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Tell me a weird fear/phobia you have

308 replies

WhimsicalMoth · 10/03/2024 21:51

I don't meal like bugs, heights, death ... I mean something strange.. unconventional.. something that might need a bit of explanation.

I'll go first -

Water towers ... the thought of them makes me shudder.

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Dita73 · 11/03/2024 10:01

Mould on food. If I see it,immediate panic attack

Poundshop · 11/03/2024 10:02

Dog poo. Cat poo.

LadyAsnowt · 11/03/2024 10:02

Keepingongoing · 10/03/2024 22:02

Slugs.
Especially the big ones. I found one in my fridge once. That was a difficult day.

Me too @Keepingongoing . I trod on one in the kitchen in socks one night (I had socks on, not the slug). I feel your horror.

pootlin · 11/03/2024 10:06

I have trypophobia, which must be common, but it’s horrible.

Rainydayinlondon · 11/03/2024 10:08

Blankscreen · 10/03/2024 23:18

The thought of crumbs dust down the side or back of public seats, especially train seats. I can't lean back on a train journey. I perch on the front of the seat.

I think crumbs are the least of your worries!!

Scrumbleton · 11/03/2024 10:12

brian cox
hair in drains
people with waist length or longer hair
wooden ice cream spoons
men with long finger nails

StopTheBusINeedAWeeWeeAWeeWeeBagOChips · 11/03/2024 10:18

I'm astounded that others have a phobia of certain people.

I've never met anyone else who has a phobia of a person before.

Glad to see it's relatively normal.

bwage · 11/03/2024 10:22

Things shaped like sharks - planes, the hulls of large ships. I can look at pictures of them, I can travel in them, I just can't stand alongside them without my heart racing

KrushedIvy · 11/03/2024 10:26

Rivers . I always think they are treacherous. Deceiving. They can look so calm and inviting just paddle in the shallows and then bang ❗️ you're gone , pulled under by the current . I don't even like looking at them.

BeretRaspberry · 11/03/2024 10:27

WhimsicalMoth · 11/03/2024 09:49

@BeretRaspberry my nan has this about getting her blood pressure taken. She's had it since she was young. She calls it white coat syndrome... I think it is a thing.

White coat syndrome is usually when it’s taken in the doctor’s but ok at home, I think. I’m the same anywhere!

My husband checks his periodically at home as he’s on meds and as soon as the monitor comes out of the cupboard I can start with anxiety and sometimes panic. It’s baffling and awful, especially as it seemed to come out of nowhere.

Rainydayinlondon · 11/03/2024 10:44

Mine is people who have a “frog” in their throat and not clearing it and continue to speak in a squeaky voice so I can imagine the catarrh impeding their voicebox 🤢

foodglorious · 11/03/2024 10:51

You know the really really soft velvety type fleece material.

I cant touch it, it makes me loose my breath, really odd feeling and have never known anyone to have it

If i accidentally touch it need to rub my hands on something rough to get the feeling away and i cant breath, so bloody odd!!

WhimsicalMoth · 11/03/2024 10:59

Rainydayinlondon · 11/03/2024 10:44

Mine is people who have a “frog” in their throat and not clearing it and continue to speak in a squeaky voice so I can imagine the catarrh impeding their voicebox 🤢

God that is an awful thought 🤢

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Rachie1973 · 11/03/2024 10:59

Lovehearts82 · 10/03/2024 22:04

Trypophobia is mine, but it think its a common one. Its a fear or aversion to small holes, clusters or bumps. 😫 Just typing that made me cringe.

Me too. And how many people are obsessed with aversion therapy to try to overcome it???? I just can’t!

The Sanex advert triggered me, panning under someone’s arm to all those people. Has a visceral reaction. I feel nauseous and ill.

SerenChocolateMuncher · 11/03/2024 11:10

Couldntgiveafunk · 10/03/2024 21:57

The bits in the bottom of the washing up bowl

Me too. Fortunately, we have a dishwasher and my husband deals with any washing up that has to be done in the sink.

Unfortunately, my "phobia" extends to any bits of food where they shouldn't be.

I avoid stacking dirty plates, because I hate finding bits of food stuck on the underside. I have to move quickly when guests attempt to be "helpful" by stacking plates with leftover food on top of each other... 🤢🤢🤮

MrsAvocet · 11/03/2024 13:18

Mugs with black interiors. I find it really difficult to drink from them. I don't like coloured insides in general but I can tolerate paler or brighter colours just about. But if someone gives me a cup of tea in a black mug I will physically struggle to drink it, and I love tea!
Actually, come to think of it I feel similarly about coloured crockery in general, but mugs are the worst. In an ideal world for me all crockery would be white and virtually no food would be.

Mexicansky · 11/03/2024 13:20

Dustpantsandbush · 10/03/2024 21:57

People in animal costumes.

Yes!! This! Especially monkey or gorilla ones.

peachescariad · 11/03/2024 13:21

Morris dancers

ConsumedByCake · 11/03/2024 13:25

The little oval stickers on fruit. I'm going cold just thinking about them. I worked with someone who used to peel them off and stick them around her PC monitor. I couldn't go near her desk.

Also - bananas give me the shivers. I can't bear to touch them. And I'm horrified by fruit that's showing any sign of discoloration or decay, and by fruit detritus - apple cores, banana skins and so on.

Greenpolkadot · 11/03/2024 13:26

JaneIves · 10/03/2024 21:56

Wind turbines.
Creepy bastards.

I hate wind turbines too. They make me think of War of the Worlds.
And I hate seeing film of oil refineries , there's not a living soul to be seen
I also hate ATS tyre place and cardigans that fasten up to the neck..
I'm really weird aren't i

LightSpeeds · 11/03/2024 13:50

WhimsicalMoth · 11/03/2024 09:54

@LightSpeeds when you stood under the wind turbine... did it make a noise ??? I think that would make it more scary for me. I'm thinking of a particular type of noise that would just make me want to die. Enlighten me

It was a long time ago but I remember that when I stood under it, my whole body and head started to feel REALLY weird. It was very unpleasant and frightening. I got my boyfriend to get out of the car too to give it a try. He felt it too.

Would love to try that again 😂 (it took us ages to find the turbine base as we were driving around).

1offnamechange · 11/03/2024 13:55

Flowers. And a lot of plants. Apart from trees, they are fine.
Used to be any flowers but I can deal with very small ones now.

Anything bigger than say a daisy I still wouldn't like to touch but can at least walk past say a bouquet of roses now without flinching.

but proper huge flowers like sunflowers/big tropical things....no way can't go within feet of them.

People think its an odd fear but there have been a surprising amount of films and TV shows about deadly plants so there must be others with it too!

DoYouSmokePaul · 11/03/2024 13:56

The Kelpies!!! I get a full body shudder if I’m unfortunate enough to spot them whilst driving towards Stirling.

I was about to Google them just now to post a photo but I actually was too scared to. The thought of them even gives me the absolute heebie jeebies. Horrible things.

Tarkan · 11/03/2024 13:58

Yes to whoever said clicking fingers.

There have been a few things on TV where they click fingers instead of clapping and it freaks me out.

MoisturiseYourMoose · 11/03/2024 14:02

Not a phobia per se but Macy Gray’s voice makes me want to vomit. It’s very strange and has been going on since I was teenager!