Hatred never makes the world a better place.
You say you are not affected by hatred but it appears that the younger generation of young white men are affected. They are being radicalised by extremists who are picking up on their alienation caused, in part, by unrelenting hatred of their sex.
You might have the advantage of being a successful man and all criticism therefore bounces off you. Afterall alpha males are not going to weep over a bit of criticism. But don't forget there are many white men who are not successful. They will be affected by criticism, particularly if that criticism is undeserved.
Your last comment is not as profound as you think it is. Racism and misogyny are built on hate. They thrive on hate. They exist because of hate. There is also an abuse of power, but if there was no hate the power would not be abused.
Happily we have created a world where some of the power now lies in the hands of women and black people. You would allow those powerful women and black people to bully unsuccessful men. Shame on you.
There is also a type of man who likes to curry favour with women by criticising other men. He sees his role as a hero, a saviour of women. He is not like other men. He is far better. They might or might not be alpha males.