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Today in Aldi

292 replies

User884721 · 11/03/2024 14:50

a woman asked me to hold her dog at the checkout while she packed her shopping. Was I BU to say no?

The woman in front of me was unloading her trolley onto the conveyor belt with one hand and holding a dog under her other arm. Is it a pug, the one with the squashed up face? Anyway, it wasn't happy and was wriggling around.

She asked if I could hold the dog so she could pack her shopping properly in her bags. I said no. She said she couldn't put the dog on the ground because it didn't like the feel of the floor under its feet. I still said no. She then took absolutely ages making a point of packing her shopping with one hand. At the checkout. While holding a dog.

The checkout operator told her dogs were not allowed in Aldi and she replied "well that's why I'm carrying her". Nothing more was said.

I know mumsnet will probably be divided into those who would be delighted to hold a stranger's dog then pack up their loose fruit and veg. I'm not one of those people.

Would you have held her dog?

OP posts:
W0tnow · 11/03/2024 14:51

That’s nuts. Are people getting more 🦇 💩?

Edited for clarity: I’m referring to pug holding woman, not the OP.

Also, since when is a dog not ‘in’ a store if it’s being held?

CarrieHain · 11/03/2024 14:52

No way

Toddlerteaplease · 11/03/2024 14:52

I don't like dogs, but would have enjoyed a cuddle with a squishy faced dog.

LuckyPaisley · 11/03/2024 14:52

I love holding other people's dogs but this woman was rude and cheeky and quite frankly the dog needs to toughen up - doesn't like the feel of the floor under its feet. Wtf?!

MissHoollie · 11/03/2024 14:53

I'd have done it but seriously been cross with myself for doing it!
Well done for.not.
I'm a mug

BoohooWoohoo · 11/03/2024 14:53

I’m not allergic but still wouldn’t. Only service dogs should be in a supermarket

Upallnight2 · 11/03/2024 14:54

I love dogs, but as a matter of principle I would have said no too. I don't think they should be in shops. Cheeky fucker

MsCupcake · 11/03/2024 14:54

Definitely not BU, and I love dogs and always up for a cuddle with any I see.
But, mine gets left at home while I am shopping because, well, that’s what you do isn’t it?

Guavafish1 · 11/03/2024 14:54

That's fine. But as long as you didn't mind waiting whilst she packed with one hand.

Willmafrockfit · 11/03/2024 14:55

no, silly woman
i carried my dog into the supermarket, needs must, but would not have asked anyone else to carry her for me

Pirelli · 11/03/2024 14:55

I would have held the dog.

Deadringer · 11/03/2024 14:55

I would hold a baby but not a dog, it might snap at me! People are getting crazier, last time I was in aldi the man behind me in the queue had a very large parrot on his shoulder.😳

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/03/2024 14:55

Never seen dogs in our Aldi at all.

AllEars112232 · 11/03/2024 14:55

What is it with people taking dogs into shops these days? Last few times if been to John Lewis they're have been did is all sizes walking around.
Those poor animals!!
Op you were not being unreasonable.

User884721 · 11/03/2024 14:56

BoohooWoohoo · 11/03/2024 14:53

I’m not allergic but still wouldn’t. Only service dogs should be in a supermarket

At least she didn't try to pretend it was a service dog. That would probably have annoyed me more.

The checkout guy didn't have a clue how to reply when she said "That's why I'm carrying her". Maybe she thought dogs just aren't allowed on the ground?

OP posts:
PandaCwtch · 11/03/2024 14:56

I'm a dog person, but this is crazy people behaviour. I can't believe she got all the way round Aldi unchallenged.

Also, the logic that dogs aren't allowed, so "well that's why I'm carrying her". Honestly 😂

Herdinggoats · 11/03/2024 14:56

Go to M&S, don’t get this kind of nonsense there.

All2Well · 11/03/2024 14:56

I hate dogs so I probably would have said "No. I'm allergic." and entered into no further conversation about it.

MerryChristmasToYou · 11/03/2024 14:57

I never get this in Waitrose

MonsteraMama · 11/03/2024 14:57

Herdinggoats · 11/03/2024 14:56

Go to M&S, don’t get this kind of nonsense there.

You absolutely do

Dacadactyl · 11/03/2024 14:57

No way.

What a gross specimen she was!

I'd actually put in a complaint to that particular aldi store and head office over it.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 11/03/2024 14:57

I've voted yanbu but I would have held it.

pootlin · 11/03/2024 14:58

I don't have pets but like toddler, I'd have happily held a squishy faced pug.

I'd maybe have asked her for her coat first and then held the dog in that incase he did a poo.

EatSprayGlove · 11/03/2024 14:58

I'm massively allergic to dogs so I wouldn't have held it, moreover I'd have probably had to leave the queue rather than stand behind one. I'm currently off sick having been unexpectedly close to a dog yesterday (adding in to explain why I'm slightly grumpy in this post)

Giggorata · 11/03/2024 14:58

I consider myself quite doggy, but I wouldn't have:

  1. Held a strange dog
  2. Held a stranger's dog
  3. Colluded with a dog being in a supermarket.
  4. Been keen to interact with a squashed face mutant dog that can't breathe, poor thing.