it’s in the interest of children to stop the usage

Can you see they know more to make the decision?

newyorker74 · 13/03/2024 15:15

SabrinaThwaite · 13/03/2024 15:04

But you, as an adult, have capacity to make an informed decision and give consent to treatment.

This is in no way comparable to an 11 or 12 yr old child being asked to consent to a drug developed for short term use and with unknown consequences when used in a way it was not designed for.

That's a totally fair comment. I'd be interested to know what the decision making/approval process is for that age of person who accesses beta blockers for other uses - if indeed they are available for any other use. I would hope there is already a process in place for the support of vet young people to make informed decisions.

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