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Tory donor openly states Dianne Abbot should be shot..

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VestibuleVirgin · 12/03/2024 07:15

Frank Hestor reportedly said: “It’s like trying not to be racist but you see Diane Abbott on the TV, and you’re just like… you just want to hate all black women because she’s there.
“And I don’t hate all black women at all, but I think she should be shot.
“(The executive) and Diane Abbott need to be shot.”
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/frank-hester-tory-donor-diane-abbott-comments-black-women-labour-b1144631.html

Abominable, disgusting. Aibu to be incecsed by this?
Money allows all sorts of behaviours apparently, particularly if you give a lot of it to a political party.

Tory donor Frank Hester apologises over 'reprehensible' comments about Diane Abbott

Frank Hester has admitted making ‘rude’ comments about the politician but said they had ‘nothing to do with her gender nor colour of skin’

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/frank-hester-tory-donor-diane-abbott-comments-black-women-labour-b1144631.html

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/03/2024 16:19

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 16:13

I am not trying to change the subject, just pointing out the double standard on MN between what people can say about DA and what they can say about Tory WOC without being deleted.

And in answer to your question, not only would I condemn those remarks as racist, but I did condemn them. For the evidence see my first post on the the thread.

But you are trying to change the subject.

The thread is not about double standards on MN. It is not about remarks made by Diane Abbott. It is not about remarks made by Priti Patel, Suella Braverman or Kemi Badenoch. And it is not about how people respond to those remarks. So why are you talking about any of those things here?

This thread is about the racist remarks made by Tory donor, Frank Hester. I am glad that you condemn those remarks as racist. If you don't wish to be seen as trying to minimise that racism, I suggest that you start a separate thread to discuss topics that bear no relevance to this matter.

Clavinova · 12/03/2024 16:23

justteanbiscuits
Start a thread about McDonnell then. Using this thread is just whataboutery

I wasn't the first poster to mention John McDonnell - and you prolonged the agony by defending him.

Rainydayweather · 12/03/2024 16:25

I’m sure what I’m about to say has been said loads on this thread already, but I am genuinely shocked to hear people try to argue this is not racist and misogynistic.

I’m sure that bloke had known many twatty white male politicians or business people. And I also bet he has never once thought, ‘that twatty white make makes me hate all white men’.

And that’s why that comment is racist and sexist you utter arseholes.

phoenixrosehere · 12/03/2024 16:25

Kendodd · 12/03/2024 16:19

Loads of Tories have already come out to say exactly that.

As expected and never surprised.

That’s why covert racism thrives so easily.

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 16:26

@TwigletsAndRadishes, maybe start a thread or put something in site stuff on double standards between the treatment of Abbott and Tory WOC on MN? I think it warrants a separate discussion and it will just get lost here.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/03/2024 16:31

scorpiogirly · 12/03/2024 15:05

Not gonna call out this extreme racism? Or only when it's aimed at Diane?

You can't call out extreme racism when it's in front of you. Instead your reaction is to post more hate, more division and fake news?🤯

WTF is wrong with you?

Notpossibly · 12/03/2024 16:32

Rainydayweather · 12/03/2024 16:25

I’m sure what I’m about to say has been said loads on this thread already, but I am genuinely shocked to hear people try to argue this is not racist and misogynistic.

I’m sure that bloke had known many twatty white male politicians or business people. And I also bet he has never once thought, ‘that twatty white make makes me hate all white men’.

And that’s why that comment is racist and sexist you utter arseholes.

But that was one of the first replies on this thread. And I think it was agreed ( I can't remember any dissent) that it was perfectly acceptable to hate men, especially white men.
That didn't seem to upset MN at all.

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 16:35

That's a complete non sequitur .

hellesbells · 12/03/2024 16:36

Daisybuttercup12345 · 12/03/2024 12:56

I don't like her. BUT what that man said about her is absolutely disgusting. She really should get the police involved.

Another "I dont like her" no chance of you just stating he is a racist without given your opinion of the victim

LadyKenya · 12/03/2024 16:36

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/03/2024 16:31

You can't call out extreme racism when it's in front of you. Instead your reaction is to post more hate, more division and fake news?🤯

WTF is wrong with you?

I basically asked the question, as to their reason for posting that fakery. I am not holding my breath, waiting for an answer. Funny that they have just ignored that though.

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 16:38

pointythings · 12/03/2024 15:35

@TwigletsAndRadishes I would never condone personal attacks, but speaking for myself I find Priti Patel et al repulsive because of the policies they promote and support. And the fact that they promote those policies does speak to their character and their morals. Their sex and skin colour are irrelevant in this.

Whereas what Frank Hester said about Diane Abbott was very much about her sex and her skin colour and therefore both racist and sexist. If a Labour donor said similar about Suella Braverman, my response would be the same.

And many people find DA repulsive and objectionable for very similar reasons. Her language, her opinions, her hypcrocisy and her policies. They also believe it speaks to her character and her morals. Her sex and her skin colour is irrelevent.

But we are constantly told on MN that where DA is concerned it is NEVER irrelevant and it's always at the heart of everything.

That's my whole point. Double standards. Don't get me wrong, I don't have any trouble in believing that plenty of racists resent her primarily because she's an assertive, outspoken and highly successful black woman, I fully accept that. And of course a racist is going to be delighted every time she fucks up, or 'misspeaks' or says something pretty racist or bigoted herself.

What I just won't accept is that virtually everyone who is critical of DA is doing it simply because they are a racist.

DuncinToffee · 12/03/2024 16:38

Badenoch, minister for Women and Equalities has release a tweet

https://twitter.com/KemiBadenoch/status/1767586269138231580?t=7U-rqiHdMbkmucGGrK5Vfw&s=19

Hester’s 2019 comments, as reported, were racist. I welcome his apology.

Abbott and I disagree on a lot. But the idea of linking criticism of her, to being a black woman is appalling.

It’s never acceptable to conflate someone’s views with the colour of their skin…(1/2)

MPs have a difficult job balancing multiple interests -often under threats of intimidation as we saw recently in parliament.

Some people make flippant comments without thinking of this context.

This is why there needs to be space for forgiveness where there is contrition

HannibalHeyes · 12/03/2024 16:43

Ah, "space for forgiveness" - but only if they've given us £10 million...

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/03/2024 16:46

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 16:38

And many people find DA repulsive and objectionable for very similar reasons. Her language, her opinions, her hypcrocisy and her policies. They also believe it speaks to her character and her morals. Her sex and her skin colour is irrelevent.

But we are constantly told on MN that where DA is concerned it is NEVER irrelevant and it's always at the heart of everything.

That's my whole point. Double standards. Don't get me wrong, I don't have any trouble in believing that plenty of racists resent her primarily because she's an assertive, outspoken and highly successful black woman, I fully accept that. And of course a racist is going to be delighted every time she fucks up, or 'misspeaks' or says something pretty racist or bigoted herself.

What I just won't accept is that virtually everyone who is critical of DA is doing it simply because they are a racist.

But this thread isn't about everyone who is critical of Diane Abbott. It's about one man's racist remarks about Diane Abbott.

The question of whether others are racist in their criticisms of her or not has no bearing on the question of whether Hester's remarks were racist. Why are other issues even being brought into this discussion?

Notonthestairs · 12/03/2024 16:52

HannibalHeyes · 12/03/2024 16:43

Ah, "space for forgiveness" - but only if they've given us £10 million...

So, Conservative Party, what first attracted you to multimillionaire, racist & misogynist, Frank Hester.

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 16:53

I'm glad Badenoch has spoken up and called it racism. That is a very carefully crafted choice of words, though, especially the opening reference to 2019.

Now Sunak is in a tricky situation. He still hasn't said anything at all directly, only though his spokesperson. Come on, show some spine!

DuncinToffee · 12/03/2024 16:55

Diane Abbott has reported Frank Hester to police over comments that she ‘should be shot’

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 16:55

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/03/2024 16:46

But this thread isn't about everyone who is critical of Diane Abbott. It's about one man's racist remarks about Diane Abbott.

The question of whether others are racist in their criticisms of her or not has no bearing on the question of whether Hester's remarks were racist. Why are other issues even being brought into this discussion?

Because as is always the way with these things, side shoots are created from the main stem of the topic that may not be directly related, but are very much indirectly related. Discussions are never completely linear or one dimensional.

Ireolu · 12/03/2024 16:55

Comments are clearly racist and it appears Hester has form for racist & misogynistic behaviour. Let's watch as the conservatives all line up to forgive him.

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 16:56

DuncinToffee · 12/03/2024 16:55

Diane Abbott has reported Frank Hester to police over comments that she ‘should be shot’

Good for her.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/03/2024 17:01

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 16:55

Because as is always the way with these things, side shoots are created from the main stem of the topic that may not be directly related, but are very much indirectly related. Discussions are never completely linear or one dimensional.

Edited

But when people deliberately keep pushing "side shoots" that are unrelated to the thread topic, it is usually fairly evident that their agenda is to divert attention away from the matter under discussion. Which inevitably begs the question as to why they are so eager to change the subject.

fleurneige · 12/03/2024 17:04

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 16:56

Good for her.

Great to hear.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/03/2024 17:04

DuncinToffee · 12/03/2024 16:55

Diane Abbott has reported Frank Hester to police over comments that she ‘should be shot’

Good for her.

And good for Kemi Badenoch for acknowledging that the comments were racist.

Space for forgiveness where there is contrition? I'm not sure that we've seen anything that looks like true contrition yet, but I'm sure that for the sake of £10million, there will be plenty of Tories who will be glad to overlook that.

Dweetfidilove · 12/03/2024 17:05

TwigletsAndRadishes · 12/03/2024 15:25

While I do agree with everything you just said, I find it astonishing that insults and slurs aimed at Pritti Patel, Kemi Badenoch and Suella Braverman on MN go largely unreported. The people who usually claim to care so much about racism and misogyny towards DA don't seem to care at all about abuse flung at Tory WOC.

Obviously if something is overtly racist, it will be deleted. But with DA it's often the case that, even when criticism of her on MN or social media in general has been triggered by her yet again opening her mouth and putting one of her oddly shod feet in it by saying something inaccurate, nonsensical or offensive, she is seen as untouchable on MN and anyone who thinks otherwise is clearly just a racist who is out to bring her down.

Whereas with the three Tory WOC the same rules do seem to not apply, even if they haven't actually said anything specific that is massively stupid or problematic. Just the mere fact of their existence as Tories doing their jobs seems to be enough to make them fair game.

A case in point is that there is are posts on MN where someone called Pritti Patel a 'that vile bitch; and another called Suella Braverman 'a fucking bitch.'

If anyone had said that about DA it would have been reported and deleted within minutes. Even a post just calling her 'vile' would get deleted, let alone a 'vile bitch.'

I have no respect whatsoever for most of DA's opinions and I do not share her politics, though I do respect her for being a trailblazer for black British women in general. I think she says some pretty questionable and revolting things but I would NEVER call her a vile bitch, either publicly or privately.

Yet the same people who leap to the defence of DA and insist that any criticism of her simply must be rooted in racism don't feel at all exercised to show the same levels of outrage when someone on MN calls PP or SB a vile/fucking bitch. They don't seem to find it offensive or misogynistic and presumably they don't jump to the conclusion that it's rooted in racism either. It's very strange.

I didn’t realise there’s a DA fan club in MN that always leaps to her defence- I must check that out.

I care about racism and misogyny, so I f I see any posts here attacking the women you mention for being ‘women’ or black/brown women’, best believe I will defend them against such hate.

As it stands, I can’t defend their politics, so when I see people calling them awful names as a result of their awful displays and utterances, I pass right on by.

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 17:12

If you must push this, I'd be keen to find the evidence that every slur directed at DA is deleted. Or indeed that every racist post about whoever is, since I have reported very many.

I'd also be keen to see evidence of undeleted racism aimed at the other women you mention.

It's not a competition but it is nonetheless an established fact that the volume of abuse hurled at DA is more than all other women in parliament put together.

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